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Tell less about your own family to others, less about your previous failures, and when you are in trouble. Let's say you've been in a relationship before and broke up. It is advisable not to tell others, they will only look at your shortcomings and will not put themselves in your shoes.
Only exaggerate your shortcomings. Tell others about your successes and make them envy you.
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Don't tell others about your own family trivialities, such as the conflict between yourself and your mother-in-law, the conflict between yourself and your husband, and don't have a short family, so that your blessings will become more and more prosperous.
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Tell others less about these things about yourself, which proves that the blessings are getting stronger and stronger: first, you don't talk about things that don't go well with you, so as to avoid yourself from constantly complaining; The second is to talk less about your own good deeds, which is easy to arouse the jealousy of others and affect your own popularity.
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You have to be careful when talking to people, some things you should say and some things you shouldn't say, especially their own things and their own family affairs, you have to be careful with what you say and do, accidents can cause disaster. If you want to live a free life, you have to do more and talk less, and many people lose themselves because they don't grasp the right essentials of life. Talk to others, talk less about these three things, and the blessings will increase.
Everyone has weaknesses. In the process of talking to people, no matter who does not mention their weaknesses, when you expose your weaknesses, you may get sympathy from others, but in fact, others will remember that one day a conflict with you will give you a fatal blow. Their own weaknesses, in the process of talking to others, whether it is a friend from the past or a family member who saved you must be hidden, do not think that you help you in times of difficulty, in fact, once it affects the interests of others, your weakness is the most fatal ** for you by others.
In the process of talking to people, as long as you keep your weaknesses unspoken, you will generally become more and more blessed. Generally speaking, a person is blessed because he has mastered the right way of life, knows what he is doing, and knows how to live a good life. If others knew about his weaknesses, his later life would be difficult.
When talking to people, don't talk at all times. No matter what grievances you have suffered, you should keep it in your heart. In this world, not all words can be spoken.
Even if you meet someone you trust, you should keep your frustrating words to it. The process of others talking to you is not to listen to you count your grievances, but to want to hear something new, or to be beneficial to others, if you always complain, others will find your words boring, and they will also feel that you always like to complain, and you will feel humiliated to make friends with you.
In the process of communicating with people, never say words of discouragement, as long as you can do this, you will be blessed more and more. In fact, there are many things in our lives that are because of their disasters that have mastered the right way to communicate, and we must improve their wisdom, and as long as we can do it, we will be more and more lucky.
We must understand that we must say less hurtful words at all times. In the process of communicating with people, if you say something that you shouldn't say and accidentally hurt someone, apologize in time, otherwise others will remember, and sometimes a joke can cause a lot of controversy. We must remember that at any given time, a lot of things are caused by our words and actions.
Life itself is a beautiful thing. If we don't say it right, the gains outweigh the losses. Therefore, we are mindful in every word we utter.
Don't say hurtful words, our days will be more and more blessed. Everyone has a lot of wisdom, so be sure to think about it when you speak. If you don't think about speaking casually, although you are outspoken, people who don't know you will take it to heart and cause you trouble.
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1. Secrets Hidden in the Heart Each of us has some secrets and privacy in our hearts. It will not do us any good to say these things, so we cannot say it, and dare not say it, because even the closest relatives and friends may spread your words at any time, exposing your secrets in front of everyone and making the Faceless One. 2. The past Everyone has their own past, there are unpleasant times, and there are also ups and downs.
We should learn to forget about these stale rotten millets, stop reminiscing, and tell others. When dealing with the world, you have to live in the present and cherish the present, because the past is gone, and it is useless to talk about it.
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If you don't talk about deceiving others, scolding others, hitting others, scolding others, and insulting others, you will become more and more blessed.
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Don't talk about the secrets in your heart, say less about the past of Chen Guzi's rotten sesame seeds, talk less about your achievements, don't show off yourself, say less about some particularly frustrating words, say less things that make others unhappy, and less words that blame others.
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Less negative energy, unhappy words, sad words, sad words, words that affect the mood of others, and less bad words about others.
