Why do many highly educated people choose not to marry and have children?

Many highly educated people now choose not to marry and have children, mainly because the cost of marriage and the cost of having children are too great, so they make such a choice to be responsible for themselves.

Getting married and having children is not necessarily a good thing. There will be many contradictions in getting married, and childbearing will bring a burden to yourself.

Because they have the capital to pursue a higher standard of living, and choosing to marry and have children will increase their own living burden.

Because highly educated people feel that marrying for the sake of marriage is irresponsible to themselves. If you can't give your offspring better living conditions, then why have children?

There is fierce competition in society, and it is not unusual for there to be too many highly educated people. What is most lacking in society is labor, so the pressure of high education is high and the competition is fierce. Many people look at the monthly salary of the middle class, but they need to work overtime to see the face of the leader and can't get off work at the point.

You have to squeeze the subway to get to and from work, and you may not be able to afford the house and car. In the past, every man could support his family, but not every man in this era can do it. Then some men with good quality have no money, which is also a shock to women's marriages.

Although there are many people who are not married and have children now. But he can't be mainstream. These are comparable to the development of society and the continuation of human life.

Therefore, people's main pants object ideas will still be thousands of years of history and culture. Slow development continues. In the post-95 and post-00 generations.

There are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. But that doesn't mean it's going to go mainstream. The reason why I say this is because getting married and having children has always been the mainstream of young people.

Choosing to marry later, late pregnancy does not mean that you will not marry and have children. and the three reasons that will prompt young people to make the choice to get married and have children in real life. First.

The idea of getting married and having children has always been the mainstream concept in the minds of young people. Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children. But this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-9095 post-00 generation.

In fact, among the young people of the post-95 and post-00 generations. The vast majority still choose to get married and have children. That's their mainstream choice.

It's just that the behavior of young people who choose not to marry or have children is too conspicuous. Therefore, it will leave the illusion that most young people will choose not to marry and have children. Second.

The choice of young people who are born after nine pure elimination and five generations and those who are born after zero does not mean that they are infertile in marriage. For the post-95 and post-00 generations. Most of them do choose to marry later and get pregnant later.

This liquid makes it really not enough to get married and have children among the current post-95 and post-00 young people. But we have to make one thing clear, that is, late marriage and late pregnancy do not mean that you are infertile in marriage. The post-95 and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children later will eventually choose to get married and have children.

This is the mainstream choice of most people. People who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority. Third.

Real life will prompt the post-95 and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children. Among the post-95 and post-00 generations, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not getting married and having children at the beginning. But with the gradual enrichment of life experience.

These people's ideas will produce change under the influence of family members as well as relatives and friends as well as those around them. These post-95 and post-00 generations gradually realized the necessity of getting married and having children. As well as bringing many benefits to yourself.

So that they can finally change their minds. I want to get married and have children instead. It is precisely because of this reason that people who are unmarried and infertile have never been able to become the idea of young people born after 95 and 00.

The vast majority of them still choose to get married and have children. Thank you. bar.

Marriage and infertility will become a mainstream trend.

I remember when we were children, how could there be adults around us who didn't get married and dragged a few children? Even if there are so many old singles in each village, they are sympathetic to the people around them for a lifetime. Don't get married and don't have children, in that era, few people dared to think and dare to try, and if they tried, they had to endure half a lifetime of gossip and even white eyes.

Now, when people reach middle age, there are several people around them who choose not to marry or have children.

As for the whole society, the marriage rate and birth rate alone are at a new low, for example, in 2019, there were only more than 9.47 million couples registered for marriage in the country, and the number of singles has exceeded 100 million

1. The cost of getting married and having children is too high.

In the concept of Chinese, most of them think that marriage is the need to buy a house, the man gives the bride price or down payment, the woman gives the dowry, etc., and the single purchase of a house, the house price remains high, for ordinary families, has emptied the three families six wallets, the mortgage is the future.

Twenty or thirty years of money bags occupied.

Not to mention, the cost of money and energy to have a child and raise a child.

2. People's concepts are changing, and they are unwilling to compromise on marriage.

More and more people are realizing that an unhappy marriage is more terrible than being single, so if they don't meet the right or attractive person, they are willing to be single rather than compromise.

For many people, marriage is no longer a necessity, but an option.

3. The responsibility of getting married and having children is too great, and marriage is far from being as good as imagined.

The sophistication of human feelings, the marriage of Li Fanqin, the responsibilities and obligations of giving birth to children, etc.

are overweight, and some people think they are not enough to take on their responsibilities:

On the other hand, married life is too trivial, and many people regard marriage as the grave of love, and happiness is far below expectations.

In short, there are reasons to get married, and there are reasons not to get married. I think that each of us, in the face of the question of marriage or not, birth or not, respect the choice of others, do not comment too much, no one laughs at anyone, so, it's good!

If he can't even take care of himself, he doesn't want to defend his children to suffer with him. Therefore, being unable to afford it is also the main reason why many young people are reluctant to have children. Reason 2:

Ideologically, they are not prepared to be parents, and it is true that many young people's feelings and marriages are not stable enough, because their minds are not mature enough, and they do not have the confidence to raise and educate their children, so they choose not to have children for the time being. Reason 3: The post-90s generation is a sleepy early generation that is more self-conscious, and they don't want to be wronged.

The young people of the post-90s generation, they yearn for freedom, and a large part of them are exquisite egoists, unwilling to let marriage and children become shackles that bind them, nor are they willing to reduce their quality of life. Therefore, it is their idea not to marry or have children and live their own lives. However, now that society is becoming more and more inclusive, people are not willing to pay too much attention to other people's lives, let alone interfere, and everyone has the right to choose their own way of life.

The different times have created people with different pursuits, and in the era of the post-90s, their own ideas are the most important. So say post-95, 00. After unmarried and infertile will become mainstream.