Does Jia s mother support the marriage of Baoyu and Daiyu in Dream of Red Mansions?

In the first eighty episodes of Cao Xueqin, Jia's mother has always been supportive, but in Gao E's sequel, Jia's mother is abnormal, and she thinks that she "hurts Daiyu in vain", and Wang Xifeng has always supported Bao Dai, just look at the joke about "eating tea". Xing'er once said to Second Sister You: "In the future, it will be Miss Lin'......."”

Support, the first floor is right, the first eighty times have always been supportive.

It's a pity that on this issue, there is still a power of Mrs. Wang and Yuan Chun, and these two are inclined to Baochai.

How can you understand someone when you oppose him? Understanding requires empathy, understanding requires participation, and understanding means listening fully. But in discussions, in debates, in reasoning, you're not listening to others, you're just pretending to be listening.

In the depths, you are preparing, you are preparing how to refute others.

At first, it was supported, and then it changed, you didn't understand it, huh.

Jia Baoyu is the grandson of Jia's mother, but Jia Zheng and Jia's mother are not biological mother and son, they are adoptive, so naturally Jia Baoyu is counted as a grandson, not a grandson.

Jia Min is the daughter of Jia's mother and gave birth to Lin Daiyu.

Lin Daiyu is the granddaughter of Jia's mother. In the article, Jia Baoyu is always called Lin Daiyu.

Sister Lin is actually correct, in terms of kinship, Lin Daiyu is Jia Baoyu's cousin.

The seventy-ninth chapter of the article continues the paragraph after the idiot boy made up the hibiscus, and the dialogue between Baoyu and Daiyu shows that Lin Daiyu is [interested] in Jia Baoyu. And Jia Baoyu has [no intention] for Lin Daiyu

This relationship is a bit like the relationship between Wang Yuyan and Murong Fu.

Corresponding to Lin Daiyu [Love], Jia Baoyu [Love].

In other words, even if Jia's mother agreed to Baoyu Daiyu's marriage, Baoyu did not agree.

What's more, Jia Mu didn't want Bao Dai and the two to be combined.

Mother Jia has always liked Daiyu more than Baochai, her favorite is Baoyu, if Daiyu and Baoyu are together, she is the most happy to see. Whether it is family affection or aesthetic taste, Jia's mother prefers Daiyu. Jia Min is her only cherished daughter, Daiyu is her own granddaughter, the only person who is related by blood, how can she be willing to let Daiyu marry another and suffer?

In the first 80 chapters of the book, it can be seen that Jia's mother supports Bao Dai both openly and secretly, and she really doesn't like Bao Chai much, but it is a perfunctory look at her relatives' family. Some explanations for Jia's mother not to let Baoyu and Daiyu be together are: Lin Daiyu is not in good health, which is not conducive to inheritance.

In fact, this is not a problem at all, let Baoyu take a concubine, nothing will be solved, and Jia Mu will not even think of this. This is not a problem if you talk about the portal. The Lin family is also a family, a scholarly family, Lin Ruhai is still a tanhua, if he is not a family member, Jia Min will not marry him, so the Lin family and the Jia family are the right family.

A lot of things in Gao E's sequel are not written, and the most powerful supporters of Bao Dai's relationship are actually Jia Mu and Wang Xifeng. Dream of Red Mansions only needs to watch the first 80 times, and the last 40 times are of little value.

First, because Baoyu and Baochai are more connected, and second, Lin Daiyu is sick every day and takes medicine all day long, so she should not be able to afford the position of being the housewife.

The most important thing in ancient marriage is that the family is right, Lin Daiyu's family does not need Jia Baoyu's big family, the status of the two people is very different, Jia's mother will not allow Jia Baoyu to marry Lin Daiyu.

Because even if Mother Jia loves Daiyu again, Baoyu is her lifeline. She still loves Baoyu more, she knows that Daiyu won't live long.

is mainly a matter of status, Mother Jia dislikes Lin Daiyu's status, so Mother Jia will not marry her baby Jia Baoyu to Lin Daiyu.

The main reason why Jia's mother didn't let it was that the identity and status of the two people were too far apart, so Jia's mother wouldn't let Jia Baoyu marry Lin Daiyu.

There are two points: 1. Lin Daiyu's family background is not as good as Xue Baochai, and her marriage is about the right family. 2. Daiyu's character does not conform to the aesthetics of feudal society, she is too rebellious, and the aristocratic class of feudal society will not allow such a free and uninhibited soul to exist.

Lin Daiyu's family background is not as good as Xue Baochai, marriage is about the right family, Daiyu's personality does not conform to the aesthetics of feudal society, she is too rebellious.

Marriage in the ancient feudal period paid attention to the right family, the words of the matchmaker, and the order of the parents. Jiafu was a famous big family at that time, very noble, and Lin Daiyu was just a small family, although he also had some relatives, but his family's family status Jiafu was not looked down upon.