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Don't talk about the bad things of your family members, they are grandchildren with your family, they are not good or equal to your bad, others will only see jokes, and they have no opinions and solutions if they hold the calendar chain, and secondly, they should talk less about their more private things, and less about their ability to deal with them.
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His previous emotional experience, his own work pressure, the difficulties he encountered, the grievances he had suffered, his own privacy, if he didn't talk about these things, life would make Zheng Youfu more discerning.
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Tell your own troubles, talk less about your secrets, less about your good grades in Tongzhen, less about your mother-in-law's family, and less about your children's good grades.
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Blessings are things that you need to accumulate on your own. In the process of getting along with others, blessings accumulate on your path. Therefore, when talking to people, you have to know how to manage high physics, grasp and talk less about yourself, and your luck will get better and better.
1. Talk less about the resentment and negative energy in your heart.
You have to know that it can't be smooth sailing for everyone. There are too many unsatisfactory things in life, and no one's life is easy. But different people have different lifestyles.
Some people are used to enduring alone, while others are used to complaining. For those who are full of negative energy and complaints all day long, they are always immersed in a low-pressure environment. Once a person is filled with negative energy all day long, he becomes unlucky, and as time goes on, the blessings become less and less.
Those who are able to control their emotions are in control of their lives. In this society, no one wants to listen to you complaining and nagging all day long, they all like positive and optimistic people. Others don't have to pay for your emotions, don't let your emotions affect others.
2. Stop talking about your past accomplishments.
In fact, everyone will achieve a little. Everyone has a past. Past achievements are things of the past and cannot represent the future.
If we always use past achievements as an excuse, we will never be able to progress, and people can only learn to look forward. The glory of the past can only mean that the past is beautiful and the future is created by itself. People should live in the present, not in the past.
Living in the past all the time only stops moving forward. We have to learn to work hard and create the future so that we will get better and better.
3. Don't talk too much about your secrets.
Everyone has their own secrets in their hearts, and no one wants to mention them to others casually. For the secrets in their hearts, many people are buried deep in their hearts, and it is easy to be reluctant to reveal them. This may be because they want to protect themselves and are afraid that others will reveal their hearts.
In fact, many people have different lifestyles. Some people like to keep secrets in their hearts, while others habitually share secrets in the hope of comforting defeat. People can't really understand each other, and the joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected.
Don't just tell people your secrets, or your thoughts may be treated as after-dinner conversations.
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If you don't talk about how much money you have, how many friends you have, if you don't talk about your work and your family's situation, and if you don't talk about what you're not happy about, you will be more and more blessed.
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Don't talk about how many relationships you have, you have a car, a house or you have children and daughters, you talk about your honors, and you can't say these things when you get along with others, you will be very blessed to hold the stool. Ruined.
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Don't talk about your own private affairs, talk less about your previous things, don't talk about the other person's shortcomings, don't talk about your secrets, don't say things about negative energy.
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Don't talk about the secret of your own complaint, don't talk about your family's situation, don't talk about the contradictions between husband and wife, don't talk about your own economic situation, don't talk about your in-laws' affairs, your blessings will be more and more.
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Don't talk about how much money you make, because then you won't be jealous of you, so you won't find ways to ask for your money. Shao Shenyin said his shortcomings, otherwise you will have low self-esteem and others will look down on you. Complain less, the more you complain, the more negative you become, and others will annoy you.
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Try to say as little as possible about others, try not to talk about your own family affairs, try to say less about your dissatisfaction with your in-laws, try not to say foul language, and try not to say some hypocritical words.
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Agree. Because you are very tired in this era, if you tell others about your negative factors, then in fact, others are not willing to get along with you.
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Try not to talk about your own sadness, although making friends with people is a reflection of a good relationship, but no one will want to listen to your unbearable past all the time, talk more happily, people will become happy, and blessings will naturally come.
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Don't talk about the things that you are unhappy about, because others don't want to listen to your bad things, and just digest your own things.
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When talking to others, listen more to their language and talk less about yourself, which will also leave a deep impression on the other person, and will have a special impression of you.
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