Why do people like likes? There is a kind of people who like to give everyone a thumbs up, what is t

When we use likes, ** and other forms to evaluate the effect of WeChat, we might as well trace back to the source, to analyze the behavior mode of "like", WeChat is definitely not the first platform to rise like, many platforms we have liked, from blogs, Weibo, QQ, Renren, etc., everyone likes have been a little tired, but why likes will become a fashionable behavior in WeChat, and many businesses stubbornly believe that they can find great business opportunities in this kind of like.

One of the most powerful things about WeChat likes is that they can activate your sleeping friends. Let's imagine what would happen if there were no likes? Maybe your friends in WeChat are likely to be like friends in QQ, Renren, and mobile phone address books, most of them are asleep, and then you will slowly remove each other from the range of friends.

It is precisely because of the fear of the withering and death of users that all kinds of social networking platforms are flipping through tricks, and Weibo and QQ have hidden a lot of designers' speculation on user psychology in their own version updates. A like may evoke a friend who has not been in touch for a long time and the beginning of communication, so many people have transferred friends who have not communicated for a long time on QQ and ** to WeChat, and a slight like may regain friendship.

In fact, there is nothing terrible about liking, the important thing is that we need to know why we like it, and also explore some of the impact of likes on marketing. Tomorrow I will tell you about the 4 psychology of likers.

Here's why people love likes.

First, thumbs up are a recognition of one's accomplishments and a reason for people to continue to do so.

Third, it is easy to like, which makes people feel a sense of psychological satisfaction, and the more people who like it, the easier it is to cause interaction and communication, and it is easy to resonate.

Fourth, liking is also a way of interaction, and it is also to prove whether your work can be recognized by which users.

Fifth, likes, which can bring great joy and joy to the author.

Sixth, like the ancients nodded, and a like in the circle of friends is also a way to say hello.

Seventh, for those merchants, the more likes they have, the more business opportunities they get.

Therefore, people in any profession like to be liked.

To like is to praise. In daily life, the first thing most people do when they get up in the morning is like the emperor reading the folds to look through the circle of friends. When I see something funny or a good friend posting some life things, I can't help but like it.

Like means agreeing with the content of this circle of friends. I like to read the content of this circle of friends, and I may have a similar experience with the content of the circle of friends. Prove that you have seen it.

Another purpose of liking is to get the attention of others. A thumbs up is the equivalent of a hello. Giving a daily thumbs up to someone you don't know is akin to saying hello and proving your existence.

I think such people can be divided into the following situations:

1. Personal habits, there are some people in life, liking is a habit, not that you think the content you publish is how good, just out of habitual likes, if you are familiar with such people, you will find that as long as you see any circle of friends, he will stretch out his finger to like, like this like this has no substantive meaning.

2. Mutual behavior, there are such a part of people who think that I like you, so out of normal thinking, the other party will definitely like themselves, in fact, I don't understand, I don't know what the meaning of the more points in the circle of friends represents. may be out of vanity, thinking that if you have more likes, then you will be followed more, and you feel that your interpersonal relationship is very good, so these people will like other people's content first for their own likes.

3. Blind to the sales industry, a considerable number of people who do business, he needs to accumulate customers, need to find potential customers, passive sales is definitely not good, usually in the initial communication with customers, or contact to a certain extent, then at this time as long as the sales staff see potential customers or even if they are not potential customers, they will naturally give these customers like, prove that I have been paying attention to you, if you have needs, remember to find me, in order to achieve the purpose of customer transactions, in summary, It's a grind for salespeople and a means of developing customers.

4. There are also some people who think that they may have good ideals about everything, so no matter what kind of articles they see, they can always imagine the positive side, and such people may be really paying attention to and liking your circle of friends.

However, in real life, many people actually don't like to like other people's circle of friends, unless the articles published by the other party are really meaningful, or these contents touch their hearts, they will really like it.

1.It may be to show kindness, to release kindness, to show that you have no ill will towards everyone, and that you are not targeting anyone.

2.It's also possible that you have a crush on someone, like everyone for the sake of someone, and it seems less deliberate.

3.Mutual likes, generally I often give you likes, and the next time I collapse I send a shirt to the town circle of friends, you will also give me a thumbs up.

4.Habitual likes, medium thick or brush some presence.

First of all, they themselves also hope that others can pay attention to themselves, he thinks I have praised you, I have paid attention to your friends' circle of thoughts, then you will also pay attention to my mood and my dynamics.

They want to find a sense of presence, to let others know that they are paying attention to them, so they do it.

They just don't want their friends to post news that are too cold and simple, and they hope to satisfy their friends' self-esteem with this mausoleum pants.

I like Da Gao myself, there may be two kinds of psychology, first, you are a lively and cheerful personality, and a relatively big grinning person, usually like to be lively, posted a dynamic, the more you look at it, the more fun it feels, so you like it casually, second, you have a relatively small social circle, and you don't usually post a circle of friends.

Won't send an attractive circle of friends, now accompany you to send a circle of friends, I hope someone will like you for the first time, but a few seconds or minutes have passed, and no one has given you a like, so I decided to like myself myself, others don't pay attention to you, you also have to live a little self, in the second possibility, there is also a possibility, is the circle of friends you posted, only visible to yourself, do not want others to see, in this case, you like yourself, is a manifestation of living in your own world. We meet a lot of people every day, but people are not only social animals, but also lonely people in their hearts, some people must be lively on the surface, some people are lonely on the surface, no matter what kind of person they are, they all want to get some kind of attention, I want to leave something at some point, even if others don't understand, don't care, don't pay attention, I still have to praise myself.

