How can we learn to be compassionate and understanding with others?

We often feel at a loss for the relationship between men and women, but in fact, it is very simple, a boy and a girl to maintain a long-term friendship, should be more communication, more communication, coax girls to be happy, there are children who do wrong things to learn to understand him, so that the friendship can last for a long time.

Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's wrongs, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies with me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are people who are young and have a heart and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things, and it will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

If you learn to understand, you will gain understanding, and if you learn to care, you will gain care. Smiling at others earns kindness from them.

Happiness and happiness are not the goal, intercourse with people, even if they are good friends, there will inevitably be some quarrels or unhappiness, try to bury and understand a person, no matter who this person is, the person you love or the person you hate. When getting along with people, you can't be happy, there will always be some people who make you unbearable, so don't be cowardly. Making friends is not premised on your own unconditional concession, you and others are equal individuals and reciprocal.

When trying to understand others, don't forget that you are understanding as an individual. Of course, others are just like you, don't forget that. Respect for others, with a sincerity, as for some contradictions in life before the bend, it is also a kind of memory, which is worth recalling.

Why bother with so many trivialities, intersect in your heart, smile silently, happiness is just a little. Others will be as difficult to say as you are, leaving others is like hoping that others will leave a space for yourself, don't touch it easily without permission, even the scar will hurt. If the heart understands, then love or hate, how can there be any total love or hate, so you need to be tolerant and within the limits of what you can accept.

People in the world may not all be forgiving, nor can they all be forgiven and tolerant, according to their own rules of closing their hearts, to love or hate, to understand, to forgive. Valuing a person is like being indispensable in life, and there is really enthusiasm for it. On the basis of understanding, to choose some people to love, hate does not have to choose, it will automatically arise, if you learn to love.

Reality is not a fairy tale, but you can do your best. Let the world be happier, stranger, I bless you, and I wish you happiness on earth. Just like that, be happier, and others may be happier when they see your happiness.

Amitabha.