How should a man earn money to support his family?

Men are the breadwinners of their families.

01 Don't complain about each other all the time.

In a family, if the man is not motivated enough, then the woman will live a hard life. Therefore, as a woman, if you don't see this person clearly before marriage, then don't regret it after marriage, because it can't be reversed. If you still want to live with your husband, then you should complain less, which will be better for the relationship between the two people and reduce the quarrels with each other.

02 Plan each other's future life with each other.

If your husband is not motivated for many reasons, but his strength is still there, then you can give your husband some advice, so that your husband can listen to it, which will be of great help to the two of them in a better life in the future. Men are the pillars of the family, and if they don't take on this responsibility, then women won't be happy. Therefore, it is necessary to have a good talk with your husband more, which will have a great impact on the future of the two people.

03Let him develop good living habits.

If a man is not enterprising and decadent, a woman is very hard and unhappy, so it is very important to develop good living habits in order to make men more aggressive. In particular, getting rid of smoking and drinking is very good for men.

As a woman, if you want your man to be productive, you must not tolerate some of his bad habits, otherwise it is easy to make him more and more decadent.

Now you have to choose to negotiate with him.

Because now that you have a child, you can use the child as a bargaining chip to tell the other party that if you don't work hard and don't earn money to support the family, then the child will also complain about you in the future, and the cow is also a failed father in the child's heart.

And after a long time, you will stay away from him, because you don't have any sense of security in this kind of life.

Indeed, if my husband doesn't support the family, it's better not to be with him, I think. If he is 25 years old, you must also know the hard work of the family, and if you already have children, you must work harder first, if he doesn't earn money, if you rely on you alone, your family will definitely have a hard time, if you want this boy, I think he doesn't pay to say, if it's not necessary, be with him.

If the husband does not earn money to support the family, and he does not ask his parents for money, there is no way to get along with such a marriage, and his parents themselves have money in the family, and they are not willing to use the money to subsidize the family, which means that there is no dime at all. The husband is not angry, and his parents are very picky, so it is best to divorce and leave the children to the husband and let him raise them by himself. If the marriage continues, it will be very difficult for me, as long as I raise my children and my husband.

In fact, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. You can try to get him to find a job first and slowly change his mind. If he doesn't want to work, he still behaves like this.

You can be firm and file for divorce. After all, in this kind of life, it is very difficult for you to support it alone. Then you might as well find a way to change yourself.

The best way for my husband to be very homesick is to communicate more, he may not be taking responsibility, or it may be a personality problem. But judging from your narrative, I think you're still very entangled. So the best way is to understand him more, and then communicate more and guide more, and slowly it will get better.

If you can't solve the problem after communicating with him, you can choose to divorce so that the child is yours and you can take full responsibility. And he also needs to provide child support, if not, you can choose to go through the legal route.

If your husband is not self-motivated and greedy for comfort, you need to judge whether your expectations of him are too high, whether your pursuit of married life is inconsistent, and if it is indeed inconsistent, you can consider whether this marriage is what you want. If you feel that you can take other value from the other person, you can consider improving your earning power and contributing to your family.

The husband does not earn money to support the family, so it depends on how the husband lives himself. As long as he can survive, individuals can learn from him, let him feel the consequences of not supporting his family, and then he can change his habits.

If he is not aware of his responsibilities as a husband and father, even if you say that it is useless to do more, it is recommended to talk to his parents, such as cutting off his living expenses**, maybe he will not fool around with fox friends and dogs.

I understand your current mood very well, my husband is now married to you and has his own children, it is recommended to communicate well through his parents-in-law, let my husband do things, at least have a job, and can support his family.

You've been in love with him for three years, haven't you seen what kind of person he is? Didn't you get to know his parents as people? You can try to communicate with him, and if it really can't be communicated, then stop the loss in time, I hope you understand what I mean.

It shows that his family doesn't treat you as a family member at all, if you treat such a family, the only choice is to leave, since you want everything from the family, it's better to live outside alone with your children.

That's how irrational you are! Find such a young, ignorant child and be a husband, what do you expect him to bear? You brought it on yourself, why don't you think about it and get married, even if you get married, you can get divorced?

Why do you have a baby so quickly? He hasn't grown up yet, how can she be a father? He's only 21 years old, and you've said that his parents have been pampered since he was a child, why did you look for him?

The way she is now, there is really no way.

You can't live happily with such a man, you make it clear to him that if he can't take care of you and the children, and can't take care of this family, then you leave him.

What should I do if my husband doesn't earn money to support the family? I think you'd better not have a relationship with such a husband. Divorce him.

Then why do you bother, I think you can communicate with him well, if you can't really be together.

The problem is simple, children who have not grown up are married. He doesn't know how to face the reality, so I suggest you talk to his parents or take the initiative to talk to him, and be careful if he has a tendency to domestic violence.

If you have a husband like this, you are also pitiful, children and children do not support their wives, and wives should not sit and play at home every day, it is recommended that you find a worthy person as soon as possible, you are also bitter with such a person, and the children are also bitter.

You are all too young, in my opinion 21 years old is completely a little boy, an age that doesn't understand anything, an age that doesn't care about anything, an age that doesn't think about anything, and a long age itself is also a family without worries, and it's impossible for you to make him mature all at once.

What should I do if my husband doesn't have money to support the family? If there is no financial **, then your husband needs to go out to earn money to support the family, because there is always someone who needs to make money.

It can be that a man needs to bear the pressure and the troubles caused by the family also have to support the family.

I'm quite angry after reading your words, I feel like you're taking care of two children, so this situation is that your husband has to be responsible, if you don't have responsibility, then you are very hard.

Hurry up and get a divorce and get a man.