The biggest reason is that even if the two families can't be the right person, Lin Daiyu's family background is not as good as Jia Baoyu's, and Jia's mother will not let Jia Baoyu marry Lin Daiyu as his wife.

Because Daiyu's personality factors do not conform to the aesthetics of feudal society, she is very rebellious, and the aristocratic class in feudal society will not allow this.

A word of conscience. If your mother is Jia's mother, she will do the same. Here's why:

1.In terms of personality, Lin Daiyu is sentimental, and Xue Baochai is enthusiastic and cheerful. Consider whether it is better to face a laughing daughter-in-law or a crying daughter-in-law all day long.

2.In terms of ability, Lin Daiyu has good literary attainments in Dream of Red Mansions, but this cannot be used as a meal. And Xue Baochai can manage a family properly. can be described as an excellent daughter-in-law who runs a good house.

3.In her career (let's put it this way), Lin Daiyu lost her mother at the age of 6 and her father at the age of 11. To put it bluntly, the mother's family has little help for Jia Baoyu. Xue Baochai's family can be described as a business family and a wealthy family. It will be of obvious help to Jia Baoyu in the future.

To sum up, Jia Mu chose Xue Baochai. To be honest, this is how mothers choose daughters-in-law now.

The affection between people and people is not just based on blood relationship. For example, Sister Feng, in fact, she and Xue Baochai are aunts and cousins, but the two get along really well.

Sister Feng and Lin Daiyu are not related by blood, Lin Daiyu is Jia Lian's cousin, so naturally there is no blood relationship.

The Xue family has been spreading the golden and jade good fate, and Mrs. Wang also hinted at the golden and jade good fate through Yuan Chun's hand, but in Sister Feng's mouth, she never said a word like this, of course she understood the meaning of the two aunts, but she would rather stand in line with Mother Jia, and publicly advertised the love of double jade. borrowed the matter of drinking tea, and said why Lin Daiyu didn't give us a daughter-in-law.

Sister Feng's attitude is obvious, she supports the front edge of wood and stone, and is willing to Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu to be good for a hundred years, there are entanglements of interests and personal tendencies.

It should be said that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu grew up under her watch, she revolves around Jia's mother all day long, Jia's mother loves the two jades the most, and naturally Sister Feng also has to use actions to embody them, so she is very good to the two jades.

If you talk about personal intimacy, look at the conversation between Sister Feng and Ping'er, Sister Feng's miscarriage cares, the troika takes care of housework, Ping'er came back to report work, mentioned several major events in Jiafu, Sister Feng also mentioned that no one is willing to take care of housework, at this time, she mentioned Miss Bao and Lin Yatou, they are both capable, but one is unwilling to take care of himself, and the other is a beauty lamp, and he is sick when the wind blows.

The title of Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu here shows her posture, a treasure girl, is a polite title, a Lin girl, but a close title, she regards Lin Daiyu as her own family, and Bao girl as a guest.

This is naturally Sister Feng's subconscious performance, maybe she doesn't know it, the title is the most direct embodiment of a person's attitude towards others.

In Sister Feng's heart, Lin Daiyu is her own family, and Xue Baochai is of course a guest. So her salutation is fully expressed.

And Miss Bao and Lin Yatou have become confidants and friends, don't look at Xue Baochai can accept Xiangyun Lin Daiyu and recognize her as a sister, but Sister Feng, a person who has been polished in life, has always shown a great distance from Xue Baochai.

Sister Feng is the most shrewd, and she has the most insight into people's hearts, and she highly recognizes Xue Baochai's ability, but she doesn't think so.

Xue Baochai, Ying'er).

Sister Feng and Xue Baochai are not all the way. Therefore, Sister Feng is extremely polite to Xue Baochai, which is reflected in the night copy of the Grand View Garden, they checked Lin Daiyu's Xiaoxiang Pavilion, but they deliberately stated that they could not copy their relatives, which proves that in her eyes, Xue Baochai is a guest is a relative, and she should be polite.

treats Lin Daiyu as her own family, and completely follows Sanchun's attitude.

And this also contributed to Xue Baochai's quick move, and Sister Feng felt surprised. Leave Miss Bao and leave Miss Lin behind, this may be Sister Feng's heart.

supports Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu treats people sincerely, not as scheming as Xue Baochai, and her personality is more pleasing to Wang Xifeng, she and Lin Daiyu get along better, and the relationship is deeper, in Jia Baoyu's marriage, she is towards Lin Daiyu.

I think it's Lin Daiyu, otherwise Wang Xifeng wouldn't have told Lin Daiyu that eating our tea is our person.

is in favor of Xue Baochai, because Wang Xifeng thinks that Xue Baochai is very capable, can manage the affairs of the family, and is a reasonable daughter-in-law.