Why are some people born to win at the starting line?

Not some people are born to win at the starting line. It is that their predecessors planted trees and enjoyed the shade after their predecessors, and they stood on the road paved by their predecessors, so they naturally had to walk a lot less than others, for example, they also went to school, and those who owned school district houses had an advantage over those who did not.

He wasn't born to win at the starting line, his starting line was won by his parents, his grandparents for generations, there's nothing to say.

Some people are born to win at the starting line, and that's because he was born into a good family, a wealthy family.

If life is a long-distance race, those who are "strong" in hardware are compared to those who have more energy than others. He just has a lot of energy water, and if he doesn't run hard, his energy water is useless to him, or even ineffective. So don't care too much, other people's families are good, if you don't have a good family, you can't raise good children.

It's none of his business, the starting line is because of the resources accumulated by his parents, or the previous generations, if there are the above conditions, even if it is not him, the result is the same if someone else goes.

This really can't be helped, sometimes people don't have to compare people all the time.

Don't lose at the starting line", itself is commercial propaganda, itself is a bowl of toxic chicken soup for the soul, it is creating a sense of anxiety for countless parents, and through anxiety, businesses earn commercial benefits.

As we all know, a person's place of birth cannot be chosen, a person's talents cannot be chosen (such as the voice of an announcer), a person's family cannot be chosen (rich or poor, high or low culture), a person's face, height cannot be chosen, a person's gender cannot be chosen, whether a person has siblings cannot be chosen, and so on, and so on.

From the moment everyone is born, they have their own unique starting line, and there is no unified starting line in this world.

If we have to talk about a starting line, then it can be said that some people win from the moment they are born, and some lose from the moment they are born.

Some people do not win at the starting line, but are born at the end of the line, which means: people's ideals in life are different, some people want to live a good life, and many people born with a golden key directly complete the ideals of this part of the people.

Ideal

Ideal is the beautiful imagination and hope of future things, and it is also a metaphor for the concept of something reaching the most perfect state. It is the yearning and pursuit of people's future society and their own development formed in the process of practice, with the possibility of realization, and the concentrated embodiment of people's world view, outlook on life and values in the goal of struggle.

To meet the immediate material and spiritual needs, but also look forward to the future life goals with Fangfeng, looking forward to meeting higher material and spiritual needs. The unremitting pursuit of the future is the driving force and source of the formation of ideals. Ideal, divided into short-term and long-term.

The short-term generally refers to the goals to be accomplished in the near future. Long-term is generally called lofty ideals, and the struggle time is long, even more than one generation.

Ideal refers to the imagination of the goal that conforms to rational thinking, and it is also the idea of one's own rational treatment of the goal. As a spiritual phenomenon, ideals are the product of human social practice. In the practice of transforming the objective world and the subjective world, people not only pursue the immediate production and life goals, eager to meet the immediate material and spiritual needs, but also look forward to the future production and life goals, and look forward to meeting the future material and spiritual needs.

Never being satisfied with the status quo and unremitting pursuit of the undefended are the source of power for the formation of ideals. In a certain sense, the ideal is the yearning and pursuit of the future society and their own development formed in practice, and is the concentrated embodiment of people's world outlook, outlook on life and values in the goal of struggle.

For example, some people have drifted north all their lives, just seeking a place in Beijing, and it took them one or two decades to get a second-hand house of less than 100 square meters in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. And some people were born in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, sitting back and enjoying their success, and the organization and spiritual world are complete, so such people do not have to fight for the so-called ideals. According to the permanent population of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, nearly 7,000w people, and then counting the people in major first-tier cities, accounting for 4 1 of the total population, but this is relatively speaking, if you have this yearning, it is equivalent to 100 million people in China were born at the finish line.

If you have a hukou in Beijing, your child's peers will call your child the person who was born at the terminal.

Some are born successful and inherit and enjoy the success of their parents only because their parents gave birth to him when they were successful, but he does not necessarily have the ability to keep everything he has or recover what he has lost.

Someone is born to be the protagonist, even if she doesn't look at the camera.

