Is a friend s jealousy right? Are you jealous of your friends?

Jealousy is a human instinct, you know? Everyone wants to be good, right? No one likes to be someone who is looked down upon by others, or who has no skills.

When some people do what you don't do, get honors that you don't have, plus praise and envy from the outside world, can you not start waves in your heart when you have nothing? My neighbor Xiao Wang won 5 million in the lottery, my colleague Xiao Zhang took a free 5-day trip to Hawaii, and his classmate Li took the first place in the school in the exam, with a scholarship of 1000, can you still be like water?

Of course, there are people who are not jealous, but there are too few people who have no quarrel with the world, and the moral character of those people is indeed high to a certain extent. A famous person once said, there are very few bad people in this world, and there are very few good people, most of them are not good people. But I don't think this ratio is right, it should be that there are very few good people, not a few bad people, and most of the bad people.

As for the question of not being jealous, even good people don't necessarily have it.

In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self.

The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer.

A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom.

A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...

A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along!

A true friend who will never forget your name and what you do...

True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there is any contradiction is also held in the heart, at most it is estranged from the relationship, and it will not be scolded, if you can scold your friend, then you are not real friends

True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. But lucky people are always scarce.

This is discussed on a case-by-case basis, and if it is normal jealousy, there is nothing wrong with it; If it's not normal, then it must be changed.

Yes, it's normal, there are strong and there are weak, but the right thing is to keep trying, and jealousy is not right.

What can you do, be jealous.

I don't envy my friend's success. There are several reasons for this:

1. It is human nature to be jealous, and it is also natural to choose not to be jealous;

2. Being jealous of my friend's success won't do me any favors;

3. Why should you be jealous of your friend's success, isn't it better to hug your thighs.

Some people in life will be jealous of their friends' success, I don't understand this behavior, jealousy of their friends' success will only allow them to harvest negative energy and resentment, and can not let themselves really get friendship, when you meet a real friend who succeeds, all you have left is blessing and companionship. Personally, for the success of friends, whether familiar or unfamiliar friends, I will choose to bless, because everyone has their own destiny, and the success of friends belongs to the luck of friends, and I hope to touch the good luck of friends.

I would also ask myself if I really wasn't jealous? Isn't there any jealousy at all? It turned out that I may not be jealous, I attribute the lack of jealousy to being too clear about my own cognitive positioning, never pursuing things that do not belong to me, I will fight for what I want, I will not force it if I can't win it, I will not compare with others, pursue the superiority of contrast, my superiority comes more from my own strength and ability, and the superiority and gap compared with others will make me reflect, learn to reflect and solve the problem when the process is very painful, I am painful and happy, Learning to reflect is probably one of the reasons why I don't envy my friends.

When you are jealous of your friend's success, the solutions you can take are:

1. Learn to reflect on yourself;

2. Enhance self-awareness;

3. Get along less with successful friends;

4. Make yourself successful.

I think that true friendship, when friends succeed, will not produce jealousy, successful friends will not dislike my unsuccess, but will pull me along, let us share weal and woe, happiness and hardship. At the same time, don't be afraid of being compared, admit that it is not so difficult to be inferior to others, we are ordinary people at the same time, there are very few people who can succeed, since we can't succeed, embrace the mediocre life and live a happy life of our own.

If you are not willing to be mediocre, you can also work the road to success, but you must grasp the degree of success that you value so that you can finally live the life you want and not be driven by jealousy.

Although it is human nature to be jealous, I will not be jealous of my friend's success, because I will only congratulate him on his success because I regard him as a real friend.

I'm not jealous of my friend's success, I'm a friend's success, it's a thing to celebrate, and there shouldn't be such negativity between friends, so I'm not jealous of others.

Yes. But while I am jealous, I will be happy for my friends. And I will look up to my friends and learn from their strengths.

No, my friend's success is the result of other people's efforts. We ourselves still have to go our own way. However, if our ideas are plagiarized, then we must stay away from such friends, for the rest of our lives. Because, that's the enemy.

I won't be jealous, my friends rely on hard work and strength to achieve success, congratulations are too late to talk about jealousy, this will become a desire to stimulate their own desire for success.

No, the most envious, the most hard work is the most down-to-earth, and the things that reach out for will always owe others a favor.

First of all, you should congratulate yourself on being able to see yourself, most of the time, many people can't even see that they are jealous, giving people a face, not giving people a step, even if they are good friends.

Living in this world, as long as you have the pursuit of desires and material things, you will definitely compare with others, and once you compare with others, you will have a sense of imbalance, and then a feeling of jealousy, so this is a very normal feeling. Sometimes a proper jealousy can make you see your desires, but a person can't live in jealousy all the time, so we need to regulate ourselves.

