Can I do it well? Is it really enough to be yourself?

May you have no regrets in your life.

After checking last night's homework this afternoon, I found that two boys had written particularly sloppily and scribbled handwriting, and they hadn't finished writing yet.

I thought I'd deal with them when I got to the classroom. I came to the classroom with my homework, took the receipt of "A Letter to Parents" and went to the administrative office to hand it in, and when I came out, the sound of frolicking came from the direction of the toilet. When I got closer, I saw that there were four boys flushing the toilet, and two of them who were not serious about their homework were among them.

If you think about it, I only have two people in the toilet with a mold. As soon as Cong Yindong inquired, he learned that the two boys who were sloppy in their homework were helping. It was commendable to be able to help others, but when I thought of these two guys, I had to deal with them in a sloppy manner, but I didn't prioritize them like this.

So, I called them back to the classroom, sent them homework, and criticized them both in front of the whole class.

There is no shortage of such adults in life, and she can do a lot if she is willing; If she didn't want to, she didn't even bother to wash her own dishes. The difference is that you can criticize a child and even teach him a lesson, but there are some adults with bad deeds, but no one dares to say a "no" to her.

We often say "just be yourself", but although we do our best, we still have to endure the emotions of those garbage people and endure mental torture.

Being yourself may not be able to live an easy life!

Can I do it, hello, dear, I can boldly expose my fragility, sensitivity, broken pain. I can show my personality, my desires, my indifference, and I can fully accept my weakness, my ordinariness, my helplessness, my lack of rejection. I can.

I can show my personality, my desires, my indifference, and I can fully accept my weakness, my ordinary clump, my helplessness, my lack of rejection. I'll dig and hold it.

Dear, I was so angry that I trembled today. A man who has helped many times unconditionally said, I begged you for help, you can refuse. I have always known that I am introverted and not good at refusing, and I have suffered a lot because of this.

At that time, it was like a basin of ice water core, from beginning to end. I feel helpless that I am repeating the same mistakes again in this regard. I just don't do it anymore to see who can keep my mouth shut, but I hate it in my heart when I say hurtful things.

In the end, he didn't say a word, and his throat was hoarse. There is no one worthy of my flattery and caution, saying that I am stingy, calculating, inactive, stupid, easy to be fooled, pretending, too straightforward, and loving people...It's all right, as long as I can do what I want, as long as I'm comfortable. In the future, when you come into contact with people and things that feel a little uncomfortable, you must say directly, I don't do it, I don't have time.

If you eat hard, you can be a master. It's good to be plain as water. The world is dangerous, people's hearts are unpredictable, and it is better to be selfish.

As the saying goes, "no one is perfect, no one is perfect", each of us has better advantages than others, and there are also disadvantages that are worse than others. But there is a reason for his existence in life, as Li Bai said: "I am born to be useful."

There will always be comparisons in life and learning, but not everyone will be very good. When comparison becomes a habit, no matter what you do, you will compare with people who are better than you, and when you don't do as well as he does, you will form a psychological gap, and you will question yourself, so that you will gradually form the illusion that you are not as good as others in the days that follow.

How can someone have always been excellent, "people are not sages, who can do nothing" We must correctly understand our own strengths and weaknesses, carry forward our advantages, correct our shortcomings, and do our best is enough. Don't focus on the achievements of others, but care about how much you have improved compared to before, what improvements you have gained in the process, and what insights you have gained.

I used to be like this, I always felt that I was inferior to others, I felt why I was not as good as others, and I felt very disappointed whenever I saw that others had achieved better results than myself, but when I was able to face up to my shortcomings and try to correct them, I didn't feel bad, and I was happy and satisfied through my own efforts and in the process. I always thought that since I couldn't be a better person, I could be a better version of myself. Now, instead of focusing on others, I focus on improving myself, and every time I see my own progress, my heart is filled with joy, because I have gone through the process of starting from nothing, from denying myself to facing myself and changing myself.

Personally, I feel that it is right, and there are two reasons:

1. You are resistant to playing games in your heart, thinking that you are not doing your job, so you are not willing to play with you. Love, sometimes it has to be principled, and you can't compromise everything, it won't last long.

2. You can't play all the time at home, you can learn some knowledge and skills, and you will have to support your family in the future. Companionship can be around, walking, eating, etc., playing games is not companionship, it is to pass the time. Thank you!