Divorce is inseparable, and if you don t have a good life, what should I do?

The most important thing in the face of marriage is management, if there is a problem in the relationship, don't blame each other, because running a marriage is a matter of two people, it is best to take it seriously in the face of such a situation, and don't always think about escaping if there is a problem in marriage, because only by solving certain problems.

Sometimes both parties will be happier and happier if they take a step back, and if they always stare at each other's shortcomings, it is also an extreme mistake, not necessarily ending the marriage is the happiest, and solving the real problem is the main thing.

Because if you have children in a divorce, it is the children who are guilty, so it is difficult to get married, you have children, who will marry you"Don't argue with people who don't have the same outlook.

Don't complain to people who don't care about you.

Don't please people who don't like you.

It's really not necessary" ​​

insist that Qingshan will not relax, time is not afraid of long, and love must be tenacious; The wax torch turns into ashes and tears begin to dry, hard work is not afraid of long, love must have hard work; The long festival is here, true love is in hand, true love is in the heart, September 9, the Double Ninth Festival is here, I wish you happiness forever!

My dear, I would like to know you until I am old, I am willing to be with you until I am desolate, I am willing to know you until I am desolate. Good night, baby!

Cook a bowl of laba porridge, which is my warm blessing. May you have no worries in your life, auspicious and lucky. Happiness is like a flower spring, and I drink my laba porridge comfortably. Remember to drink it while it's hot, and happy Laba Day! Think clearly before making a decision.

How to break a marriage that is not good and cannot be separated.

The two sides sat down and talked quietly, but they had to be calm.

All is calm. Do not settle the matter with the purpose of quarrelling, both parties must be considerate of each other and humble to each other.

The two sides were separated for a while. Calm down and think about it ...

When marriage is "inseparable and inseparable, and living and not living well", smart women do this.

Divorce.

When you find that the marriage can't go on, it's actually hard to maintain, and the only solution is divorce, after all, a marriage that can't go on has no results.

Divorce is also to make life easier and happier, and you must strengthen your confidence, I have seen too many people who have decided to divorce and relented and repeated the mistakes of the past, repeatedly consuming themselves.

In our real life, in our marriages, and among the couples around us, there are too many people in their marriages who have such a situation: marriage has become a kind of "chicken ribs": eating meat without meat and discarding taste!

What does that mean? In fact, I think everyone in a marriage, especially in a loveless marriage, has a deep understanding of this situation - some people have no love in their marriage, or have had love, and now because of the perennial "perennial quarrels in marriage", or "three different views", or because of "emotional discord", or even because of the other party's "splitting" and other different reasons, there is no "love" in the current marriage. As a result, the current marriage has become a burden for both parties, and two people living in such a marriage have become a kind of "sin"!

Since living in such a marriage is no longer a kind of love, it is no longer a kind of affectionate love, it is a kind of sin, so just say "take care" to each other, and then turn around and leave......

However, how can marriage ever be so simple, when there is no time to say goodbye and say goodbye, and break up when you say goodbye. Often, couples who have no feelings at all, and when two people are together has become a kind of "living sin", when both people want to break up and get rid of this kind of difficult days, they can't leave because of such and such problems. For example, the question of "worrying about the child's growth and injury"; For example, the division of property and so on.

This makes this marriage a marriage that has been bad and bad, and it is inseparable from it.

A marriage that "can't live well, can't leave", to be honest, is a kind of torture for both husband and wife. Whether it's love or marriage, it doesn't say that one person feels very sinful and the other feels very happy. Because emotions are contagious, I am not happy, so naturally I will not be happy because of this marriage.

I'm not happy, and naturally I won't have any smile at you. As a result, this marriage has become a pain for both husband and wife!

Calm down, to each his own. It is to maintain a relationship on the surface, a private person, treat the other party as a relative, ask for advice if necessary, help the other party if necessary, and may not be able to divorce due to face, children and other reasons, so be it

You don't have to be reluctant to have a bad marriage, you can make yourself less stressed, take care of yourself, and if you have children, you can care more about your children's education. If you can't persevere, you can sue the court, or you can communicate well and divorce peacefully. It is really not possible to separate and live separately, but it is possible to maintain the status of husband and wife.

Marriage is unhappy, often because we have too high expectations, so live a good life and make ourselves happy.

Since it is inseparable, and it is not a good marriage, it is very painful to be together, or the two of them will not dry each other and find a person they like, and the two of you can only live together, only in this way will both of them be judged.

You can't live without a bad marriage, so this kind of marriage I think we should communicate with each other, it is best if two people can start from each other's point of view, think about each other, think about each other, I think this kind of marriage is stable.

Since they can't do without, they will work hard for each other and strive to live a good life.

If I don't have children, if I live better alone, then you can leave, if you have children, you still endure it, and then improve yourself in marriage.

In this case, it is really uncomfortable emotionally, you can only say that you want to open a little bit and not make yourself too uncomfortable, after all, life has to go on.

Separation The other party cannot restrict your personal freedom.

It's just that you can't bigamy, and the rest is easy to say as long as you are ruthless.

This is the status quo of most marriages, lack of courage.

If you break away, you will be disturbed if you keep making it.

Marriage is bad and bad, inseparable and inseparable, there are many marriages that make do with this, and it is better to separate marriages like this, which is a relief for each other.

