What happened to stay at home moms who quit their jobs for their children?

They all regretted it because they lost their jobs, had no income, and were looked down upon by their husbands and mothers-in-law.

It's not very good, because being a stay-at-home mother will increase the pressure on the family and exacerbate the conflicts in the family!

Stay-at-home mothers who quit their jobs for their children choose to continue looking for jobs after their children go to school, because being a full-time mother for a long time will gradually isolate themselves from society and make stay-at-home mothers unable to adapt to the rhythm of society.

Pretty good. I just quit my job for the sake of the children and have been taking care of the children at home, and my husband gives me money to spend every month, and I am doing well.

They are all very happy, because in the process of accompanying the children, they feel the meaning of life and also witness the growth of the children.

Stay-at-home mothers who quit their jobs for their children are not very happy in real life, there is no job and no income, and there will be more conflicts in the family, because all material things are supported by money.

Some people work together and make money together, but in some families, there will be stay-at-home mothers who arrange all the housework at home. And these stay-at-home mothers, in fact, also quit their jobs to become full-time mothers after giving birth to their children, because they want their children to get a better education, or to be able to take better care of their children.

For an outsider, we can't judge whether it's really worth it, because some families are very happy, so many mothers will voluntarily want to take care of their husbands and children at home. But if the mother is forced to quit her job and then become a full-time mother, then in this way, in his life, it is very likely that his status in the whole family will become very low, because sometimes a full-time mother, it is like a nanny, taking care of the children and family. Of course, not all stay-at-home moms are in this situation.

If the status of the family has become very low, then it is not worth it to be a stay-at-home mother.

Many full-time mothers used to have their own work achievements, but for the sake of the family, for the sake of the children, so they resigned to become a full-time mother, so when the children grow up and no longer need parents to take care of them so carefully, many mothers will also choose to re-enter the workplace, but at this time if you want to start working it is very difficult. Therefore, I also hope that when making this decision, my mother can consider whether she can really adapt to the life of a full-time mother. Because there are many stay-at-home moms, it is difficult for them to adjust to this life after quitting their jobs.

But for mothers, they do quit their jobs to be able to take better care of their children, because a lot of time is spent on them. And this does not mean that being a stay-at-home mother is a worthwhile thing, but it depends on everyone's different views on this matter, because everyone may think that if I can take care of the children, then this is also my greatest achievement as a mother, but some people may want to work harder at work. So whether it's worth it or not is not based on one person's thoughts, but on the feelings brought to mothers in the whole family.

It is worth it for mothers who make this choice, and it is worth it for them to give up their lives and take good care of their children in order to take better care of their children.

It's worth it, because being a stay-at-home mom and being able to devote all your time to your child will give your child a good education.

It's not worth it, because it puts too much pressure on the child, and it's actually not good for the child's growth, and the mother is more stressed.

It depends on the individual, if the husband knows that his wife quits his job for the sake of the children, but loves her more and does not dislike it, it is worth it to be a full-time mother, some husbands dislike their wives for not working and dressing up, and always compare their friends' wives with their own wives, then the full-time mother will feel sad and inferior, and even think that she regrets resigning at the beginning

First of all, I live more frugally in life, and the things I buy are all children's supplies, and the family status has also declined without economy, and the social circle has begun to become smaller, and there are no close friends, and it will become very difficult to step into the workplace again.

In the end, they were all very miserable, and some would often quarrel with their husbands, and their lives were more difficult.

I think those people deserve it, they have no plan, they have children indiscriminately, they don't have time to bring a woolen child, and in this era, my mother-in-law doesn't care if young people have children or not, because my mother-in-law also has to work to earn money, and she has no time to take care of children, and why should others sacrifice the children she gave birth.

There are also many stay-at-home mothers who give up their jobs for the sake of their children, and most of these women are out of society. Instead, make yourself less valuable.

Resign for the sake of the child, drink the northwest wind, go!

Introduction: Parents become stay-at-home mothers in order to let their children develop well.

In order for their children to have a good life, many parents will put down their jobs, take care of their children wholeheartedly, and let their children study hard. If you see your child learning well, you can also encourage your child. Parents must discuss with their children to see what kind of way the child is suitable for, although the work of a full-time mother is hard, but you have to think about it, if you can let your child get a better life is also very good.

Some mothers are willing to take care of their children at home in order to get more development after marriage, at this time you have to experience the hard work of your wife, and you can't let your wife feel that you don't care about yourself all the time. Although there are only a few things that a wife does at home, you have to think about it, if a person often faces these boring lives, the children will become sad.

Parents must talk to their children well, so that their children can get better promotion, and they must learn to help their children at ordinary times. Mothers are actually very hard, and parents must discuss with their children. Parents must grasp some of the child's growth, so that the child slowly gets promoted, many parents are willing to give up everything for the sake of the child, at this time you have to combine all the focus, you can't say that you don't do anything for the child, there is no way to let the child get changed, many children will encounter a lot of situations when they are young, you have to give the child a good choice and a good treatment, so that the child can better understand some things.

