What are your qualities or those of the best people around you?

A female classmate in junior high school is the child of a teacher, and her advantage is that she is very self-disciplined. In junior high school, everyone is very playful, only when she leaves school, she stays in the classroom to do her homework first, and only after she finishes does she start playing. One day she told me that she wanted to learn to play basketball, so she went to play basketball every day after finishing her homework.

One day she said that her father had cancer, and she should have the gene in her body that is prone to cancer, and she wanted to exercise, so she went to run 3,000 meters after self-study every night, and her physical fitness was great. I also follow the computer on time every day to learn new concepts of English, and my English is great. went to high school, high school is the focus, a lot of powerful people, she quickly caught up after adapting.

I went to the capital in college, and then I saw how she was doing, learned baseball and went to games.

I don't know if it's an absolute merit.,Sometimes it's annoying to be competitive.。 But let's talk about the benefits of being competitive! My husband has excellent work ability, and I won't talk about it after the tribesmen.

When we got married, I took a look at a diamond ring that was very beautiful, but there was no brand, it was just an ordinary diamond ring. My husband said buy it for me. Later, my girlfriend posted a diamond ring in the circle of friends and I showed it to my husband, and my husband saw that my girlfriend's diamond ring was Cartier's, and then my husband immediately said to buy me a Cartier too, I said why, my husband said xx (girlfriend's name) My husband doesn't necessarily make more money than me, he buys Cartier for his wife, why does my wife bring an ordinary diamond ring.

Then he bought me a Cartier diamond ring. I usually want to be the first in everything I do, and as an executive, I even go to the company earlier than ordinary employees every day.

Can I say I think I'm good? When I was in elementary school, I didn't study well and went back to the top ten in the exam, but I kept learning, junior high school was an upper-middle student, junior high school was always learning, and then I was admitted to high school, and I went to a key class in high school, but the classmates in the class were too outstanding, so I went back to the top ten from the bottom, and was cold-eyed by the teacher, but I still didn't give up, I kept learning, and I was admitted to college, and no one studied in college, but I kept learning and won a first-class scholarship, and I wanted to be a civil servant after graduation, but I couldn't pass the exam, so I worked during the day, I studied all the time at night, and I was admitted to the civil service. After getting married, I gained weight, soared to 130 pounds, and then started **, I have insisted on not eating sweets or carbohydrates for 2 months, and I have lost 115 pounds.

My husband often says that I am lucky, but I think it was all my hard work, even to be with him, I have done a lot of hard work.

This one next to me, my husband, is excellent if he dares to say a word. At least it's much better than me. First of all, as my husband's pillow person, I know him well enough.

So put it in front and say ha. My husband graduated from 985 in undergraduate, and it is said that he was depressed when he was not admitted to the top10 in his undergraduate, but then he cheered up and was admitted to the top3 in graduate school. Now currently two (or three?)

Working in a first-tier city, the salary you get is according to the standard of the imperial capital. The reason is that his boss wants to punish the station, and the business in our current city has opened a new branch and sent him to manage it. The annual salary is about 60w, and the year-end bonus has not yet been paid, and it is estimated that it will not be less than 20w.

Since I met him, he has been reading and learning every day. During the day, I deal with things when I have something to do in the company, and I read and study when I have nothing to do. If the plan is not completed, it is better to skip meals.

People like me, who couldn't finish their homework during the winter and summer vacations when I was a child, ......Every time I see his cherishing of time and his pursuit of learning and progress, I can only say orz.

My husband is now studying for a Ph.D. abroad, and he is very strict with himself, insisting on scientific research, reading articles, and learning French until late at night every day, and weekends are no exception. Can I say that we both sleep in separate rooms on weekdays and only in one bed on weekends? Run rain or shine every day, except for the weather.

Doing things efficiently and never procrastinating.

Let's talk about one of the advantages I admire most about my husband. My husband is very diligent, and he has planned his time very well, and he has been reading and studying every night until about 10 o'clock in the evening since he graduated. Some people may think it's nothing, but it's really admirable for me to be a lazy scumbag.

The excellent people around me are also our directors, every morning at half past five will run, go home is also a variety of learning, really worship self-control and execution are very strong people, our director is Taurus, I don't know whether the constellation is accurate, the people around me are more than other constellations in this regard......

Since the junior year, the students have been running at night since their junior year, running 5,000 meters every day (only 3,000 meters when they are in bad shape), rain or shine, except for being so sick that they can't get out of bed or other force majeure such as the weather, they have hardly been interrupted, and they wear hats to run when it rains. I, a person who can't hold on to the slogan for three days, can only ......

First, the heart is particularly "calm" and not flustered.

