Have you met someone with low emotional intelligence, but who feels good about themselves and is ful

<> count the people I have met, not too many, not too little, low emotional intelligence, but there are indeed many people who feel good about themselves and are full of self-confidence.

So now let's break down the feeling of low emotional intelligence: a feeling that you are very straightforward, and a feeling that you are good and that everyone likes you. "No malice"It seems to be a gold medal for those with low emotional intelligence, as if you can say a lot of things directly without malice, and if you are a good friend without malice, you can override basic politeness, which is really wrong.

There are also people who feel good about themselves and are full of self-confidence, but they are actually glass-hearted, so forgive them!

I've been watching the compound master recently, Jiang Moran and Yu Guang are typical people with low emotional intelligence, but they feel good about themselves, and they are full of self-confidence, they always feel that what they say and do is right, never consider the feelings of others, and convert everything into formulas to discuss, that kind of person really has no way to communicate, communicate, and always feel that others should live according to their wishes, if they go against it, they will tell the theory they think is correct when it is inappropriate, so that you can't get angry.

Since you have a high IQ, high emotional intelligence, and self-awareness, then you will definitely choose to give in to this kind of person, because knowing tolerance is also a kind of wisdom. When you meet this kind of person, then your emotional intelligence is the best time, this is a good opportunity to train you to deal with people, learn to treat such people well, according to the characteristics of that kind of person to let him get along well with you, if you can do this, you will be more comfortable with other people. When you meet this kind of person, don't be too angry, you must sit down calmly and talk to him, he can always understand over time.

We have to be patient with any living being.

I can only think of one person with low emotional intelligence and self-confidence <>, and it deserves it!

At the beginning of this year, I met a new colleague who was a girl, just graduated from college and living in the same neighborhood as me! At first, I thought it was not easy to be a graduate, and I also carried it by myself, so every day after work, I took her to take her husband's bus home with me, so as not to crowd the bus alone at night, which was not safe.

Who knows she'll be playing the next day:"Isn't your husband very rich? "I just took him as a joke and ignored him, but she kept asking, and I had to sue him for being from a nearby village.

She excitedly called out and told others that my husband was the second generation, which made me very embarrassed. It's nothing, the next day my husband sent us to work, and she said directly to my husband:"The second generation of your family still uses her to work!

My husband is a serious person, and he mistakenly thinks that it makes me extremely embarrassed to show off these boring things to my colleagues every day! Since then, my husband doesn't like her, and we don't talk to each other. So she said behind other people's backs that my husband was all kinds of bad.

And told me:"Although your husband's family has a little money, I can't look down on him if I give it to me! "I'm very depressed, I can still do this without thanking someone else's car"Bite the hand that feeds one!

So I decided not to go home with her again.

She often says in the company that she has a lot of luxury goods, LV bags and the like, but she has never seen her carry it! There is a colleague in our company who is a goddess-level family, a good person, beautiful and tasteful, but she often slanders others! One day, I saw someone carrying LV, and I grabbed it directly and said:

I have an exact one in my house, and your thread must be an imitation"I really didn't expect her to say such things in front of everyone!

In fact, she is about 150 tall and very fat, and often tells us that there are many people chasing her, she can't look down on her, and often laughs at us for being so bad and that it's not good, so that no one in the company cares about her.

And I especially like to emphasize that the things on my body are very expensive, and every word I say must be brought out, I am embarrassed to listen to it! She can often pick eyeliner to the temples, I don't approve of her aesthetics, I can't accept her beauty, and I am not boring to have such a colleague by my side. Wherever she goes, she can set off a topic, ah......

When I was in college, I joined the club and had a great time with everyone. When it came to the sophomore year, I found such a person: it was a girl, very fat, and not beautiful, the point was that everyone didn't like her very much, but she didn't say it because she had to work together, but she didn't realize anything.

When recruiting new students, she always pulls good-looking boys to her department to sign up, in fact, we can all see that people are in her senior sister is not embarrassed to refuse, and when the real recruits, the freshman and sophomore years hold activities together, she always plays with boys, but the boys don't want to get too close to her, and they all find reasons to shirk, the more this is the case, the more she wants to get closer, and she has always been confident that everyone likes her, I really don't know if it's the confidence of **.

There is another one, it was a boy, I knew him for a short time at that time, asked me to meet, I accepted, but in fact, I didn't talk to him before we met, I felt that this person was not very good, but because of politeness, I still met him, but after the meeting, I was firm that I didn't want to have too much contact with him, the first meeting was disrespectful, dressed very sloppily, and the sense of time was not strong, I waited for almost twenty minutes, and I felt that he was not particularly reliable in speaking. Later, he always asked me to go to ** play, go out for a walk or something, I can see that he should like me a little, but every time I think I am busy or uncomfortable to push it off, and a few times I was very late to ask me to go out for supper, I made excuses that I was afraid that it would be too late to come back, and he was very careful to say that he would protect me if he was fine, I really think that such a person has low emotional intelligence, and I feel good about myself, I can't accept it.

Such strange things can be encountered, and there is no one left. <>

1. Not good at controlling emotions and grumpy.

Emotions are the embodiment of many animal instincts, if a person does not know how to control their emotions, but is controlled by emotions. When they are verbally abused by others, their first reaction is to become angry or depressed. This kind of emotionality leads to their lack of calm and irrational handling of problems.

This manifestation of putting oneself first, being very emotional, and thus not taking into account the feelings of others, is a manifestation of emotional intelligence. When you are insulted, you should fight back, but you should be rational, not controlled by emotion, and you should use foul language at will.

2. Too egotistical and selfish.

I only know what I want, blindly ask for the other party to meet my needs, I don't know what the other party wants, and take the other party's contribution for granted.