Not necessarily, it may be because the content you post is more fun, or the two of you have more mutual friends, so he will give you a thumbs up. I don't think it's necessarily because he likes you that he likes you, it's possible that he just thinks the content you post is interesting, so he will give you a like, and if you don't know each other before, he won't give you a like. I don't think the opposite sex who will give you likes doesn't necessarily like you, because some people may just see your circle of friends and give you likes.

Not necessarily. I have a friend who we're in the same class and she often gives me likes, but I'm not sure what she thinks of me. I don't think so, because sometimes he may just like you because he just thinks it's good-looking, and doesn't mean anything else.

I don't think so, because sometimes they may just like you when they see your circle of friends and think it's funny. Not necessarily. Some people may just look at your circle of friends and think it's funny and give you a thumbs up, but they may not like you.

My personal opinion is of the following two kinds:

1.I do have a good impression of you, but I don't make any obvious moves towards you, such as chatting with you, meeting you, or something like that, otherwise you won't have any doubts, right, so keep giving you likes, you can think that he has a good impression of you, but he shouldn't like it, otherwise he will definitely attack (reverse thinking, how can a person be so coincidental, every news of yours He likes and sees it, and likes it, it's difficult).

2.This opposite sex is a sea king, a sea lady who is raising fish! I don't think I need to talk about this anymore, he doesn't care what the news you post is at all, he just wants you to know that he exists, so that you feel that he pays attention to you, but in fact, he has become accustomed to liking the opposite sex, waiting for the day when you want to fall in love or want to know him, waiting for you to take the bait.

3.Hmmm....The probability is not large, but it is also possible that he likes and agrees with the news you post, likes it, and doesn't pay attention to whether every one you post is clicked, which is very common.

The above can be combined with your own situation, whether there is any other intersection and interaction with the opposite sex, you can reasonably analyze whether the opposite sex likes you or not, and like must be active, no, it must be that fate has not arrived.

No way! Thumbs up is just out of politeness! Now, it's a friend of praise and praise, and you can point it when you see it. It's exceptionally simple.

Like is the appreciation of others, but also the recognition of oneself, through likes, to others to express encouragement and praise, let yourself learn from the good things of others.

The act of liking itself is not only a feedback on the content posted, it is also a social behavior, through which the other person can know: I am following you, sending a positive signal of care and recognition.

Informal Talks" Praise others, many people will worry about not grasping the balance and making the relationship awkward, and staging a tug-of-war in their hearts, as if they will expose their minds and cause others to have a bad opinion of themselves. Imitation of hunger and filial piety.

The first type: the stupid appearance of the inner lead is indeed very attractive, and it is indeed praiseworthy.

2. The second kind of like situation is like this: someone is not very familiar, maybe there has been no contact for a while, and when you want to talk but don't know what to say, the role of like comes. In any case, the heart-shaped logo will not be offensive to the other party, which is a product of the micro-communication of the wheel of the generation.

Of course, frequent likes may belong to the second case. Micro-communication is to convey the love for each other through the form of likes, and to be able to get the attention of the other party. In the face of love, many people are not good at expressing their emotions, so sometimes they will convey their inner love through other ways.

Maybe once or twice, or even a dozen times, you won't get the other party's attention, but in the long run, you will always attract attention. Of course, this kind of thing, you still have to grasp the scale, you must understand the other party's attitude towards you, if the other party has no good impression of you, you should let it go, otherwise it will make the other party disgusted, thus blocking you.

It's a psychology that craves attention. Just like a child, he always likes to trick or treat to get his parents' attention. This kind of person often gets too little attention in life, so they care too much about whether the circle of friends is liked by good points.

In fact, such a mentality is wrong, and it affects daily life very much.

One is to influence yourself to post on Moments.

People who care about whether their circle of friends are liked by their friends will also be very concerned about the content of their circle of friends. For example, will this circle of friends be interesting, will it be interesting, will the copywriting be too earthy, and so on. In order to send a satisfactory friend, it even takes hours to retouch the picture and find copywriting.

This kind of circle of friends is not interesting, like a deliberately packaged circle of friends, not only is the person who posted it tired, but in fact, people who can see it also know that this circle of friends is not real at all.

The second is to affect one's daily life.

After posting on Moments, I will look at my phone from time to time to see who has liked me and who has not. If you post it for a long time, and no one likes you, it will affect your mood throughout the day. If someone likes and comments after posting, you have to be busy replying to these comments to appear kind.

So, it's very much in the way of daily life.

In fact, the circle of friends is just a platform to show your daily life, and caring too much about the likes of others is equivalent to letting yourself live in the eyes of others. There's no need at all, you're not a star, and not so many people pay attention to you. People who like it just like it casually, and they don't care what the content you post is.

Moreover, there are some people who just like to like, no matter what they see in the circle of friends, they have to like it. It's like a habit, and these likes don't mean anything at all. And there is nothing to be proud of being liked, it can only be said that your circle of friends are full of idlers, so you have so much time to watch and brush the circle of friends.