Why do children rarely contact their parents as soon as they go to college?

I don't know if parents who have children going to college at home have such feelings: it seems that after their children go to college, they are not as close to themselves as before, and ** is even rarer, and they will hardly take the initiative to call yourself. Many parents feel that their children are too old to control themselves.

So why do children rarely contact their parents as soon as they go to college?

First of all, when I first started leaving home, I was definitely not used to it in all aspects. At that time, our parents were the best people to complain about, so the contact would be frequent. But later, after becoming familiar with the environment, this kind of contact is decreasing, and I have a social circle and an object of complaint, so the number of times I call my parents is slowly decreasing.

Secondly, after going to university, I made new friends and my life became very rich. Some children will choose a school far away from home when they go to university, and their idea may be that the farther away from home the better, after all, in our concept, "good boys are ambitious", and when they were young, they stayed in the same place for more than ten years, which may be a little boring, and they are eager to go to a distant city to see how life there is different. And when they go to college, they meet new people, who may come from different places and have different habits, but these friends will have a lot in common when they get together.

You may feel homesick at first, but after a while in college, you're fully immersed in that life. When children are happy at school, they may not remember to call their parents every day. If this is the case, parents should actually be happier, after all, the child is doing well at school, which is what parents want.

Finally, there is a lot of coursework in college, and if you want to get more opportunities than others, then you have to enrich yourself without limits. Only in this way can you be better than others, and it will not be so difficult to find a job in the future. Behind this excellence, of course, it is all accumulated by oneself with time, learning little by little, accumulating little by little, and slowly creating a successful self.

The time is well utilized, so there is less communication with parents.

In fact, when children enter the college campus, it already means that they have begun to step into society with half a foot, and many times they have more things to think about, or more things to be busy, and many times they will neglect to contact their parents. So it's not because children are no longer close to their parents, but because there are too many things around them.

I think the main reason is that the children were controlled by their parents at home before, and they couldn't do what they wanted, and after they went to college, they would be very free, and they didn't want to be constrained by their parents, so they rarely contacted their parents.

Because the child grows up, has his own life circle, and no longer relies on his parents, they want to be independent, they want to live on their own, and they don't want their parents to interfere with him anymore, this is growing up.

Because you are away from your parents, you can do a lot of things that your parents didn't do for you before, and when your children take back their playfulness, they will naturally contact their parents more.

Because I am far away from home, my study life is also very busy, and I have to participate in many clubs, so I have very little time.

It is because after the child goes to college, he has his own life circle. And the university life is relatively fulfilling. So I rarely contact my parents.

Parents in the world are the same, they all hope that their children are dragons and phoenixes, and hope that their children can have an easy life in the future. But few parents tell their children why they have to go to university. Maybe the parents have a low education and can't say anything about the reason, but they understand that if they don't suffer from studying, they will have to suffer from life.

When I was in my third year of high school, my mom looked at me very well and said a lot to me, which also strengthened my confidence to go to a good university. Why do parents have to send their children to college?

1.Don't want your child to live like them. I come from a remote town, and most of my classmates at our school have parents who are migrant workers, doing the most tiring work every day for the lowest wage.

We have no background in our family, no connections, and we can't afford to go to university, so we can only go out to work like our parents and repeat their lives. They know that if they are admitted to university, their work will be much easier and they will live with dignity, and they will not go to the vegetable market to bargain with the vendor for half a day for two yuan. The university at least gives you a diploma, and with this diploma, you are eligible to apply for jobs in large companies and get a higher and stable income.

2.Parents want their children to have a smoother path and more choices. Compared with people who have not gone to college, their culture is naturally not as high as yours, their skills are not as good as yours, and their certificates are not as many as yours.

Although you may not be satisfied in college later, it is better than those who hide it. What's more, now companies don't want to recruit undergraduates, they are basically famous schools, or they have high academic qualifications, so don't mention them if they don't have academic qualifications. Going to university has become a shortcut to the "broad road", and the road ahead can be smooth with a degree.

3.Children can improve their abilities and skills, in the university you know the classmates are screened out by the college entrance examination, they come from all over the world, have different habits, different advantages, different ways of doing things. In college, you can meet like-minded friends, work hard for common ideals, and even you may also harvest love, harvest your other half, and love is one of the two major events in life that is as important as career, and its importance is self-evident.

I am with a group of good people, I can make up for my shortcomings, and I will become better. Parents also want you to be good and make good friends. Mr. Lu Xun once said:

The meaning of the existence of parents is not to give their children a comfortable and prosperous life, but when you think of your parents, your heart will be full of strength and warmth. In this way, they have the courage and ability to overcome difficulties, and thus gain true joy and freedom in life. "Actually, one day you will understand that your parents are the people in the world who you put the least effort into but love you the most.

Parents must send their children to college because they know how college will affect their later life and what impact not going to college will have. Here's what I've learned.

1. In order to increase knowledge:

Only when you get to university will you come into contact with classmates from all over the world, will you feel different customs, and your cognition will not be limited to the side of the world where you grew up. You will meet a lot of excellent classmates and teachers, and you will be exposed to a wider world. Entering society from university is different from entering society from high school, and your horizons will be much broader.

2. Education and diplomas:

Of course, I believe that the level of education does not equal the level of achievement. However, when you first enter employment, your academic qualifications determine the scope and level of work you can work in. A good career does not depend on academic qualifications, but academic qualifications are your stepping stones.

