Oral Communication Debate Is It Indifference or True Love .

Debate according to the situation around you.

I support true love, because the mother does not pick up the child, because the child is exercised, and cannot rely on the mother for everything, if the mother picks up the child, the child will have a kind of dependence psychology, and in the end nothing can be done.

Because the mother thinks that it is time for the child to grow up, and can no longer hug or comfort if he falls like before, if he is still like before, the child may develop a dependent nature, and will not be independent, and will not deal with what happens in the future. Moms are letting their children grow. The mother is doing this with good intentions, the child falls, and her heart hurts, but to endure the pain, be cruel to the child, and let the child stand up, this requires courage, and it is also a great thing for a mother.

This mom shows great motherhood while being cold.

I believe that this mother's approach is a manifestation of indifference. Children need pampering, especially young children. When a child falls, he or she will be hurt to varying degrees, and how much the child needs the comfort and care of his mother!

As a mother, you should quickly pick him up, comfort him, give him care, and soothe the fear and grievances in his heart. Letting it get up on its own is undoubtedly worse for the child, aggravating the damage to the child, and over time, it will affect the healthy development of the child's personality.

It is the nature of children to be active and active, but activities contain insecurity. Falls are the most common thing for children to fall when they are young, and they often become the triggers for children's accidents, such as falls, falls, and so on. Don't underestimate this kind of "stumbling", which can cause pain at least and endanger the life of your child at worst.

What should parents do if their child falls? support, worry about dependence, too squeamish; If you don't help, you're worried about whether you'll fall and get hurt, and whether you'll become indifferent because of this, it's hard to choose on both sides.

In fact, this problem should be explained from two aspects: if the child does not fall hard, is uninjured, and seems to be able to get up on his own, there is no need for parents to help him, and he should be encouraged to get up on his own. By doing so, parents can develop their children's ability to withstand setbacks and also boost their children's self-confidence.

Although the mother may make the child stronger by letting the child stand up on his own, if the child is too young, then he will have doubts in his heart and may never tell his parents again, isn't this indifference? Parents are the only trustworthy people for their children, and do not destroy the pure land in their children's hearts.