How can we provide the most needed help for children s spiritual growth?

First, the need for nourishment, the resources mentioned here, in fact, in the process of children's growth, can let children read more, understand more, learn more different knowledge, so that children can become richer, just like fertilizing and watering it, generally children have cultural nourishment from an early age.

Second, the need to communicate, communication should be a kind of ability that everyone must have in their life, both adults and children should learn to communicate, then children in the process of growth, parents should consciously cultivate this ability, so as to be able to make the child's mind more healthy growth.

Third, the need for dignity, as the so-called poor no one can be poor children, so in the process of growing up, we must let the child's heart become a huge rich man, especially in the child's dignity must be satisfied, so that the child must have self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance, so that the child can grow up healthy and strong.

Fourth, the need for catharsis, in fact, children also have a certain amount of negative emotions, so as parents and friends, we must learn to listen, and give children some guidance in a timely manner, so that children can learn to vent, make their hearts more calm, and also learn to live in harmony with others.

Fifth, the need for affirmation, or from childhood to grow up slowly, in fact, there are many aspects that parents need to continue to evaluate him, especially parents and teachers should be children, the growth process has the greatest impact, if parents and teachers can give children full affirmation, then it can often stimulate the child's deeper potential to play.

Sixth, the need to be tolerant, that is to say, parents and friends not only to see the advantages of the child, sometimes the child will have a lot of shortcomings, then for the child's shortcomings should also learn to tolerate, the parents' feelings, really let the child slowly become a particularly generous person, and even be able to withstand stronger pressure.

Seventh, the need for practice, now parents and friends for children are often too protective, do not like children to contact some, life practice things, in fact, every child in the process of growth, want to grow up smoothly should challenge a variety of different difficulties, so that they in the process of practice a deep understanding of a thing, more conducive to his future life choice.

Eighth, the need for space, simply put, is the process of children's growth, the need for a relatively loose and harmonious and open space for the growth of space early, parents can try to communicate with their children more, leave more private space for children, so that children have their own secrets, so that children's hearts will be more sunny.

In the process of growing up, children not only need to be physically healthy, but also need to grow up in the soul, so parents and friends should not only pay attention to the physical development of children, but also have a lot of investment in the soul, so what are the needs of children in the process of spiritual growth?

01 Need nourishment, the resources mentioned here are actually in the process of children's growth, so that children can read more, understand more, and learn more different knowledge, so that children can become richer, just like fertilizing and watering it, and generally children have cultural nourishment from an early age.

02 Need to communicate, communication should be a kind of ability that everyone must have in their life, both adults and children should learn to communicate, so children in the process of growth, parents should consciously cultivate this ability, so that children's minds can grow more healthily.

03 Need dignity, as the so-called poor no one can be poor children, so in the process of growing up, we must let the child's heart become a huge rich man, especially in the child's dignity must be satisfied, so that the child must have self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance, so that the child can grow up healthy and strong.

04 Need catharsis, in fact, children also have certain negative emotions, so as parents and friends, we must learn to listen, and give children some guidance in a timely manner, so that children can learn to vent, make their hearts more calm, and also learn to live in harmony with others.

05 Need affirmation, or grow up slowly from childhood to adulthood, in fact, there are many aspects that parents need to constantly evaluate him, especially parents and teachers should be children, the most influential in the process of growth, if parents and teachers can give children full affirmation, then it can often stimulate children's deeper potential to play.

06 Need to be tolerant, that is to say, parents and friends not only want to see the advantages of their children, sometimes children will have a lot of shortcomings, then they must also learn to tolerate their children's shortcomings.

07 Need to practice, now parents and friends are often too protective of their children, do not like children to contact some, life practice things, in fact, every child in the process of growth, want to grow up smoothly should challenge a variety of different difficulties, so that they can deeply understand one thing in the process of practice, which is more helpful for his future life choice.

08 Need space, simply put, is the process of children's growth, need a relatively relaxed and harmonious growth space, parents can try to communicate with their children more, leave more private space for children, so that children have their own secrets, so that children's hearts will be more sunny.

In our real life, parents want their children to grow up excellently, and give their children the best educational environment and living environment at all costs, but many parents often ignore their children's spiritual problems on the way to raising children. How can we give our children a healthy mind? Let's take a look!

