Not everyone takes it for granted what is meant by the phrase Be nice to you .

Don't you understand this? The relationship between people is mutual, you are good to others, others are good to you, everyone only has their own parents to take it for granted for you, all the rest of the people are not taken for granted, you want others to be good to you, then you must first pay, first of all, you must be good to others, it is possible to get others to be good to you, this sentence is so simple, what is not easy to understand in this sentence?

This sentence reminds you that not everyone will be like someone who is good to you, and not everyone is obligated to be good to you, that is, to tell who is good to you and who is not good to you.

Literally, it means that no one will be nice to you for no reason.

Human nature is good, and everyone is good. Many kind-hearted people will choose to give freely to their relatives and friends around them, which is to be good to others as the saying goes. As the saying goes:

To be good to others is to be good to yourself. But in reality, this is often not the case, many people mistakenly think that you are good to him, that everything you give to him is what you have to do to him, and he has not given anything to you.

Although it is often said that the pay is proportional to the gain, this sentence is not as beautiful as imagined in the real society. You have given everything to others, and others will never refuse your kindness, but after he has received it, there are very few people who can give back to you useful contributions, which is a chilling place. Although you should not ask for any return when you pay, but people are not sages, you have been doing something for a long time, and you have worked hard and have not seen any signs of return, you will inevitably be disheartened and do not want to continue this matter, but the other party who accepts the payment feels that your contribution is not as much as before, and will talk about you from different aspects.

Therefore, the best way is not to give too much to people you don't know well at first, too much will become a matter of course. Of course, it is not that you should not give to him, you can give it tentatively, if you can get a reward from him, even if the return is not high, it proves that you have a certain place in the heart of your friend, and this friend can be deeply acquainted. If you don't get a reply for your tentative efforts, you can spend more time to be kind to him, and if he is still like this, there is no need to force yourself, it can only prove that he is not the friend you want to make.

As the saying goes: the Tao is not the same, but also according to its own will.

Don't be too kind, don't be too generous, don't be too capable, after a long time, people will feel that everything you do is what it should be. Even if one day you can't hold it anymore and cry and are tired, no one will feel sorry for you, because in their eyes, you are all willing.

If someone is kind to you, cherish it. Because no one takes your kindness for granted.

In this era of only children, every child is a treasure in the family. However, children who grow up in this environment place too much emphasis on their own feelings and ignore the feelings of others (here only a few children, but most of them are quite good). They always think that no matter where they are, they should be like they are in their own home, they are the center of everyone's life, and everyone should revolve around them as a matter of course.

You do everything you should do for them, but once you refuse their request, you get "Why are you like this?" I don't know if you've ever had such an experience, but my own experience tells me that I really wanted to be rude. I'm really speechless, and I want to ask, do you think you're the only one in the world who has a temper?

Because you care, you give.

In my junior year of high school, I was fortunate enough to have my first male girlfriend. I remember that he was a repeater at the time, not because his grades were too poor, but because he felt that he could do better, so he chose to repeat. To be honest, I admire his determination and courage.

When he first came, he happened to be in front of me, and I chatted with him with the mentality of "learning from those who came over", and since then it has been out of control, and a pure friendship between men and women has been achieved. He's a top student, and I'm a little bit better than a scumbag, so for a while, I often saw the two of us getting together in the class, and even the teacher was suspicious of us, and we were just lecturing. After going to college, I miss those days more and more, and I am quite grateful for that time of struggle, with his company, in order to give me a lecture, he can't even eat well, even have to run to the toilet, and run back ......

Because he cares about this friendship, he said that what he did was nothing, and I, because I cared about his dedication, redoubled my efforts to study, redoubled my kindness to him, and didn't want his intentions to be disappointed.

Because I understand, I cherish it.

In this society where human nature is inherently good or evil, when everyone takes "nothing to do with themselves, hang high" as the principle of life, if there is a "wonderful" to give you a warm greeting and a kind reminder, then you should cherish it! Because it really didn't come easily.

We are in a foreign land, a stranger's guidance can make us feel warm, we just came to the school to report, a few reminders from the seniors, can let us take less n detours. Because I understand, I cherish it. Because cherished, so grateful.

Life in the world, may we do and cherish, remember: no one takes your kindness for granted.

Today, do you cherish it?

Today, are you grateful?

I often wonder if there is such a person in this world who is good to me with all his strength and wholeheartedly. However, I always believed that there was, so I kept looking until I found out that even my parents didn't have to do that, and I wondered. I guess I can't find it.

One of the mistakes people often make is to think that "should", as a parent, you think they should be unconditionally good to you; As a friend, you think they should also see you as a confidant; As a lover, you think that he should have you alone in his heart. So, in your own various ideals, you have your own requirements and expectations for them, once others do not do according to your ideas, or do not do a good job, you will habitually use Mingshan envy your own inherent ideas to buckle their hats.

