There are no social realities and personal emotions that are striking

No matter how ordinary people are, they will have the same thoughts and moods as you, and I am the same as you.

At present, the people around us work with emotions, but the work they do is not a kind of emotional labor.

Strictly speaking, your psychology does not transcend society, nor does it fail to keep up with society. First of all, it is difficult to compare people's "psychology" as a material, and at the same time, it depends on how you understand this "psychology", "whether the "psychology" is mature or not is directly proportional to your thoughts and wisdom, and your wisdom and thoughts do not surpass social wisdom and thoughts, how can psychology surpass? (Leonardo da Vinci surpassed the thinking and wisdom of that era) and then, you are "not unable to keep up with society" but are rejecting and resisting, you have realized that some dark sides of human society, the fear of the dark side is the direct cause, and the negative emotions of human beings and many dark psychology are inevitable, the same as shadows.

It's up to you how you look and respond.

What you need to do is practice, use some exercises to hone your will, know how to control yourself, open your heart to those close to you, at least in front of them you can "say nothing, do nothing". Above.

People can't know, but they can know and don't know.

It is a good habit to love reading and thinking, but it is necessary to communicate with others to improve better.

Three stinkers, one Zhuge Liang, a group of mortals may be more intelligent than one wise man.

This social and human beings are interdependent, and it is impossible for one person to transcend them.

You may fall into the trap of emptiness.

It's best to learn and think about what you are doing at the moment, because what you're thinking isn't going to help you at the moment.

As long as you can work hard, you will definitely get out of the predicament.

Be strong buddy, you can do it!

If others can do it, I will definitely be able to, because we are all human and I also love psychology, so make friends! - Oh, this is a personal personality, how can there be an era?!

Now is the time

When I first saw it, I thought it was a little autistic, but after reading it, it was actually the basic reason for low self-esteem. A bit self-centered. The books you read are good, and I like them too, but I recommend that you adjust your mindset to read them. Because the psychological aspect involves physiology and spirituality.

Sometimes it's better not to understand than to understand, because it's hard to get confused, and seeing through everything will make life less fun, unless you can keep yourself from conflicting between the two sides.

You should be humble in the face of anyone, even if you understand, maybe what people say will make you have new ideas.

Calm down and go with the flow.

I'm a girl and can understand what you're saying. Feel the life you describe.

Let's start with your parents.

If your parents do not dislike the rich and the poor, and forcefully prevent you from falling in love with someone on the grounds of character, do not try your best to love him in order to prove them wrong, you will find that you have suffered far more than you imagined, and when you can harvest a little, there is no room for regret in the years. You've just proved that the man is a lot worse than they can see.

It's really right, but I don't think it's the most important thing yet, regardless of the parents.

The main thing is to ask your heart, are you really willing to live with him all the way in the future?

More often, in order to give yourself an explanation, you always stubbornly think that your efforts will be rewarded, but in fact, you have been running on the road of your own imaginary good life, which will make your life more and more tired. More often than not, it's the most valuable thing to find your way back!

You care very much about the two children who are no longer there, which shows that you are a good girl with a pure heart, and you are also a girl who once deeply hurt herself and did not pay her responsibility!!

But what does the side mean? It's not a one-person thing! If you really love you and cherish your man, how can you experience such a painful experience! More than once!!

A lot of things in the past, we should let go, baby, you should cherish yourself. To live a good life, you should leave this man who has now made you hesitate as soon as possible!

I'm a girl in my twenties, and everything from early love to first love to recent breakup happened with the same person. It's just like what you said. Although I haven't hit a child, but I've grown so big, I just like this one person.

used to be very beautiful, very beautiful, thinking that they would be together in the end. It's like talking to you.

You have spoken between the lines of your disappointment and despair!! Don't always wait for a miracle! A change in a man's personality and living habits is an absolute miracle within a miracle.

What's more, our youth is really short. We can't afford to wait!! It's not about how realistic society is, how powerful people are!

Definitely we shouldn't waste our youth for people who are absolutely unworthy, maybe you don't think it's as serious as I said, but, my dear, you have to be obedient and let it end before it gets serious!

The pain of the past, time has passed, and it will slowly fade, who said that no one will want you after beating a child? Be kind to yourself! That's all that matters!!

It's all to blame for being too blind when you love.

Actually, I'm just like you, I beat a kid for him.

I love him so much that I am good to him and I give a lot to him.

But you don't get what you want.

I thought that if I kept trying, I would get results.

But what is the result, I don't have confidence at all, and I can't imagine that in the end, I will come to a conclusion: women should be good to themselves, and everything should be for themselves!

What's so bad about being selfish in this society?

There is undying love, but you have not met it.

Because it takes a lot of reasons: 1. The conditions of both sides are comparable.

2. Both parties have similar personalities and have the same hobbies.

3. Be willing to give and change for each other.

4. The environment in which they fall in love is beautiful.

How many of these do you have?

These are the realities, if you don't have the reality, how can you be unswerving to death? Because of such a rare condition, it is difficult to find it again, of course, until death!

First of all, there is true love in this world, love is a kind of faith, is there a God in this world? Faith is there, unbelief is not, and love is the same. When he renounces this faith, love becomes a nothingness and meaningless thing.

Of course, love has a freshness for many people, and this is helpless. I have also met people who have survived to death, and in general, people who believe in love need to meet another person who has the same faith, and of course this is difficult, and many people will give up this belief after being hurt.