In the case of their children's schooling, many parents have little idea of how their children are doing at school, and more and more parents are always busy with work. There is no way to educate children, so children are very reluctant to communicate with their parents when they get along with them. So when something happens to children at school, they don't want to communicate, when they are treated unfairly in their own lives, they don't say, how can they have a healthy mind if these things pile up in their hearts for a long time?

People with a healthy mind can self-knowledge, self-love, self-control, can adapt well to society, have a good psychological quality, good political, moral, cultural, technical and other qualities must be based on psychological quality, a healthy mind is like a carrier, other qualities of people must be carried by a good mind, therefore, a child who does not know the world especially needs a healthy mind, which is of great help to their future life.

Parents must first be mentally healthy and kind people. Parents are their children's first teachers, and the best education parents can give their children is to teach them by word and deed. Parents are mirrors.

Children can compare their parents' personalities and discover their shortcomings and mistakes, and strive to correct them. First of all, take your children out into nature more. The beauty of nature is everywhere.

Parents can take their children to travel more in the wilderness, see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and take their children to climb mountains, see the sea, and go to the grassland. In addition to traveling, parents can usually take their children to the park on weekends to see the flowers, observe small insects, and have the opportunity to get their children up close to beautiful things. Take the child into the arms of nature, listen, feel the charm of nature, understand, and be more sensitive to the child's beauty, so that it is easy to have a healthy mind.

Parents should take care of their children's minds at ordinary times, care more about their children, understand their children's true thoughts, think from the child's point of view, don't interfere too much with their children's decisions and ideas, and should actively guide their children to create a very warm family environment and atmosphere for their children.

Parents should establish a healthy outlook on life and values for their children from an early age, create a warm family environment for their children from an early age, don't beat their children, and encourage more children's booklets. Dust.

Children should be given a particularly good teaching ruler for divine education, and children should also be given a particularly good family environment, so that children can have a healthy and filial piety soul when they are young.

Care more about children and help them establish correct values and outlook on life.

The child's heart is pure, there is no lie, no deception. Everything goes straight to the point, and their behavior is based on wanting to satisfy some simple need of their own. However, if mom and dad lack a keen sense of their behavior, it can lead to undesirable behavior problems, and if you are careful to refer to the following four points, it can help to understand their psychology.

1. Four kinds of children's psychological needs:

1. Parents' love and care;

2. Be accepted and respected;

3. Have a status at home.

4. Get the appreciation of others;

Some children can use good behavior to please their parents and get praise, so as to meet their psychological needs; But some children can't do that. When psychological needs are not met, inappropriate behaviour is used to compensate.

2. Four kinds of inappropriate behavior:

Type 1: Struggle for power.

Like adults, children feel that they are important'It needs to be respected and accepted by others. When children feel that their parents are using power to dominate them, they will show their abilities by resisting. The more the parents exercise authority, the greater the child's resistance to the movement.

Type 2: Get noticed.

Children need their parents' attention to feel valued. And when children are unable to get the attention of their parents from good behavior, they will use wrong behavior to achieve the goal of returning to the side.

Type 3: Retaliation.

Children are often losers in the struggle for power with their parents; He turned to revenge to stab his parents in the heart. The child feels that this is the only way for his parents to know how important he is.

Type 4: Self-defeating.

When a child feels worthless and loses the courage to confront and retaliate, he will try to escape from what others want of him by showing incompetence.

Over-protectiveness, empathy, control, and domination of children are all disrespectful behaviors. Responsible parents should be kind and rigorous in giving their children the freedom to make choices and allowing them to experience the consequences of that choice.

In the face of children's behavior, parents should always pay attention to changes, encourage parents for good behaviors, and use good methods to correct their children's mistakes in a timely manner, so that children can feel the care of their parents, do not use violence and other inappropriate behaviors to educate children, and use love to influence children.

Spiritual education is very important, because it is related to the child's life, and it also has a great impact on the child's growth and growth, and it can also make a lot of changes in the child.

Spiritual education is particularly important, and having a very healthy spiritual education will allow children to have a good growth and a good mentality.

It is particularly important, many parents will ignore this problem in their lives, in fact, it is of great help to the growth of their children, and this thing should also be done well.