It is necessary to use a good method to adjust, to make changes to the child, so that the child has a good choice. Parents should grasp the law of their children's development and let their children become better and better. If you don't know the hard work of a stay-at-home mother, you can also experience it appropriately.

I think it's very worthwhile, because it allows you to get along with your child better and get along with your child from an early age, you can understand your child's personality and preferences, you can educate your child well, and you can take better care of your child so that she doesn't get sick.

It's not worth it. Because each of us is an individual, each of us should have our own life.

It is worthwhile to do this, because the child's growth process is only once, and the child should be taken care of and nurtured.

I don't think it's worth it, although I am happy to accompany my children to grow up, but I will be separated from society from now on.

I don't think it's worth it, although the mother loves her child very much, but she can't quit to be a full-time mother for him, because there are many disadvantages of being a full-time mother:

1. The vast majority of stay-at-home wives are housewives.

The title of full-time wife is indeed very good, but in real life, there are several women who are treated as wives every day, and the so-called wives should be the rich wives in TV dramas, with afternoon tea every day, a driver to drive shopping, a nanny at home, taking care of children, and housework. And full-time wives in real life are actually just housewives, because most of them are actually ordinary people, their husbands are making money outside to support the family, and women are at home with their children doing housework, and they revolve around the pot every day, which is actually a very hard thing. Under normal circumstances, housewives are far more difficult than working people, which means that housewives are actually harder than their husbands who work hard outside the home, and this profession is easy to boil people into the legendary "yellow-faced woman" in the long run.

After all, everyone is an ordinary person, with limited energy, working so hard every day, and not having time to take good care of it, the whole person looks different in a few years.

Second, it is difficult to achieve financial freedomThere is also a difference between housewives and housewives, and some women meet a good husband who is willing to put all the financial power in their hands. In such a situation, everyone naturally has no worries, and they will not lose their dignity because of money, but if it is a woman who is unlucky, the result will be completely different.

Although men will give women a certain amount of living expenses every month, what women want to buy is not so convenient, especially most women are actually beauty-loving, everyone wants to buy cosmetics, want to buy bags, buy things they like, and sometimes it is not so freewheeling. In such a situation, working women will not have too many worries, after all, earning money to support their families is almost a man's responsibility, and the money earned by working women can be used for their own expenses.

Therefore, for the sake of your own happiness, you can't choose to be a stay-at-home mother, which has too many disadvantages.

There is nothing worth it or not, and it doesn't matter if you need it or not. It is even more irresponsible for not taking children to grow up.

I have seen many mothers who have allowed themselves and their children to live out their fairy spirit, achieved their children, and achieved themselves. But I've also seen a lot of chickens and dogs jumping with babies: I am one of them.

At that time, I thought that I could take care of my family, play with my children, teach my children early, and give him a sense of security, but I found that I didn't do anything well.

Because I am not focused and can't be satisfied with trembling, I am still thinking that if my family has my help, the economic conditions will be much better.

So, throughout the process of quitting my job and taking care of the baby, I devoted a lot of my time to the vegetable market, kitchen, and housework.

At the same time, due to the immaturity of the self inside, when the child is not happy, he will yell at the child, so that the child has no sense of security.

As a result, the child was not brought well, and his career was cut off, and both lost! Eventually, I had to readjust to working life.

Therefore, if your financial conditions allow, and you yourself are very patient, willing to take divination, caring, and have the knowledge and skills to accompany your child, then the child should develop very healthily.

If you're like me, your shell isn't strong enough to be content with the moment, you don't have enough love and patience, it's better to do your job well and go home from work and spend a few hours with your children in high quality.

Because there are some things that you can't solve if you have the will, you also have to be interested and capable.

You have to have time, want to look at the baby, and be able to watch the baby, and be suitable for the baby, in order to really look at the baby.

A second mother from a mother's group shared.

Preamble: There are many mothers who quit their jobs to become stay-at-home mothers because they have to take care of their children. I think this needs to be selected according to the actual situation of the family, if there are many children in the family, then we can temporarily quit the job and wait until the children grow up to go out to work.

If we only have one child at home, then we don't feel the need to quit. For me, I will not choose to be a stay-at-home mother after getting married, because I like to work very much.

I think that if there are a lot of children in the family, more than three, then we can quit our jobs and become stay-at-home mothers, because the age gap between the children is not particularly large. If you devote yourself to work, then you will miss the child's development, and there are many fathers who are very busy at work, and if the parents do not have time to take care of the child, then the child's education will face a particularly big problem. Therefore, if you want to be a stay-at-home mother, we can also choose according to the actual situation of the family.

If there are fewer children in the family and there are elderly people to help, then I don't think we need to be stay-at-home mothers.

It is worthwhile to be there for your child, so it will also allow your child to live in a loving environment, which can boost your child's self-confidence.

I think it's worth it because every child is a parent's baby, and there are a lot of parents who love their children, so I think it's worth it.

I don't think it's worth it, because giving up your job and your life for the sake of your children will only make you more of a failure.

It is very worthwhile, because educating the child is very important for the mother, the child has a good development, and she is very happy.

No, it won't. I think this will put a lot of pressure on the child, and at the same time, it will also put a lot of time and energy on the child.