Second, what I want to say is that this man is not a good person, I am a man, if I were him, the first time you made ** careless, but the second time is definitely not cherished and loved, only care about the result of your own enjoyment. According to what you said, this man is not even self-motivated, and if he really loves you, he will definitely want to give you a good life. and his future you have to think clearly, when the interruption continues, it will ruin you.

Third, it's not that no one wants it if you have had two fetus, don't be sad, after the divorce, many people want it, even if they don't really love each other, there are many like-minded or okay men. It's just that you have to be cautious next time.

I think your family is right, he is of low quality.

It's hard to explain the relationship clearly, but if you're a girl, it's not the same as being married and having lived with someone.

If both parties just want to be accompanied by someone because they want to be in love, it doesn't matter if the other party is the best partner for them.

However, if you are considering the object of marriage, I still hope that girls should be cautious, life is not like wanting to fall in love, as long as sweet words and love can handle everything, and the partner who is not able to bear the family will bring you a lot of harm and torture.

Therefore, if the other party is really not suitable for life, I think you should leave as soon as possible and start your own new life, after all, you are still young, and you still have the time and opportunity to start your new life.

In the end, I hope you can get the happiness you want as soon as possible!

There is no need to feel sorry for the past and blame yourself. The important thing is that when you have been through a lot now, and you have seen everything clearly, do you choose to accept your fate or start anew.

Does he love you? I think maybe it's your wishful thinking. Aside from the emotional aspect, from the essence of marriage, family is two people who rely on each other and work together to survive, which is safer and has a higher quality of life.

This cannot be ignored. But when one side is a weak person in society, or a weak person in life, some people will choose to be strong, but some will rely on the other party to survive, at least in his opinion, he can exist well without paying too much. To put it more directly, parasitism.

I guess your boyfriend is so unmotivated, he belongs to this category?

I'm also a man, and I despise this kind of thing. I also feel sorry for you who are parasitized, for this kind of person who makes you can't see the future at all, is it really worth paying the price of turning against the relatives who gave birth to you and raised you?

Don't say that you are numb to love, because your heart is tired, and you can even say that your heart is about to die, and it is better to mourn than to die. Let it go, find someone who truly loves you, someone who can let you see the future, and a marriage that allows you to get the blessing of your parents.

Don't care if there have been so-called twice. That's not your fault, it only proves that you are giving for love. When we are in love, who can say that the person who will accompany me all my life is not him, and I want to leave all the good things to him?

Life is like this, the road is walked out by itself.

Wrong, crooked, falling, it's okay.

Because this is life, and the ebb and flow of the tide itself is nature.

But you're on the wrong track, and you have to reorient yourself.

If you fall, you have to get back up.

This is also life.

Don't give up, no matter how big the setback, you still have youth.

Who said it was too late to start over.

Is it really irritable, helpless, and painful?

Indulge yourself and get drunk.

Or cry in your mother's arms.

You have to firmly believe that there will be a rainbow after the storm.

Don't wait patiently, try to find it yourself.

99% of the undying love is in **, and 1% is in reality!

If you live in **, then there is!

If you live in reality, then no!

We generally live in ** to talk about the first love, and in reality we get married without talking about love!

this society. 100 18 teenagers. Only 20 NB's.

1000 22 youth only. 10 are capable.

Out of 100,000 28 men, only 1 strong.

I feel like it.,Love can not be said.,Of course, it's too late to say it now.,At the beginning, you gave him everything you have.,That's why he thinks that kind of thing is easy to get.,That kind of person I disdain the most.,But you seem to be in love with him?? (Say the wrong table hit me) start a new life! Will definitely meet a better !! than him

Find another good one. Such a man is not worthy of you, and he doesn't care about you at all, what a man!! ·

Points are guaranteed to score. If you get married in the future, life will not be very good, and it will not be bad. In order to think clearly in the future, don't be confused for a while and be sad for the rest of your life.

Eat until you are seventy percent full, and treat love no more than seventy percent, otherwise you will live a very hard and tiring life.

Society is realistic, if you think about your next generation, you must have a house, the child will grow up soon, and you have to prepare money for the child, everything needs money, no money is absolutely impossible.

You don't want that man, this kind of man is not worth your so much effort. From your literal meaning, you also see it lightly, I believe you understand, just sigh.

Fun, unmotivated men will be useless in the future. Marrying him will be a pain for you for a lifetime, get rid of it early.

I want your 200 points in my heart, I never lie, from the second I open the web page, I have never believed so much!I'm also realistic and honest.

Everyone was once an innocent child, it is because of being hurt, so it is realistic, as (struggle) said, as long as you are motivated, even if you are poor for a lifetime, I am willing, we just hope that we will make our home better and better together, maybe not very rich, but the days will be very fulfilling! Do you want this feeling, in fact, everyone is the same, just hope that the other party cares about themselves and works hard for themselves, even if there is no result, but seeing the way he works, you will be satisfied!

You, like me, pursue pure love, and money is important to us! But it's worthless than love, but if the other party is content with the status quo, the mud can't support the feeling of the wall, and make yourself feel so unbalanced, my parents look down on you so much, can't you make some grades and show them, the man I picked is not wrong! Don't you think so!

Hehe, my girlfriend is just like you, and now I'm working hard and working towards this goal! Go and say to him, Do you love me? If you love me, let my parents see a you who work hard for me, even if they don't look down on you, you are the best in my eyes!

If he doesn't matter, just dump him, a man has no self-esteem at least! It's no longer worthy of your love.