Nowadays, many companies will have clear academic requirements for recruitment, and if the academic qualifications are not enough, you will not even have the opportunity to interview, no matter how good you are, you will not have the opportunity to show.

Some classmates will say, then I will do business, and I will be my own boss. As I said above, if you don't go to college, you won't get in touch with people from different places the fastest, you won't know the customs of various places, you are only familiar with the place where you live, but now that information is so developed, and the speed of upgrading in all walks of life is so fast, if you don't follow the trend and keep up with the pace of the development of the times, how can you do business. You can still do business and be a boss when you go to college.

3. Ability to think independently

The university environment is more relaxed, and there is a lot of time to arrange freely, which exercises your independence. This exercise is necessary because sooner or later you will have to live independently.

Of course, you may not be comfortable at first, you will have nothing to do and waste your time, but this is the only way to improve your independence and the price, and you realize the value of time. You have time to think about yourself and society, and you can give your own opinions on various social issues. If you don't understand, you'll go online and go to the library to learn about it.

You don't follow everyone else, you have the ability to think for yourself, you judge right and wrong.

If you want to be a student, go to the library and study room, if you want to make connections and exercise yourself, you can become a student cadre, if you want to start a business, you can start from setting up a stall, and if you want to do scientific research, you can follow the teacher into the laboratory ......There's a lot to do!

With the rapid development of Chinese society, the requirements for academic qualifications and talents are getting higher and higher, and college students are no longer a rare species as before, but a kind of batch output. Some people may say that even if you go to college now, you will not face huge employment pressure after graduation, and it is better to enter the society early to make money, but why do parents still have to work hard for their children to go to college, the following points can answer this question well.

1. I hope that my child's life will be better after he goes to college.

Parents are desperate to provide for their children to go to college, but they just want their children to be able to live a better life, at least better than themselves, so no matter how hard and tired they are, parents will work hard to provide for their children to go to college. So, when you're in college, you can't play games, skip classes, and that's all there is to do after college. But if you develop yourself well, you will definitely usher in a different version of yourself after going to college.

2. I hope that my child will gain a different life experience when he goes to college.

Not all parents have the opportunity or ability to go to college, but they understand that going to college is a different kind of life experience, and there is no substitute for it. In addition to improving their abilities in all aspects, college children can also see and recognize more excellent people, so as to urge themselves to keep moving forward, and the feeling of seeing them is also different. What's more, I have never regretted going to college, only regretting not going to college.

3. Personal cultivation.

Although some people make a lot of money, they exude vulgarity and rudeness, even if they wear famous brands and dress up in every way, they can't hide their lack of humanistic qualities. During the four years of college, you have been with knowledgeable and educated people, listening to ** meetings, watching art exhibitions, participating in interest clubs, reading various books, and your artistic accomplishment, humanistic quality, moral accomplishment, including personality cultivation, are constantly improving, but this has little to do with whether you have money or not. While you envy some people, you don't know that they are also envious of your knowledge and taste.

In our parents' generation, it is very difficult to ask for knowledge, most of our parents have not gone to college, and can only do some hard work to make money, so parents will be so eager to hope for their son Jackie Chan, because they know that only by being admitted to college can they really go out, and their children will not work as hard as themselves in the future. I think there are these reasons why parents have to send their children to college.

1. Broaden your horizons.

2. Obtain academic qualifications.

Although education does not mean everything, but when looking for a job, education is definitely the first stepping stone, many powerful companies and enterprises, from the screening of academic qualifications can eliminate many people, you don't even have the opportunity to interview, there is no opportunity to introduce yourself, show yourself, you are passed. And now the society is very involuted, even if you have a bachelor's degree, you may not be competitive, more people are preparing to continue their studies and take the postgraduate examination for a doctorate, so it is really important to go to university, this is where your study boat sets sail.

3. Feel youth.

At this age, college is a good transition stage for us to grow from children to adults, which can allow us to gradually understand the reality and warmth of society. At the age of 20, you can feel sweet love, learn knowledge for your dreams, and live a simple and pure life.

When we were in junior high school or high school, we would see our relatives and friends' older siblings saying that they were going to college, and we would be very envious, and then our parents would say that we would learn from our older siblings and go to college. So why do parents have to send their children to college?

1: Your vision will be higher when you go to college. Because the people I came into contact with at the junior high school and high school level were all from their own area and had never gone out, their cognition only stayed in the small place they were in.

If we go to university, we come into contact with people from all over the world, and they have different levels of thinking and understanding. By engaging with them, we can improve our cognitive level, allow ourselves to see further, and think more than just our own level.

2: Higher education. This is one of the most intuitive reasons, because the minimum requirements for companies to recruit talents are all college graduates, so in order to find a good job in the future, support yourself, support your small family, and go to college is the best way.

There is a saying that you may not use high numbers when buying groceries, but high numbers can determine that you are buying groceries in **. This is a very popular and realistic sentence, as long as we are more educated, the more attention will be paid by the company, promotion and salary increase are trivial things, and our state of mind, mind will be expanded, will no longer be troubled by some small things?

Generally, when they are old enough to know how many friends have multiple roads, and they have all gone outside to fight when they were young, if they are in a strange city, there is no one who knows familiar people, and no one helps them, they will feel very lonely, sad and helpless. After going to university, we know people from all over the country, even if we don't work hard in our hometown in the future, we can get a warmth of our own in a foreign land, and we won't feel lonely.

So our parents let us go to college for the sake of our future, and we must study hard and not let our parents down.