Why do children contact their parents less frequently when they go to college?

When children are young, they are generally more dependent on their parents, especially in primary and secondary schools, many children do not live in school, and come home after school every day to get along with their parents. However, as you get older, especially after college, you may have less and less contact with your family. This situation is also understandable, and it does not mean that the relationship between the child and the parents is estranged, but that the child needs to have his own life when he grows up.

After children go to college, they often go to other cities, and the contact with their parents is more dependent on communication, and the connection is naturally not as close as when they were children. If a child goes to college in another place, he usually only has more time to go home during the winter and summer vacations, and if he or she is far away, he usually rarely goes home during the long vacation. Some children may be in the same city as their parents when they go to college, but they usually live in dormitories during college and don't go home every day.

When children grow up, they have their own lives, and they are busy with their studies in college, and they are also facing the pressure of finding a job or going to graduate school. When children go to college, they will have a new life compared to middle school, and they will be much less dependent on their parents. On the other hand, college studies may not seem as heavy as high school on the surface, but they are not relaxed due to the pressure of finding a job.

For students who choose to go to graduate school, their study pressure is not much lighter than that of high school. Especially for college students who are close to graduation, they have more things to do and may not have so much time to contact their parents every day.

Parents are very concerned about their children, so even after college, they should communicate with their parents more. Parents watch their children grow up from an early age, and work hard for them to be admitted to college. It's not easy.

After college, children should keep in touch with their parents so as not to make them worry about them all the time.

I don't think it's necessarily related to the way children usually get along with their parents, and it is possible that they didn't like to be in touch often before because they were far away from school.

Because children have their own circles and lives, and parents have **, so the frequency of contact with parents will be reduced, and only when you need money, you will think of contacting parents.

Why do you ask? For this "learning difficulty.

From the beginning of the school year, they communicate with their children regularly through parents and **, and ask them to pay more attention to their learning.

Because a lot of people already owe a lot of credits. Through communication, I think that many parents don't know that their children are studying in school, and they don't have to worry about it when they go to college, and some parents don't know because they can't get too many exams in college, so they don't have to worry anymore.

After college, why don't parents pay attention to their children's grades? Ask about the results to be sneaky! Because a lot of people already owe a lot of credits.

Through communication, I think that many parents don't know that their children are studying in school, and they don't have to worry about it when they go to college, and some parents don't know because they can't get too many exams in college, so they don't have to worry anymore.

When their children go to college, can parents really relax? In fact, this kind of accident is not right. As counselor teachers, parents are advised to continue to care about their children's learning.

Although it can't be managed as strictly as middle and high school, it's a good idea to ask your children how their grades are at least at the end of the semester. (William Shakespeare.)

Hamlet, have you ever failed?

In this way, problems can also be found and solved in time, which is also a supervision for children. After all, the university is studying professionally. It is clear that you want to use your major to find a job to eat, and if you can't learn the ability to eat, how can you find a suitable job in the future? (You know).

Because a lot of people already owe a lot of credits. Through communication, I think that many parents don't know that their children are studying in school, and they don't have to worry about it when they go to college, and some parents don't know because they can't get too many exams in college, so they don't have to worry anymore.

Because a lot of people already owe a lot of credits. Through communication, I think that many parents don't know that their children are studying in school, and they don't have to worry about it when they go to college, and some parents don't know because they can't get too many exams in college, so they don't have to worry anymore.

Of course, it is necessary to pay attention to the child's learning situation, the university is relatively relaxed, if in this relaxed environment, the child can not do special self-discipline, the child wants to become particularly good in academic performance, it is not particularly easy.

After the child goes to college, it is also necessary for parents to pay attention to their children's learning, although the child has become an adult during college, but it is difficult for many children to develop the habit of self-discipline, and there is supervision, so they will do better.

Yes. It is the duty of parents to care about their children's learning, and even if they go to college, they can greet them appropriately.

Because college is more busy with studies and college life is relatively fresh, there are many children who rarely contact their parents.

Because many children feel that they have gone to college and are adults, plus they are busy with their studies in college, they will go out with friends, and then the communication with their parents will be reduced.

Because children will yearn for freedom more when they are in college, and the university is far away from home, parents cannot restrain them, and they will be more independent after college, etc.

Because after going to college, children have a lot of things to do every day, and they also feel that they should have their own things when they grow up, so they have less contact with their parents.

I don't know if parents who have children going to college at home have such feelings: it seems that after their children go to college, they are not as close to themselves as before, and ** is even rarer, and they will hardly take the initiative to call yourself. Many parents feel that their children are too old to control themselves.

So why do children rarely contact their parents as soon as they go to college?

First of all, when I first started leaving home, I was definitely not used to it in all aspects. At that time, our parents were the best people to complain about, so the contact would be frequent. But later, after becoming familiar with the environment, this kind of contact is decreasing, and I have a social circle and an object of complaint, so the number of times I call my parents is slowly decreasing.

