I love someone, but my family doesn t agree, what should I do?

I think marriage should be your own decision, but you must not ignore family affection. If your parents don't approve of your marriage, don't rush it. Maintain a good relationship with your boyfriend first.

Then communicate with your parents slowly. Parents love their children. Remember, there is no right or wrong, no distance, no age difference in marriage.

Marriage is up to you. Parents' opinions should only be used as a reference.

Of course, the opinions of parents should be fully respected. I believe your parents love you. Will agree with you eventually.

It depends on your boyfriend to be patient and communicate well with your parents. Even if they still have ideas, don't worry. Because it is not easy for our parents to raise us, their opinions must be fully respected.

But tell them. Since you love your children, respect their choices. We chose someone to stay with me for the rest of my life.

Please respect me as well. No matter how resolute your parents are, they will compromise under your insistence. As long as you can be sure that it is the person who can give you happiness in your life.

You're going to come together.

Maybe the family doesn't accept it for a while, you first let your parents slowly understand the advantages of the person you like, see his good side, and maybe slowly accept your lover when the time comes!

I feel like listening to my family. Because family members will not harm themselves, everything is for their own good!

Love is your own, and you don't have to live it with your family, take your time, I'm here too, take your proof.

This is to prove to your family how much you love him, and to convince them with reason and facts.

Make your own decisions and don't regret it later.

If a man does not even love the parents who gave birth to him and raised him, how can he be expected to love others?

When my boyfriend and I first dated, my mother took the initiative to ask me if I had made friends, and then after understanding his personal situation and family situation, he opposed my relationship, and our relatives were against it, and I felt very comfortable with him at that time, so I told my mother about his advantages, basically saying good or bad, that ideological work is done, in fact, as long as the parents are sensible, they will not be too opposed, as long as he is as you said, but this situation is easy to cause a hidden danger, That is, if one day he is not good, the people who have opposed you will say, you see that he didn't listen to me at the beginning, I said that he is not good, do not listen to the old man, in fact, there is no constant thing, parents have experienced a lot, in life and feelings than we do have a lot of experience, they are all for us to live a better life than them in the future to try to find us can find a better condition for our companions, for us, in the love stage, many times bent on going their own way, can not listen to a lot of advice, Maybe only when you really encounter a problem will you feel that other people's reminders are right, but as young people, we should also have the ability to be assertive, judge and decide for our future life, and listen to others' persuasion is right, but not completely, my own life is in charge, I am the kind of person who is not willing to listen to other people's advice, so if I blindly obey, I will feel that there is no interest in life, I feel like a fool, let me marry someone I don't love very much, but just to try a somewhat secure economic foundation, I think I feel ashamed, Although you won't worry about the economy of life, so as you should think more about it, believe in your own judgment and the courage to do everything to dare to bear the consequences, if you love him very much, you think he is worthy, then you have to make the choice not to regret, and work hard to make your family also begin to agree with him, you have to behave well, strive for recognition, if your parents are strongly opposed, then things still have to be considered again, after all, no one blesses and agrees with the marriage once it encounters difficulties, It's hard to go the long way, it's hard for you to do it on your own, don't be too anxious about this kind of thing, you're in the middle, be patient.

First of all, you have to be clear about your current age. If you are a junior high school or high school student, it is understandable that your parents do not agree.

Secondly, if you and your girlfriend (boyfriend) are in two places. It's normal for your parents to disagree.

Then, if you have reached the age of talking about marriage, you will not only consider simple love, but also consider a lot, the family environment, her (his) educational environment, economic conditions, you will definitely not consider these, but your parents will definitely consider it.

Put yourself in your parents' shoes. They treat you with a lot of factors that go into your relationship. The first thing that bears the brunt is definitely the character of the person, and then the economic conditions.

You can't live a tight life after you get married, right? and whether her (his) home is a different place. (You can't have your mother's or mother-in-law's family to take the train or plane, right?) , and then the family environment and educational background (this is more troublesome, they have to think about having a common language after marriage, how about her family?) If your parents get divorced every day. I definitely can't agree to it.

Say a thousand things and ten thousand, as a party concerned, you may feel that your love cannot be understood and supported by your elders, but this friend, you have to think about it, will your parents trick you and harm you? It's just that they have to think a lot about you. It's not just about love.

And many, many more. Your parents have a lifetime, and they have to go through many things more than you. So I suggest you talk to your parents more about your significant other.

List each item, and then explain each item to them. In this way, we can get their sincere blessings. Don't just "do it".

You will hurt the hearts of your parents, and I wish you happiness in the end, and I wish you the blessings of your elders!! Hope for success!

Well, it depends on what you're doing, student? Work? If it's a student, don't affect your studies, just continue, but under normal circumstances, graduation is almost equivalent to a breakup, or a long-distance relationship, it's very hard and lonely

If you go to work, you are with him, do you think there will be problems in getting married in the future? For example, the man's family situation, his personal ability, and the connotation of God...