There is nothing inherently wrong with a man earning money to support his family, it is the economic responsibility and obligation of the man in the family. However, equality between men and women is one of the core values of modern society, and women also have the same work ability and career pursuit as men, and have the ability to earn money to support their families. The economic responsibility in the family should be shared by the husband and wife, and distributed according to the actual situation of the family, career pursuit and other factors.

Men and women should be equal in terms of material support, and men should not be regarded as good breadwinners, and the responsibilities and obligations of the family should be shared by husband and wife, supporting each other, and growing together. Of course, if it is a man in the family who earns money to support the family out of voluntariness and a sense of responsibility, this is a manifestation of virtue and responsibility. But if this is an imposed societal expectation, or a superficial feud within the family, then the issue needs to be revisited and considered in terms of family relations and gender equality.

It's understandable for a man to earn money to support his family, but he can't be arrogant because he earns money to support his family, and he can't be dry for a lifetime, thinking that his daughter-in-law should take care of all the housework when he eats idle meals at home?

In today's society, women's ability to earn money is no worse than that of men, and some women make men look up to them. It's just that some women give up their jobs for the sake of their children and to take care of their families. They do this all for the sake of the family and for the sake of the family.

Housework, that is, it looks like there is nothing, it is not finished, and in the end it makes others feel that they have nothing to do, and it can also be said that housework is the most tiring and unfulfilling thing.

If you let your wife go out to earn money and you take care of the housework, I'm afraid you will go crazy in three days.

In family life, we should be considerate of each other, understand each other, and take care of each other, and there is no need to divide some things too clearly.

A happy family should be a husband and wife who work together to do housework. One washes dishes, one liquid sweep......s the floorIt's warm and harmonious, isn't it?

It is only natural for a man to earn money to support his family, but a woman can also earn money with a man to support his family. One person earns money and several people quietly spend, so that the fortune cave will not be very rich, and two people earn money together, and the money will be more.

There is definitely nothing wrong with making money, but you must pay attention to the way, and you must not violate the law and discipline, otherwise how much money you make will be dirty.

How does modern society see the value of a person?

My personal shallow view is that the comprehensive value consists of at least 3 parts:

The first is people's self-value internally. conduct, hobbies, etc.;

The second is the value to the surroundings. It includes the ability to build harmonious relationships with others. Relationships with family and friends, family friends, co-workers.

The third is the social value of people. That is, what do I provide for society? What kind of social needs do I meet.

History has left behind many theories that seem to be correct, but are actually frameworks.

For example, a man should earn money to support his family.

What a pitiful theory that puts the economic value of men above all else.

To make money, it is to provide social value first.

Supporting a family is the value of the surroundings.

Earn money and earn money, and you can have an intersection with raising a family. But it doesn't have to be lumped together.

Besides, why does the provider have to be a man?

The "nourishment" of raising a family should have both support and nourishment.

My poor old father, with whom I talked two years ago when I was frustrated at every turn. He said he wanted me to work for Dong Mingzhu. (What I understand is that I want to follow her example and become an independent woman like her brother Chongqi).

Then I asked him this year and he said he wished I wasn't working so hard. Marry a good man and live comfortably. I can live comfortably if I am lazy. But I know that being physically comfortable and being mentally comfortable are two different things.

I love my work, and my mental comfort is more important to me than my physical comfort. Self advance, reading and learning, good things are everywhere!!

I look at the men and I know what real hard work looks like. Not only is it hard, but there is also pressure that has nowhere to release.

I mixed up with a few companies, and the stairwell or passed by the sanitary shirt room, and the smell of smoke was so thick that I couldn't get rid of it. I can smell it easily even if I am a rhinitis patient.

The traditional education of women is that they dare not fight, dare not ask, talk about dedication, and talk about fulfilling their husbands, children, and the elderly.

But in modern society, such a theory does not work. Before being divided by gender, men and women were first and foremost human beings. It is necessary to affirm the comprehensive value of the three parties, rather than requiring them to provide a certain aspect of value.

It doesn't matter if he or she loses some part of his value, he can find a partner who coordinates with him. We have the ability to build a new value system that is more socially responsive.

All "absolute" words are more or less problematic. Life is not a textbook choice. In the old dogmatism, there is value and dross.

How to make people and events develop in a good direction. It should be the old dogmatism, blended with the new faith.

Scholars can't do without Hongyi, and there is a long way to go.

I'm a woman, and I never think it's a man's business to earn money to support the family, and of course, housework needs to be shared together.

I have seen that some couples often have a lot of family conflicts if they are just men who go out to work. After all, if a woman just stays at home all day, her thoughts and vision will slowly become more and more different from men, and there will be more and more barriers to communication. If the child is older and has left home to go to school, the woman has nothing to do, and if the man goes back later, he will be suspicious; And the man feels that he is tired outside all day, but when he comes home, he still has to listen to his wife's nagging and even have to do housework, and the contradiction is even more escalated.

I feel that a woman in a marriage needs to be financially independent. Not to mention the noble theory of "the economic base determines the superstructure", there is a saying called "self-reliance", although husband and wife are a community, there are blessings and difficulties, but men and women have the responsibility to work together to make this family happier, regardless of income, women need to have a certain economic income, economic independence spirit to be independent, not dependent and subordinate.

Women in modern society also need to realize their self-worth. There is no shortage of arrogant women in all walks of life in modern society, of course, more ordinary women, but we still need a job to integrate ourselves into society and progress with the times, which is actually realizing our own value. Female astronauts can travel in space, which is to realize self-worth; The salesperson of the small supermarket serves every customer well, and does his job well, which is also to realize his self-worth.

So I think making money to support the family is not exactly a man's business, once you accompany you to make money to support your family, do housework together and feel the fireworks in the world, that is the happiest husband and wife, the happiest home!