Many people are still agonizing about how others suddenly do not treat themselves well, but they forget that others are not obligated to do so in the first place. Because I forgot this, habit became natural, and eventually became a matter of course. Some people are used to getting, so they forget to be grateful, and only know how to blindly take, but they don't know how to give others good.

People who are willing to be good to you are not owed to you, but are willing to treat you sincerely, after all, people are self-motivated, if you don't really treat you as a friend or lover, they won't treat you well at all. There is nothing to take for granted to distinguish between affection and duty. Feelings are mutual, when others are good to you, you also have to learn to treat others well, instead of enjoying it alone, comparing hearts to hearts, mutual respect can make the relationship last.

No one is born to listen to you, and no one is born to be nice to you and treat others with a grateful heart. Everyone's life is a process, in the process of accumulation, continuous growth, time will not go backwards, even if you experience disappointment on the way, you must learn to relax your mind. To let go of others is also to let go of yourself, try to see how to forget the good that is taken for granted.

Have you ever heard such a story: because the little girl doesn't like to eat eggs, every time she gives the eggs to her good friends, at first the friends will express their gratitude, but gradually get used to it, and take it for granted. Until one day, the little girl gave the egg to another person, and the friend began to be dissatisfied.

The two had a big quarrel and broke off their friendship ever since.

Actually, think about it, don't we have such people around us? Because they are accustomed to your goodness, they take this goodness for granted, they no longer know how to appreciate you, everything you do is taken for granted, you are obliged to serve others, and sometimes you are blamed for not doing well. They have all forgotten that who is good to whom is not an obligatory existence in the first place.

A person's life is short for decades, and he can't meet too many people he likes, and even fewer can eventually become friends. Because it's not easy, it's more cherished. Because I like it, I am willing to be good to you and share the weal and woe with you.

In my concept, people are comforted when they are in a bad mood; When you are in trouble, you can help. Have you ever thought that I may only do this because I am always kind, it does not mean that I have to be so good to you all the time, and you make my kindness so cheap.

Why was Songzhi upright when he asked me for help, why was he indifferent after the problem was solved, and he didn't even say thank you. You know, neither of us owes anyone. I helped you out of affection, and it was only natural that I didn't help you.

When interacting with people, I don't ask for much, that is, I have a talking partner, and I have something to talk about to pass the time. When you need help, if you are willing to help Sakura, you can help, and if you don't want to help, it's nothing. But don't hurt me by taking advantage of my lack of desire for you, once you are chilled, there will be no chance to warm up.

I'm nice to others, but others want more. Don't forget, my good can be taken back at any time. I don't need a spoiled friend. You know, it's never me who is bad, it's that you don't recognize my goodness to you.

It's not easy for people to get along with each other. Don't always feel that as a friend, I should be good to you, there is nothing that two people should not get along with. People who can be called friends are because Bi Zao has affection for each other, and when the love is scattered, friends have nothing to do.

In this world, you will meet many people since you were born, first your parents, who are also your closest people, and then others.

Your parents have been by your side to guard you growing up, you enjoy all this as a matter of course, enjoy the love of your parents, you don't have to worry about anything, because no matter what happens, your parents will bear it for you, slowly, you grow up, go to school, and in junior high school you will be less obedient, willful, learn to talk back, and be angry with your parents from time to time, but they still love you as always, and they will reach out and open their mouths, just because you are their child.

In high school, you are even more disobedient, you don't even bother to talk to your parents, you bow your head to your mobile phone all day long, you don't stay at home during the holidays, you go out with your classmates and friends from morning to night, your parents say you, you don't listen at all, and you quarrel and get angry with them, but your parents still love you so much, give what you want, and worry about everything about you.

You have never thought about why only your parents are kind to you with no less hard work, is this what they are trying to do? They just want you to live well, but you must not think that it is necessary to be good to you, and you have no reason to take your parents' good for you for granted.

Sometimes you think of your classmates for many years, at school, you eat and drink together almost every day, fight, chase girls, so good, now you are in trouble, think of him, want to ask him for help, after all, you used to be so good, but he seems to be deliberately shirking, very careless, you told him about the previous bits and pieces in school, what happened together, he also agreed, but you can also feel that he doesn't seem to be very touched, which makes you have no reason to continue, After that, you think that this classmate is such a bad person, and he was good to him at school, and now he doesn't help when he is in trouble, so you don't contact him anymore, and he has become an ornament in your address book.

Have you ever wondered why this classmate wants to help you? It is the duty to help you, and it is the duty not to help you.

In the past, when you were together, he was good to you does not mean that he will be good to you in the future, this is not a matter of course, please remember.

It's the same with friends and brothers, it's impossible for you to scold them when they treat you badly, because you can't take their kindness for granted. If you meet your beloved partner, if you are good to her, she will be good to you, but if one day she leaves and is no longer good to you, you can't blame her, you can only sigh and reflect at most, she can't always be good to you, and you can't take it for granted.

Look down on nature, cherish everything, care more about the people around you, don't take the good that others give you for granted, and remember at all times that not everyone takes your good for granted.