There is usually a temperament in a strong person that is "calm", not flustered, no matter how urgent and bad things are, and not let his heart be in a flustered and helpless situation. No matter how urgent the situation is, we must first settle down and use wisdom and mind to come up with a solution to solve the problem quickly and effectively.

It's useless to be impatient, it will only get more and more chaotic. In the face of sudden circumstances, the weak are often at a loss, while the strong are calm and comfortable, and have psychological quality.

Excellent, stable mentality, brain-working, easy to do, full of aura, steady victory, decisive victory thousands of miles away.

2. "Be cautious and independent, have your own independent thoughts, and do not follow the rules."

A really powerful person, his thinking is often independent, he does not follow the crowd, and he does not blindly follow the trend. There is a saying: the sheep always come in groups, and the beasts always walk alone.

This sentence actually enlightens us, sometimes the so-called gregariousness does not necessarily mean how strong your social skills are, but it is easy to lose your independence and become stronger.

If everyone just follows the rules and passively copes with life, they are also destined to become better people. The person who stands out most in the crowd is often the maverick one. Dare to question, dare to innovate.

This kind of life is more vivid and more valuable. Sometimes being alternative is not derogatory, and independence is not loneliness, let alone isolation, but giving yourself space to take root and grow.

3. Keep a low profile and work silently.

To be a man, you must remember that no matter how capable you are, don't show off and show off everywhere, don't embarrass others, be low-key, don't show your edge, that may not be a good thing. Really good people, without a sense of superiority.

They are bright but not dazzling, confident and know how to be restrained, which makes you admire and brings you positive energy at the same time, and they are truly admirable people.

Those who talk about it everywhere are often strong on the outside, but in fact they don't have much ability, even if they have the ability, if they don't know how to deal with things, it is also a manifestation of a lack of wisdom. Silent hard work, gold will always shine, before there is no particularly good, down-to-earth is more important than anything else.

The feeling of working with excellent people can probably be described as "like a spring breeze".

They don't care about your stupid little mistakes, but they will patiently help you how to do it better.

With the same information resources, they will make more in-depth analysis, give more subtle results, and even be willing to share them with others;

They have something new to learn every day, they are more profound about the affairs around them, for different companies, and for the whole industry, but the most important thing is that they do their job very well, and they do not procrastinate when docking work, they can know the cause and effect of the whole thing and can gain insight into the trend in just a few words, and they are good at analyzing problems from the position of each other, and have a strong sense of responsibility.

High degree of self-discipline, extreme attitude, long-term focus ......We can probably summarize countless shining points from them, we all hope that we can become people with such qualities, correct, simple, firm, and doing things to the extreme, which will bring us good habits. The pursuit of perfection is a habit in itself.

The point is that once you have formed a habit, doing it this way is the most natural and relaxing way, and it is the first choice that will naturally come to your mind. A person who is accustomed to doing everything to the best of his ability, even if his superiors say you can relax a little, will tend to do the best work within his ability.

Behind this is the power of habit.

I have to say, this is a very important habit that will benefit you for life. We hope that we can do everything to the extreme, so as to become the person who is "easy to work with" in the eyes of others.

There are many unique traits of good people, what are you? Take your seats!

1.Extremely vigorous and energetic. Excellent people have little rest every day, but they are able to maintain vigorous energy.

2.Extremely passionate about reading. Everyone knows that reading can enrich experience, accumulate experience, and enrich knowledge, and all the ancient sages loved readers' handwritten books and increased their talents.

3.Extremely passionate about sports. In ancient times, there were chickens dancing, and now there are runners, and excellent people always pay special attention to physical health, such as swimming in the Yangtze River in their 70s, which is admirable.

4.Set big goals from a young age. As the saying goes, people without long-term concerns must have near-term worries, and people without far-sighted ambitions must have shallow vision. Set the goal in the long run, Shouhong is more conducive to their all-round development, and excellent people are all like this, from a young age to set lofty goals and make unremitting efforts for it.

Good people have two main qualities:

1. Strong desire to succeed!

2. Do you have a wide heart?

1) Helping others is a kind of morality, accumulation of virtue, but also a virtue. Light a lamp for others to illuminate others and illuminate yourself.

Everyone must always maintain a pure heart, no matter how many times it is broken in this life, if you can, you will immediately recover to the age of six, and when you enter the world, you will be able to immediately restore your original intention! Embrace the future and be fearless!

2) In the end, the comparison is the realm, the bigger the character, the greater the grievance.

3) Shouldering the responsibility of being a child and a parent, you are not qualified to talk about grievances.

Start today: love yourself and be responsible!

Always do: no regrets at this time, no regrets in this life, in order to transform this life!