But if you look closely, why are even your best friends jealous? What kind of people are we jealous of in our daily lives?

As the saying goes, lazy people are jealous of lazy people, and even the most unmotivated people sometimes go to jealousy, and jealousy often comes from comparison. What kind of people do you compare yourself to?

Will you have more money than Bill Gates, and will you compare rights with **? Of course not, you are generally comparing people who have the same points as you, and you may live very similar lives, but for some reason, he surpasses you, or furthermore, his progress sets off your backwardness, making you suddenly feel insecure and feel that your value has become insignificant.

If you think about it, in fact, the external person is just a fuse, and what really makes you jealous is your inner sense of inadequacy, your inner feeling of lack and insecurity.

You can't understand yourself, you can't find your own value, you can only rely on external things to support, and you can only rely on the praise of external characters to affirm your own value, but these things often can't escape the doom of comparison, you always want to show that you are different or better than others through comparison.

It's not that you don't want to compare, it's just that many times, our comparisons are too blind. We may deny our own worth because of a little gap, and we may become jealous because we want to be like others.

Therefore, if a person has a full understanding of himself, has made full affirmation of himself, has his own unique principles for doing things, he cherishes his heart, he observes his heart, even if he occasionally compares with others, but those are not enough to make him feel a sense of want, because he recognizes himself and recognizes his own value, he will say, I am who I am, I don't need to be someone else, and I have my value, which does not need to be proved by external things.

In fact, the real diamond is in your own heart, observe your heart more, and remember that you will always be a unique and special person, with your own unique value. I believe that at that time, you will have a deeper understanding of what jealousy is and why it is jealous.

I think everyone is more or less jealous of their friends, and of course I will have them, such as being jealous that friends are better than themselves, look prettier than themselves, and do things better than themselves, I think this is normal.

No. There will be no jealousy, only envy. Friends have achieved results and achieved success in some aspects, and naturally there is corresponding dedication and persistence.

The success of a friend will be the beacon of your own success, and you should be grateful. With an open mind, a lot of negative emotions will naturally disappear.

Everyone is more or less jealous of their friends, and of course I will have them, such as being jealous that their friends are better than themselves, that they are prettier than themselves, and that they are better than themselves, and that they are better than themselves, which I think is normal.

I am jealous of my friend's good family atmosphere and personal ability, she is jealous of my family background, and she can talk about a lot of topics, but fundamentally we don't want each other to have a good life, especially better than ourselves.

To give you a few examples, I actually think I am jealous but I will refrain from affecting my friends and try not to affect them, but she is not. She behaved a lot of the time and I thought that either she was a terrible person or that she didn't see me as a friend at all.

You have to be jealous of your friends. There are no absolutes in anything, and occasionally there will be jealousy once or twice, in fact, this situation mainly depends on how you and your good friend deal with this matter.

It's not that you're small-minded, I feel the same way as you. In fact, this is a normal reaction, the key is that you care too much about this relationship, do you put her position at a very high level, so you are very sensitive to her every move. I think as long as you don't think about it too deliberately and distract yourself from other things, this feeling will gradually fade and you can believe that you can do it

No, but only if she wants me well and won't hide it from me.

I'm glad he's better than me. He can guide me to make me better, and I can also guide him to make his life better.

I will not be jealous of my friend, I will comfort my friend if she is unhappy or unhappy, and I will be happy for her if my friend is happy and lucky.

Of course, they will be jealous of their friends, because this is the normal psychology of people, and everyone's psychology is the same: sympathy for the weak and jealousy of the strong at the same time.

Occasionally, for example, if there are some friends who are a little better than me, then I will be jealous of him, but if he is much better than me, I can only envy him, not jealous.

I certainly don't envy friends.

They're better off than me, and if I'm in trouble, a ** will do.

They are worse off than me, and it's also a ** thing. As long as you have the ability, you will definitely help.

I won't squeeze all my friends, if my friends are stronger than me, I will envy them, and I will learn from them, I have such a good friend, which is also my honor and the goal I pursue on the road of life.

I think most people will be jealous, jealous that he has something that I don't have. But I'm not going to distance ourselves from that, I'm going to want him to learn and learn, I don't. Sometimes the right amount of jealousy makes people grow and get better!

Definitely, there is jealousy in people's instincts, and it is very normal to be jealous when they see that they are better than themselves and that they are their friends.

In fact, occasional jealousy is also normal, and society is more ubiquitous, so jealousy is not uncommon.

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