Secondly, after going to university, I made new friends and my life became very rich. Some children will choose a school far away from home when they go to university, and their idea may be that the farther away from home the better, after all, in our concept, "good boys are ambitious", and when they were young, they stayed in the same place for more than ten years, which may be a little boring, and they are eager to go to a distant city to see how life there is different. And when they go to college, they meet new people, who may come from different places and have different habits, but these friends will have a lot in common when they get together.

You may feel homesick at first, but after a while in college, you're fully immersed in that life. When children are happy at school, they may not remember to call their parents every day. If this is the case, parents should actually be happier, after all, the child is doing well at school, which is what parents want.

Finally, there is a lot of coursework in college, and if you want to get more opportunities than others, then you have to enrich yourself without limits. Only in this way can you be better than others, and it will not be so difficult to find a job in the future. Behind this excellence, of course, it is all accumulated by oneself with time, learning little by little, accumulating little by little, and slowly creating a successful self.

The time is well utilized, so there is less communication with parents.

In fact, when children enter the college campus, it already means that they have begun to step into society with half a foot, and many times they have more things to think about, or more things to be busy, and many times they will neglect to contact their parents. So it's not because children are no longer close to their parents, but because there are too many things around them.

I think the main reason is that the children were controlled by their parents at home before, and they couldn't do what they wanted, and after they went to college, they would be very free, and they didn't want to be constrained by their parents, so they rarely contacted their parents.

Because the child grows up, has his own life circle, and no longer relies on his parents, they want to be independent, they want to live on their own, and they don't want their parents to interfere with him anymore, this is growing up.

Because you are away from your parents, you can do a lot of things that your parents didn't do for you before, and when your children take back their playfulness, they will naturally contact their parents more.

Because I am far away from home, my study life is also very busy, and I have to participate in many clubs, so I have very little time.

It is because after the child goes to college, he has his own life circle. And the university life is relatively fulfilling. So I rarely contact my parents.

After going to college, the students are basically adults, and they have their own small circles, and they don't want their parents to be more disciplined, so they have less contact.

Because many students are busy with socializing, traveling, and academics after going to college, and then they rarely contact their parents.

Because many students go to college, they only care about playing with their friends, and they have too much time to think about their parents.

After going to college, the child's independence is improved, and the dependence on the parents becomes less and less, so there is less contact with the parents.

When I went to college, I was outside, I was already relatively independent, and my study tasks were heavier, and I spent more time busy with my own affairs, and I may have less contact, but it was best to give my family a ** a week, and I cared about my parents.

Because they have their own ideas, their own opinions, they become more and more independent, and they have many like-minded friends, so the generation gap with their parents has also arisen.

For many students, after they go to college, they usually leave their hometown and go to another place to go to college. Many students have never left their parents before going to college, and they have been staying with their parents before going to college. However, parents may be more uncomfortable with their children going to school outside the country than they are for students.

Because for parents, when their children are at home, they can always care for and greet their children, be able to understand their children's physical and mental health and changes, and be able to pay attention to their children's dynamics at all times.

However, when children go to school in other places, they can not understand the daily life of their children in time, and some families with only one child, when the children go to school in other places, only two parents are left in the family, and for parents, their lives have nothing else to enjoy except missing their children. However, for students, many children are very rebellious during adolescence and want to break away from their parents at an early age. When they go to college, there is no parental control, and the school management is not very strict, so many students think that they are very relaxed and comfortable after going to college, and no one cares about what they do in college.

Therefore, many college students begin to let go of themselves and begin to enjoy the happiness of rich college life after going to college. However, for their parents who are far away from their hometowns, few college students will take the initiative to contact their parents, and it is often the parents who call ** to ask about the recent situation of their children. Therefore, although college students live a relaxed and comfortable life in college, they must always remember that there are parents at home who are always concerned about them.

For college students, in college, they should enjoy college life and experience a different study life, but they should also often chat and communicate with their parents, talk to them more, and care more about their physical health.

Many college students are not young when they are in college, and they are already able to take care of their parents. However, most parents do not ask students to take care of themselves, they just want their children to have a happy learning environment and living environment in college. As for their children's life in college, they only hope that their children can grow up happily and have a relaxed learning environment.

For most parents, their greatest hope is that their children can live a good life, and only when their children have a good development is their success, and they can be happy.

I think it's quite high, and basically I will contact it in two or three days. The purpose of contacting parents is not to ask them for money, but to simply tell them about their recent living conditions.

It's still very high, especially in many cases, when you don't understand something, you will choose to communicate with your parents, and in this way, you can become enlightened.

After I went to college, I didn't contact my parents very often, but even if I was busy, I had to make sure that I called home at a fixed time every week.