Your parents don't agree, it's actually nothing They don't agree because they think that this boy is not suitable for you, or it will affect your life, in fact, your parents are quite accurate.

In the end, I think love has a shelf life. After time, it will either become a habit, or it will not be loved. Time will change a lot.

Well, I think if this boy is really good, he should get along with it, and his parents are not a problem.

Convince the respective parents to give them time to think about ......Discuss it with your parents and ask your boyfriend to forgive me, if your boyfriend is still, irrational and unreasonable, doesn't understand you, and doesn't have the patience to wait, then forget it, just listen to your parents! Of course, if you really love each other, and the man is good to you, you will definitely be together! There are many people who are going through the same ...... as youBut you and your boyfriend must understand!

What really prevents you from being together is not your respective parents, but yourselves. Why? Because, this is a test of love, a test of you, do you have the courage to pay for each other?

The test will be your ability to cross a mountain ...... your respective parentsIf you don't cross it without fear, you will definitely be together? Believe me, but if you give up halfway, you won't be together, don't blame your parents, your parents are on your side, for your sake, don't go up to their hearts, so as to hate ......themFriend, this test is also good? Why?

Because, you can test your boyfriend's true face ......There are a lot of things that you have to think about in many ways......

Hello: I am happy to answer your questions, I hope you will be satisfied 1. The parents' starting point is good, but the relationship with the two of you often contradicts things, at this time the two of you should calm down, consider the relationship between the two of you, do not make a decision lightly, and consider carefully.

2. Do you really love each other? Is it really a good fit? Is there an economic basis?

Is it possible to raise a family? Can you withstand the pressure of family and society? Will expectations be met?

Will there be betrayal in the future? Will you get tired of it in the future? Can you keep it going?

Is it possible to be humble to each other? Can you hold on when everyone thinks you're wrong? If you can do it, I wish you eternal happiness, if you can't do it, please give up peacefully, when this is a good memory!

3. First communicate with your parents alone, no, and then two people communicate with your parents together, prepare words in advance, and the reason for being together, don't simply say a word of love, too naïve, say practical, and dry it. At the same time, find elders and friends to do work and communicate.

4. Don't do childish games, elope, play missing, and do things you shouldn't do in advance.

5. There are many kinds of happiness, when you walk into a dead end, as soon as you turn around, you will find your way home.

I wish you all the best in your future life

1. Communication. It is important to communicate with your parents, for example, what kind of misunderstandings they have about your significant other and what kind of requirements they expect from the other person. In this way, the other half can make some changes, or meet some parents' requirements, then, the parents will naturally be satisfied.

2. Get along. Parents may not approve of your marriage because they don't know much about your other half, so if you want your marriage to go smoothly, then it is best to let your other half contact your parents more often, so that they can understand each other and like each other in their daily life.

3. Attack the heart. If the parents do not agree with the marriage, then attack their hearts. This is, from filial piety, language, physical strength, helping parents with household chores, etc.

Since you are willing not to marry or not to marry the other party, then these grievances will be more suffered. However, if you are with someone you love, it is not a big deal to suffer these grievances.

4. Moderate. There is a process for everything, and at this time, if you are in a hurry, it will not be good, so it may be relatively better to choose a time to ease down first, overdo it, and then wait for the parents to clear up the misunderstanding and dissipate their anger.

5. Persistence. For a person who doesn't take it lightly and says let go, persistence is very important. Perhaps in this case, your parents are also deliberately giving you an ordeal to see if you really want to be with each other.

If you retreat, it's over. If you persevere, parents will eventually feel sorry for their children.

6 breakups. Breaking up is the last option. If your parents don't agree, even if you get married, the other party may not be happy living in such a family, so it's better to break up.

The breakup may be sad, there will be a period of sadness, but after that, it will get better.

Find a time to talk to your parents, ask why you disagree, and ask him to change more, be filial to his parents.

The marriage that the parents do not agree with, the son likes it very much. Then you need to grasp it. As long as you like two people very much. If you both like each other, you must stick to it. Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

I'm talking about it here, if you're an elder who comes to ask questions.

The son who asked the girl about her character didn't notice it.

I can understand your feelings, but if you don't let him insist. Your son may hate you for the rest of his life, and this has a premise, that is, your son is willing to listen to you. If he is willing to listen to you.

That's for the best, and if he has to insist, let him go.

It's okay to talk to your parents more. There is also the need for him to do well in front of your parents.

If the relationship is true, parents can't stop it. Only by honoring them well in the future proves that they are wrong in opposition.

Judge for yourself, don't wronged yourself, your parents are also for your own good.

Think thoroughly, follow your feelings, and let yourself have no regrets.