People are really different, some people are born to win at the starting line, with good looks and good family background.

Children without umbrellas must run hard, ordinary children should recognize the reality, the lives of the poor and the rich are very different, people spend seven or eight thousand eyes without blinking, you spend one or two hundred and hesitate for a long time, although it is very pessimistic, but it is a fact, but who doesn't want to win at the starting line!

But while some people win at the starting line, they don't necessarily win at the finish line. The person who succeeds in the end is not the one who starts the fastest, but the one who works hard to persevere.

Most of the celebrities who are very popular today do not all win at the starting line, but through their own efforts, they win at the finish line.

In the entertainment industry where the rich second generation and the second generation of stars are rampant, some stars come from humble backgrounds and have been bullied since childhood, but they have become popular stars in today's entertainment industry through hard work with their own beliefs.

Don't envy who was born with a golden key, who wins at the starting line, but rely on the efforts of the day after tomorrow to double your growth, we can't choose our own family background, we can't let ourselves win at the starting line, but we can change the family background of our next generation through hard work, so that they can win at the starting line.

There are many parents who believe that their children cannot be lost at the starting line in terms of education.

So children will be sent to learn a lot of skills from an early age, and parents will also enroll them in a lot of interest classes, at the very beginning, the children are still young,Even after going to school, the spare time will be arranged by the parents to learn other things, such as piano and speaking, for the child, this pressure is very great, can not let the child grow up carefree, the child will slowly produce a rebellious psychology, will not listen to the parents.

There are many people who think that if the child wins at the starting line, then it can be successful, but in fact, this statement is not correct, what is the starting line? If someone wants to go to Rome, but there are people who were born in Rome, this comparison itself is unfair, and how to compare, and there are many parents who impose their regrets when they were young and do not complete the ambush on their children, hoping that the children will complete their dreams back then, which is also a shackle for the child, the child is an independent personality, parents should respect the child, communicate with the child when encountering things, rather than arbitrarily imposing their own wishes on the child.

In the child's childhood, give the child a happy childhood, guide him to actively understand the world, feel the world, exercise his hands-on and brain ability, then he will not be worse than others in the future, and at the age when the child should be carefree, blindly enrolling the child in a lot of interest classes is also very uncomfortable for the child, so at what age should do what kind of things, at the age when the child should play, you should let the child play well, Don't let him have regrets when he grows up, and there are many factors that cause a person's success, not just that he can succeed after some interest classes in his childhood.

If parents really love their children, they should respect their children's choices, in the process of children's growth, parents can play a guiding role, as a role model for children, to set up a good image for children, tell children what is wrong, what is right, so that children have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, rather than parents in order to blindly pursue success, they will use their children as a tool to compete for fame and fortune, and a good childhood is also of great significance to human growth. Often successful people are not people who have a miserable childhood, because childhood has a very big impact on a person, and parents should give their children a happy childhood instead of pursuing their children to win at the starting line.

No, the most important stage is when the child is in junior high school and high school, and when he is a child, he is better than his peers, which does not mean that he will be the same in the future.

I don't think this statement is true, the child will encounter many things in the rest of his long life, although he won at the starting line, but it is not certain whether he will win the forest pie in the road ahead.

Winning the starting line is to be one step faster than others, but you still have to work hard in the future, have you ever heard of the rabbit and turtle race is this truth,

A person must be self-motivated Winning at the starting line means that you are one step closer to success than others.

If you lose at the starting line, it's really hard to catch up behind!

If people really have a starting line, then I think parents are the starting line for children!

As a parent, no matter how high you want your child to achieve, you have to set a good example for your child! Therefore, if you want your children to be good, parents have to set a good example, life is a long-distance race, there is nothing to be afraid of starting from a different starting point, the main thing is how we do it, at the beginning to cultivate children's interest in learning, rather than passively to learn knowledge, a healthy attitude, sufficient motivation is the most important thing on the road to learning. Therefore, in the early childhood stage and stage, we should help children develop good study habits, develop basic self-control and self-discipline.