We will meet many such couples in our lives, who have no feelings together, and have even reached the point of indifference or even mutual hatred, but they still have to make do with living together. And the bond between them is likely to be a child, or it may be because of common property, etc.

I don't know if it's the children or something else that you are maintaining the marriage now, if it's because the children can't get married, then you are very wrong, a bad marriage relationship is not conducive to the growth of the child, how can a broken family relationship make the child grow up healthily. It is immoral to use children as an excuse to maintain marriage, have you considered the feelings of children?

I remember one year after the college entrance examination, a candidate rushed out of the examination room and said to his parents: "I have finished the exam, you can get a divorce!" In fact, such a tormenting relationship is not a kind of happiness for oneself.

Children may prefer to see their parents happy rather than force themselves together.

It's not good, you can't leave, and it's really sad to live as a familiar stranger. If you can come together, it's definitely not a forced marriage, why don't you find the reason in this painful marital relationship, give each other a forgiveness, give each other a new life, if there is no deep hatred, why do you have to do these senseless consumption in a limited life, either live well, or break up from now on, let go of each other, and find your own direction in life.

The cost of marriage is high, and the affection of the two is priceless. When the marriage broke down, it was very cheap, and at that moment they were worthless in the eyes of each other.

Therefore, there is always a way to go in life, don't wander in a dead end, turn around and change direction, life is not so hopeless and gloomy, and the sky that comes out is clear and clear. (Suzhu original, infringement is strictly prohibited).

1. When you have time, think about the happiness of your children when they grow up. At that time, the marriage gradually lost any pressure, and it was also freed from various burdens. If you give up the pressure, you will have more time to focus on love, and everything will be fine.

2. Remember the other party's goodness. Not everyone can do housework for you, those women who worship money will not do anything for you, they are all clothes to reach out for food and open their mouths, and they all have to be coaxed by men in front of the saddle and behind the horse. Not everyone can make money for you, a woman has extramarital love, at first others treat you well, but later, they will also dislike you.

Think about the fact that people outside of marriage are not good enough, and you will feel that the real marriage is not bad.

3. When marriage is "not good and inseparable", it is the most difficult practice. The more troubled you are, the more you have to be quiet. When you are about to lose your temper, forcibly let yourself "quiet for three minutes", it will be much better, and the anger will be gone.

4. Be sure to cultivate your mind. Husband and wife should be more sympathetic, chat more, don't have a temper, and be more considerate, and the relationship between each other will last longer. "Be a person who understands him", such a love will definitely accompany you to old age.

Understand, more profound than love. On the path of cultivation, learn to love and understand others, not just understand yourself, and not be self-centered.

5. "Husband and wife are still the original match". When you really want to divorce, go to the "second-married family" to inspect and see if their marriage is as good as you think. It is said that "halfway husband and wife, each leave one hand", whether it is really time to think carefully about it.

I feel that in fact, such a marriage is really divorced, which is the best relief for each other.

Because in fact, as long as you don't get divorced, there will always be two people who are suffering from each other, but two people are still together because of some external circumstances, or maybe because of children and some other aspects.

But this is just to live together and live together, neither of them can draw nourishment from this marriage, neither can get happiness, undoubtedly, it is a waste of time and a waste of each other's lives.

Nothing is inseparable from this marriage, in fact you have children in the middle as a situation, or there are some other reasons, but what's the point here?

If it's for some other reason, I feel like I can try to solve the other situation first, and then think about divorcing, and if I have children, I can continue to raise the children together, but the two of them can find their own lives again.

Because it is obvious that the other person no longer knows the person in your life, and you continue to waste time with him here, it is unfair to both her and to you.

So according to my thoughts, if two people really feel that the relationship is not very good, then they can continue to run in together for a period of time, or it is better for both parties to change it and change the faults and shortcomings of their bodies.

If no one is willing to change, and no one is willing to change for the sake of the other party, then the best way is to divorce and separate.

In this way, we can give each other a space and a better future. Even if two people have a good memory together.

Two people are not happy together and are reluctant to leave, such a marriage state is actually a marriage that exists in name only, and they will not be happy with each other, and patience will be very uncomfortable. Therefore, there is no expression in the face of love, which is irresponsible for life and disrespectful to love. In the face of love, we should communicate better, understand each other's true thoughts in time, and make changes.

Marriages should tolerate each other, understand each other, if you can't get a good life, then you should give each other absolute freedom, this is what love should look like.

Then live your own life.

If one person is helpless about marriage, it means that the other person has half of the reality and can't change the world, so change his direction.

If a person can't make up his mind to divorce, that is, there is a difficult emotional world in reality, and divorce cannot be chosen, so it is important to manage family interactions.

If you don't have a good marriage, then you can live a good world, and if you are willing to divorce and have a denial, then you will be public about your distance from each other.

He is willing to live well, you don't want to divorce, and the fate between you is still up to you.

Understand your mind, understand your mind, and live a good life in the future.

How many people in today's society are suffering in this kind of "half-dead" married life, or because of children, or because of various reasons can not be divorced, in fact, there is no inseparable marriage, but you can't make up your mind, you can't break something, life is just a few decades, you can't waste your life because of this unhappy marriage, if you can't divorce because the child is small, you can wait until the child is a little older and then divorce, it is impossible to be afraid of hurting the child, the long pain is better than the short pain, you want to change the status quo, you must break, The short term may be very difficult, many difficulties will come to you, as long as you can get through it, everything will be bright, if you don't change, you can only suffer in this meaningless life.