How do you convince your boyfriend to get a dog? Should I advise my boyfriend not to have a dog? Why

Updated on pet 2024-03-22
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    From my point of view, there are three ways to solve this problem: one is to leave the dog and give up the boyfriend; the second is to leave a boyfriend and abandon the dog; The third is that both the dog and the boyfriend stayed. Obviously, the third method is the most perfect.

    And you choose the first one. I think the contradiction between the two is not irreconcilable, if you value the relationship between your boyfriend, then you should think of a way to make him accept the fun of raising a dog and your community with pets, and in the process of experiencing common pet raising, your relationship will gradually warm up. So my point is not to give up a relationship easily, whether it's for pets or people.

    Of course, if your boyfriend isn't worth it, that's a different story.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have a schnauzer and I'm a year old. In the past, all three of my family were afraid of dogs, not only dogs, cats, rats, but also hairy ones anyway, but finally I had a chance to raise a schnauzer that had only been around for a month. Within a few days, I fell in love with the dog.

    The dog has become an important member of the family. As the time of raising is getting longer and longer, a lot of inconvenience gradually appears. I go on a family trip once a year, but I didn't go last year, and someone has to go home to feed the dog after work.

    The dog's injections and medicines, and grooming are quite energy-intensive. Especially in winter, it is really difficult to get up in the morning and go out to walk the dog! If you want to raise these difficulties, you must think clearly, whether you can accept them, and whether you can solve them.

    Once you raise it, you have to take responsibility and don't give it up. Another dog is a matter of two people, and if your boyfriend doesn't like it, don't force it. I suggest you just take a look at it from a distance!

    It's not easy to find a boyfriend, cherish it! Wishing you a happy life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, he must not reject the dog, because the first thing to raise a dog is to like it, so that he can have the patience to guide and educate the dog to develop some good habits. In the future, you can not abandon it when you get married and have children, half of the dog's personality and temper is determined by the breed, and half of it is related to the owner, that is, what owner raises the dog with him, first of all, you have to be prepared to consider having a pet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's so easy! By suing your boyfriend: What can you do if I just have a puppy?

    I'm not married! When I get married, what's wrong with me having a puppy? No way?

    I am the hostess of this house! Of course, having a dog also depends on whether you have time to walk the dog, and the puppy pees at home for at least six months. You have to shovel and wipe urine at home every day.

    Do you have the patience for this? Don't hurt another life on the spur of the moment.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many ways to make people accept raising dogs, such as watching friends' dogs, watching the dog's funny**and**, talking about the scientific knowledge of raising pets, etc., the most important thing is to prescribe the right medicine and understand the specific reasons for your boyfriend's objection, which can finally solve the problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he is because of his subjective dislike of dogs, you can understand why he is disgusted, whether he is afraid of noise or dirty or other problems, and you can find a professional to understand the solution to these problems to eliminate your boyfriend's disgust.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you can first ask your boyfriend why he doesn't want to have a dog, if it's because he is allergic to dogs, you have to think about this, can you tolerate him for the rest of your life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It seems that this contradiction is more difficult to reconcile, as this pet lover, the second brother has a lot of friends who like pets, and he has also encountered similar problems in some circles! In the eyes of many people, breaking up with a boyfriend for the sake of raising a dog is an extremely irrational behavior, but in front of many people who are used to dogs, this behavior is very easy to understand, after all, the hobbies are different, it is difficult to say that there will be no contradictions because of hobbies in the later stage!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You shouldn't dissuade your boyfriend from having a dog; Because raising a dog helps people's physical health, and it is also a kind of spiritual sustenance, dogs are man's best friends, if your boyfriend likes it, let your boyfriend raise it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    should not be persuaded; Because dogs can enhance their feelings for each other, the two should understand and tolerate each other, if you can't keep a dog because of your own reasons, you can communicate with your boyfriend not to raise it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think there's anything good or bad, right? If you are willing to raise it with him, then raise it, and if you don't like it, then you can let him not raise it. But there is a precondition, are you living together now?

    If you live together and you don't like it, then you can persuade him, but if he just lives by himself and wants to raise one, then it is recommended not to interfere with him. This is everyone's preference and choice, and you can't give up his hobby just because you're in love.

    After all, raising a dog is a very troublesome thing, not everyone can accept it, if your boyfriend likes it very much, and is very patient, he wants to raise one to accompany himself, in fact, it is understandable. Whether you like it or not, it's his freedom, maybe you will think that he is your boyfriend, so take into account your feelings, then you can talk to him well. But don't be too tough and don't allow him to raise it, because it will make him feel very unhappy.

    If you are also very fond of dogs and are willing to raise them with him, it is a better thing, because before you have children, you can also have a pet to see if your boyfriend is attentive and can handle some family matters well. There may be some people who think that having a pet is not the same as raising a child, how can it be compared? But raising a dog is also a very troublesome thing, such as shoveling excrement for him, taking him out to walk the dog, etc., we can see from these aspects whether your boyfriend is a careful and serious person.

    In fact, whether it is raised or not, I think you should have a good discussion with him, no matter what the reason, but also let him know your true thoughts, and then the two of you will go to ** and choose the most suitable decision. Don't just deny what he thinks, and don't feel like you're what you say, it's annoying.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No. If the boyfriend is particularly good to the dog, it means that the boyfriend is a very caring person in life, and you can also see the character and quality of the boyfriend through this incident.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It should be because dogs will make a lot of mess in the house in life, and may bite a lot of things in the house, which may bring a great burden to people's lives.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, everyone has their own ideas, and your boyfriend may be very fond of dogs, so it's useless for you to advise.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are many people who are particularly fond of dogs, dogs are our loyal friends, and with dogs in company, my life has become less interesting. But there are also some people who don't like to have dogs, thinking that dogs will shed dog hair, will bark, and need time to walk dogs. After three months of love, should I persuade my boyfriend not to have a dog?

    1. If you don't like to have a dog, then you should tell your boyfriend.

    As a lover, you have to say something, the two of you have been together for three months, the time is not false, it is not short, in order for the two of them to develop for a long time, I think it is better to say it directly if there is a problem. If you don't like your boyfriend to have a dog, you don't always have to endure it, so one day you won't be able to stand it and will explode your emotions, which will affect the relationship between the two of you, it's better to say it now, your boyfriend will also consider your thoughts.

    Second, when communicating with your boyfriend, explain to your boyfriend why you don't want to have a dog.

    You really don't like to have a dog, so when you communicate with your boyfriend, you must tell the reason, don't blindly lose your temper, for example, you are indeed allergic to the Bad Tooth Dog, your boyfriend has a dog, which has caused a lot of trouble in your life, so say it in time, your boyfriend is very understanding of you. If the two of you are very busy at work, you are already very tired, and you will find time to walk the dog after work, which will affect the quality of life of the two of you.

    Since two people have become lovers, they should have ideas to confide in each other in time and communicate with each other, so as to make the relationship between two people sweeter, but dogs are also very cute, if your boyfriend likes it very much, you must also learn to accept it slowly, don't affect the relationship between two people because of this matter.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shouldn't be persuaded, because the time of love is too short, and I can't manage my boyfriend, so don't talk about it for the time being.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, because after all, this matter has to be agreed by two people, and if you don't agree or don't want to, make it clear to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course not. Because it's a person's preference, plus the dog is also a life, so you shouldn't be like that.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    <>3. The family with a dog is more harmonious, the dog can provide a lot of fun for the family, distract energy, and if you are harmonious, I will not have haze. Raising a dog can improve immunity, and domestic dogs, the chance of rabies patting Li disease is very small, - these are based on science, and you can't listen to other people's alarmism!

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