Is it of poor quality for children to lie, and how can parents correct their children s bad habits?

I think the first thing is that parents should not lose their temper casually, and then they should give their children the opportunity to tell the truth, and parents should not criticize their children, and then understand their children.

Depending on how old the child is, it is not intentional for children to lie before entering elementary school, they do not have a complete understanding of right and wrong, but parents should guide their children in the right direction and tell them what is right and what is wrong.

A child lying is of poor quality. When parents find out that their children are lying, they should point out the mistakes in time. Be patient with your child. Guide your child to correct it correctly.

Parents should have in-depth communication with their children about the reasons for lying, and then tell their children that this behavior is wrong and reason for them, and at the same time create a good family environment to set an example for their children.

Parents need to learn to tell their children that honesty and kindness are a virtue. Children's virtues and habits should be cultivated from an early age, children love to lie, parents should not blindly criticize.

Or should you ask the child more from the perspective of the child's Fushan, because the child lies more because your previous attitude towards the child's lying is not pure faith and is often harsh. So the child will be afraid to tell you the truth.

Trust and respect your child.

If parents often doubt their children's honesty, this will lead to adverse changes in their children's psychology for a long time, and children will slowly develop from grievances and complaints to dissatisfaction with adults, and even have a sense of revenge.

You should follow the temptation and don't blindly attack.

When we find that the child is lying, parents must keep a cool head at this time, if the child is just blindly scolding, or reprimanding and other violent methods, this will only push the child to the opposite of our wishes, parents can not listen to the child's words partially, but when encountering things, parents can do an investigation to verify the situation.

Enrich your child's knowledge.

Children's knowledge is relatively narrow, and love fantasy, often take fantasy things as real things, often can't distinguish between the real and the fake, in fact, this is just an imagination, is the child's lying illusion.

Nowadays, many adults do wrong things to shirk their responsibilities and find fault with others, because they did not develop a good sense of responsibility when they were young and did not take responsibility for doing things. When children are very young, they are ignorant, they are not clear about many things, they are afraid of being punished for doing wrong things, they are timid, and they dare not tell their parents many things. This requires adults to not solve the problem simply and rudely when the child does something wrong, calm down, communicate with the child, ask him why he did it, and tell him what serious consequences will be if he does so.

The child may not recognize the seriousness of some things, so use the way he can perceive them, for example, if the child likes to throw things around, then symbolically pinch his arm to let him know how painful the fall is. Children like to climb high and flip things, and Tebi is easy to knock over the hot water bottle and get burned, so let him go to the bathroom and pick up a basin of hot water that is slightly hotter to let him know the danger.

If the child secretly does not do his homework, let him skip meals for a day and ask him to find a way to get pocket money by himself. Tell him more stories about when you were a child and your current work situation, let him know more about the world, understand your difficulties more, cultivate children's empathy and sense of responsibility, and let him know how to be grateful, honest, diligent and responsible. Nowadays, many parents put the responsibility of education on the school, trying to save trouble, that is a serious dereliction of duty, the child needs you to pay more attention to it, don't wait until the child is older, complain when you are disobedient, the child does not listen to you, do not tell you the truth.

It depends on what the problem is and what the reason is for lying, if it can be corrected or the parents have laid the groundwork in the early stage, and the child does not need to lie.

Patiently persuade and educate children, be honest, and must not lie, lying is not a good child. Do not hit and scold your child, so that your child realizes his mistakes and corrects them in time.

If your child lies, prove that your child is afraid of you, make your point of view clear to your child, don't let your child go away and be afraid, give your child a little more maternal love, and it will be fine slowly.

Then it is necessary to carry out appropriate criticism education. The computer can guide him in the future study life and lie less. Third, supervise him more later in life and let him develop good habits.

Usually, you must tell him to be honest and trustworthy in doing things for others. Tell him that if someone lies to you and cheats on you, would you be willing?

Increased self-awareness: For young children, when he lies in order to deny something, parents should help him to recount the whole process of the incident and recognize his own role. As the child recounts the situation, the parent helps him to re-understand what he did and where he exaggerated or distorted the facts.

Children lie because of a lack of trust in each other, you should think about why there is a lack of trust, is it that you are too strict with your own children!

Tell your child that this is not the right behavior and that a good child should be honest.

Speaking of babies, I feel that children who go to school are generally not called "babies". Preschoolers are babies. The baby lies, and before the age of three, he basically follows the family activities. After the age of three, the baby goes to kindergarten, and the baby's lying may be related to the environment of early childhood education.

Before the age of three, the baby's lying is mostly related to the baby's parents (grandparents, parents and grandparents). Therefore, as a parent who is in close contact with his child, he must be a role model for his child, and he must not coax his child, so that his child will be imperceptibly influenced by his parents when he imitates learning. At the same time, do not prohibit the practice that the child can ignore the child.

Just tell your child, "If you lie, I don't like you!" I like you to be honest and I like babies who don't lie! "If it's forbidden, it's actually reverse reinforcement!

So choosing to ignore his statement was perhaps the biggest blow to him. After a long time, the problem of the baby's lying can be removed.

After the baby is three years old, he often goes to kindergarten. With the expansion of the scope of communication, the baby met the kindergarten aunt who taught him, met many children in the same class, and of course, the education of parents was also among them. At this time, the baby's lying, we must remember why the baby is lying?

