The subject buys me an expensive gift and I don t have the money to return the gift, how should I co

You can communicate well with the other party and tell the other party that there is no need to buy such an expensive gift, otherwise you will be very stressed, and I hope the other party can understand you.

Then you can communicate truthfully with your partner and ask him not to give you such an expensive gift, because you will have low self-esteem. Or you can give him a cheap gift.

Tell the subject about his own situation, hope that the subject can be considerate of himself, and ask for warmth to his subject as compensation.

You can directly tell the subject about your embarrassing situation, and hope that the other party can forgive you and compensate him later.

1. Direct explanation

The subject is friends with the other party.,What you want is just to feel relaxed and comfortable when you get together.,Pair the noisy party to give you a valuable gift.,Although it's a birthday.,Once a year.,But this behavior brings trouble to the subject.,I also feel that I owe each other a favor.。

It is not easy for two people to become friends, so the subject wants to continue to be friends with each other, but does not want to bear such pressure, the host of the question book can express directly to this friend, let the friend know that as long as they treat each other sincerely, the gift is a heart, don't let each other have pressure, the ceremony can be felt. When friends know the subject's inner thoughts, if you are people with the same three views, then the direct explanation will only make your friendship deeper, and will not be affected.

2. Accept yourself

In fact, many people think like this, so you don't have to feel that it is abnormal for you to be like this, you dare not be honest and dare not accept the good of others, it can be said that the subject is afraid that she will not be able to respond to them according to the degree of their contribution like others, and they will have dissatisfied thoughts with themselves in their hearts.

Treat each friend according to your own ability, don't force yourself to be the same as others, as long as you treat people sincerely, others can feel your sincerity, everyone is expressing themselves is different, if the other party really cherishes you as a friend, with their own understanding of you, then they can naturally understand you.

3. Be aware of where the stress is coming from

The subject says that he can't trust other people like others, so under what circumstances do you have such pressure? Friends are a very relaxed and comfortable relationship, but the subject will feel unbearable because others are good to him.

Is it because the subject was instilled in the process of growing up that he shouldn't be right, or is he hurt and unwilling to trust? No matter what aspect it is, it can only be said that your self-confidence has been hit, and the previous blow has made you afraid to take the step of trust, which is your self-defense and your behavior of locking up your heart.

When encountering this situation, you should first express your true thoughts with your friends, and then tell the other party that you are still more apprehensive when you receive such a valuable gift, or you should also give the other party a more expensive gift, so that you will not have such emotions in your heart.

You must be calm-minded, and you must give the other party a gift appropriately, so that you can be very fair and reasonable, and will not let the other party suffer.

Summary. Hello dear! Etiquette is light and affectionate. The point is that who is this other person and why do you say that?

Is it just your personal judgment or what everyone thinks? If you only think it is cheap, it only means that your consumption concept is different from theirs. The point is why the giver is giving what others consider to be a valuable gift. Is it a request or a plan or a good.

At any time, look at people and products and not look at etiquette, and take the responsibility of choosing a mate by yourself.

People say that the gift given to me is expensive, but it is actually cheap, what should I do?

Hello dear! Etiquette is light and affectionate. The point is that who is this other person and why do you say that?

Is it just your personal judgment or what everyone thinks? If you only think it is cheap, it only means that your consumption concept is different from theirs. The point is why the giver is giving what others consider to be a valuable gift.

Is it a request or a plan or a good. At any time, look at people and products and not look at etiquette, and take the responsibility of choosing a mate by yourself.

The other person is a husband, I broke it, he didn't speak, he didn't explain. What I care about is my heart.

The husband said that the purpose of this expensive is to make you happy, but the funds are not enough to buy a particularly good gift, so he wants to save face before he says so! You have to understand, but you broke it, don't you think it's very sad for a man? It's good that you know it yourself, why do you have to say it, you will make the man feel inferior and embarrassed in front of you, and he didn't reply to you to explain this!

Since it's been given to me, I don't care if it's expensive or not, I'm happy, but why lie to me later**? I really don't understand! Because of the things sent, there are yards to scan, I know everything when I sweep, I haven't asked him, he asked if I like it, I said watermelon, and I'm happy.

That's good! It's good to understand for yourself, don't let some irrelevant factors affect the relationship between your husband and wife! You can tell him tactfully, I'm happy with whatever you give me, but it's not good to lie to me, don't do that next time!

Personally, I think it's better to do what you can, rich people must not lack anything materially, instead of spending half a month's salary to buy gifts to make your life difficult, it is better to spend some effort to make a meaningful gift for friends.

No, the people's conditions are superior, and your economic conditions are different, if she really treats you as a friend, she won't care whether your gift is expensive or cheap

Someone else gives you a valuable gift, and the physical gift is a little more expensive in return, but you know that it is too expensive, you can directly tell him that it is too expensive, you don't want it, but the gift is light and affectionate, and it is good if you want it, it doesn't matter if it is cheaper.

There is no need to spend half a month's salary in return. Everyone's financial conditions are different, friendship is not maintained by money, you just choose the right gift as a return gift.

If your family conditions are not very good, then there is no need to spend so much money to buy a gift, after all, if you are a friend who truly loves you, you will naturally not care about these.

If the relationship is particularly good, then there is no need, as long as the gift has a heart, it is not at the level of **.

Yes, I think this kind of emotion is mutual, and I shouldn't say that the other party gives a very expensive gift, but the gift we return is not worth the other party's gift, I think this is very disrespectful.

No, you can explain your situation directly to your friend, and then decline his gift, he will definitely understand you, and he will not give you expensive gifts next time, you have to consider your actual financial ability.

In my opinion, no, if he was rich, he wouldn't care about other valuables. It's better to try to make some gifts that are not available on the market, this kind of gift is more commemorative than spending a lot of money to return the gift. Affection is heavy.