Some of them are because they had a conflict with a child in kindergarten and made up a lie, saying that the child hit him first, so he hit the child! At this time, first of all, we know that it is wrong for the baby to hit someone first, and it is wrong to know that he hit someone first. Secondly, you should tell the children that they should not hit others in the future, and that they should be friendly with the children and learn to share with other children.

Thirdly, even if other children don't share it with themselves, that's the right of other children, we can tell the teacher, and then let the teacher share it. In the end, if you use strong words and cover up your mistakes, then you are not a good baby.

Of course, when the baby lies, don't make a fuss about it, and don't turn a blind eye. Treating it with a normal heart is more conducive to the healthy growth of the baby. Whatever the reason for lying, it should not be.

Therefore, to educate children not to lie, we should teach by example rather than words. Be a role model for your baby!

Parents are often the ones their babies imitate. Parents are arrogant and unreasonable, children often behave domineeringly, parents are good at lying, and babies often go the same way.

I think you have to have a conversation with him and tell him that lying is not the right thing to do and that it can have a very big impact on your future, and that no one likes a child who lies.

First of all, you should pay attention to your own attitude, don't always make a lot of noise to your child, and usually parents should lead by example, know it with affection, move it with reason to persuade the child, usually pay more attention to the details of the child in life, and create a good communication environment, so that the child can be more acceptable.

Parents should communicate and communicate more with their children, first of all, parents should educate their children that lying is incorrect, and then correct their children's habit of lying, and parents should also give their children more care, which will be more conducive to their children's growth.

Teach children that honesty is a virtue.

Parents need to learn to tell their children that honesty and kindness are a virtue. Children's virtues and habits should be cultivated from an early age, and many people will say that children are too kind, and they will be bad, because "people are good and are bullied". However, they forget that the ordinary is the normal state of life.

Only by being honest and kind can we have more bosom friends and add color to ordinary life. Honesty and kindness are also the cornerstones of a person's interactions with others, parents should always educate their children on the importance of honesty and friendship, and can tell some fables to let children understand this truth.

Article **32Don't easily label your child as "dishonest".

If parents find out that their child has lied to themselves, then it is important to know the truth of the facts. Don't just label your child as dishonest.

In childhood, children often test their parents' bottom lines, and lying is just a test method for children. So when you notice that your child lied to himself for the first time, it may not be as serious as you think.

But if a child is a liar, then parents need to pay attention to this problem.

Article **43Parents set a good example.

In order for children to break the bad habit of lying, parents should set a good example for their children. In daily life, you can use practical actions to tell your child that lying is wrong.

Parents should communicate with their children and let them understand that lying can have bad consequences. Tell your child that it is completely unnecessary to lie to their parents for reasons that are difficult to talk about. Be honest and trustworthy, and parents will be considerate no matter what the outcome is.

If children have the habit of lying, parents should not be in a hurry, and the most important thing is to use methods to educate their children.

Guide the child correctly, do not let the child have bad habits, do not scold the child when the child does something wrong, and teach the child carefully to tell the child what kind of harm will be caused if it is not done correctly.

When a child lies, correct it on the spot.

If a child lies, parents must correct it as soon as possible, telling him that lying is intolerable and must be honest and trustworthy.

Tell your child about the disadvantages of lying and let him know that it's not a good child who lies and lead by example.

Family education is a topic that many parents are concerned about, in addition to their children's grades, parents are also very concerned about their children's character. Honesty is one of the qualities, and many parents want their children to be honest people, and they don't want their children to lie a lot. So what do we do when we find out that our children are lying so much?

I will now make a brief analysis of this issue and share my views.

1.Stand your ground and tell your child that lying is not going to be liked. Talk about it

When they find out that their children are lying, many parents' first mood is anger, because developing the habit of lying will indeed affect the child's life, in order to keep our children on the right track, parents must be firm in their position, clearly inform their children that lying is a wrong behavior, and the person who lies will not be liked.

Parents should use a serious tone when educating their children, but try to be calm and not yell. Controlling one's temper is also a criterion for making education fruitful.

Of course, when it comes to standing firm, parents should set an example in their daily livesStart by not lyingOnly then will the child listen to you and trust you.

2.Find out why your child is lying and change your education accordingly.

A strict homeschooling environment is the most likely breeding ground for lying, such as the house rule that says that if you are caught eating candy, you will have no pocket money for a month. At this time, when the child can't help but steal the candy, do you think the child can still tell you about the candy he ate?

When he confronts your questioning, saying that he didn't eat candy seems to be the only choice, so a strict family education environment will make many children choose to lie as a last resort.

Find out the reasons why your child lies and adjust your education style appropriately, only in this way can your child slowly change his habit of lying and lying.

Start by making it clear to your child that lying is wrong. Secondly, we should educate children in a positive way, giving examples of the consequences of some children who tell lies in life or in the news, and finally give encouragement and praise to children when they make truthful explanations.

When the child tells a lie, the parent should tell the child that this behavior is wrong, and should also teach the child some lessons, and should also let the child know that this habit of regret and laughter is not good, and parents should also pay more attention to the child's inner thoughts, so as to help the child get rid of this bad habit.

Tell your child that doing this will make many people hate life, no matter what is done well or not, it should be expressed in some correct words, don't lie or lie, otherwise you will gain the distrust of others.