4. Like to rely on others, low self-awareness.

The fourth manifestation of low emotional intelligence is a penchant for dependence on others. Relying on others is not having confidence in what you are doing, and not daring to deal with it alone, no matter what happens.

The reason why people with low emotional intelligence like to rely on others often depends on their own lack of understanding of themselves, they ignore their own potential, so they do not emphasize logic in speaking and communication, and lack the habit of deep thinking, which often makes people around them feel naïve and childish.

5. Poor blunt sensitivity, unable to stand the blow.

Blunt sensibility is a concept in psychology, and blunt sensitivity can be understood as "dull power", that is, to calmly face the setbacks and pains in life, and to move firmly in one's own direction, it is "the means and wisdom to win a good life".

Some people always feel good about themselves, but in fact, their emotional intelligence is very low, which means that they are just self-centered and conceited, so their emotional intelligence is really low, which makes others feel uncomfortable.

Emotional intelligence is very low, people who feel super good about themselves, this kind of people are very self-conscious people also have narcissistic tendencies, generally do not consider the feelings of others, only care about themselves to put it bluntly is very selfish, but this kind of person generally his IQ is not bad, has a certain ability, but is not acceptable, this kind of person you had better not to force with him, but to detour, but also tactfully deal with him and try to let him do one thing by himself, if you want to cooperate with him, be sure to explain the rules clearly, That is, the responsibility should be clearly distinguished, who should do what? Be clear to each other, so that there is no risk of conflict. You must deal with it, this kind of person is better to be less troublesome.

Feeling good about themselves, most people are more self-centered, so they don't care about other people's feelings. In the eyes of others, this is a very low EQ and naïve, and people with high EQ are generally more talkative and tactful.

Saying that low emotional intelligence is not able to see yourself well, can not see yourself objectively, will make people immersed in self-consciousness, that is, subjective consciousness, people will always exaggerate themselves too much by default, so feel good about yourself, most likely you have not been able to better examine yourself. In the eyes of high emotional intelligence, this performance is equivalent to low emotional intelligence. Read more and know yourself more.

Low EQ is not good at handling interpersonal relationships, too high-profile, too strong self-awareness, it will cause others to be disgusted, and they can't listen to criticism, so it is not easy to get along with others, and in the eyes of others, it is low EQ.

What is High Emotional Intelligence? It means making others comfortable, comfortable and benefiting yourself. People with high emotional intelligence are good at doing "positive sum game", hello, hello, everyone, this is like "1+1>2".

What is Low Emotional Intelligence? It is to make others uncomfortable, and not to be comfortable yourself; Or maybe someone else is comfortable, but you are not comfortable. People with low emotional intelligence are often engaged in a "negative-sum game" or a "zero-sum game", where one side gains and the other loses, or both loses. It's like "1+1."

A good interpersonal relationship is to fulfill each other, build a "1+1>2" mutually beneficial and win-win situation, and the interests of both parties in the game will increase. The key to achieving these is to see whether the participants have high emotional intelligence and are good at doing "positive sum games".

In real life, there are many people with low emotional intelligence who make a mess of their relationships and life and don't know anything about it. For example, these two types of people have low emotional intelligence, poor popularity, and feel good about themselves. If you are a person with these 2 types of low emotional intelligence, you should pay attention.

This kind of person seems to feel good about himself on the surface, but in fact he is very inferior, but this inferiority complex is covered with a coat of "feeling good about himself". likes to give advice to others, just like diss others, they are disrespectful to others, desperately belittle others, and elevate themselves, especially the sentence he scolds you, in fact, he just can't accept the failure of the game.

Some people feel good about themselves, just because they are very confident, but they are not very accurate in their own strength, just like me, I do not have a very accurate evaluation of my own strength, so that I am blindly confident, resulting in a very low EQ, and I am a person with low EQ, haha.

Hello, that's the case, because everyone's feelings are different, and everyone's thoughts are different, so if you do something to hurt others when you feel good about yourself, it is actually a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, so if you don't hurt others, you can try to be yourself.

People who feel good about themselves generally don't really realize themselves, and their emotional intelligence is usually low, and people with high emotional intelligence will not say it even if they know that they are good.

Because he may think that he is doing this very well but he is doing it very poorly in the eyes of others, because everyone has a different vision, you have to empathize, you can't just look at it from one aspect, and some people really feed their own family and are not hungry, so they are regarded by others as having low emotional intelligence.

Some people always feel good about themselves, but in fact, they have low emotional intelligence, and they stand in their own perspective, and their vision is low.

Hello, this sentence means that some people are too self-righteous, so they feel that their emotional intelligence is high, but they are still very inferior in terms of dealing with people.

Since everyone has different living habits and ways of doing things, we can't use our own living habits to demand from others, and friends and family should support and respect each other.

If friends do something wrong, they must learn to understand. Don't wait for others to explain, just scold your head and face, no one wants to make a mistake, make a mistake and know to correct it, know to make amends, you should give the other party a certain amount of space and time to make up for this mistake.

To remember the kindness of others, you need to keep it in your heart, not keep it on your lips. In life, we need to remember a sentence: "It is our duty to help you, and it is our duty not to help."

When you feel helpless, if someone can lend a hand, pull you out of the darkness, and be there for you to encourage and accompany you, be sure to remember his kindness and don't take it for granted. When the other person is in trouble, we also need to help.

Others must be grateful for your efforts, and you can't take it for granted, after all, no one owes each other anything. When others reach out to help, you should be grateful. As the saying goes, the grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring.

Don't speak ill of each other, or even insult others. If you can't control your emotions and make a big fuss, it will inevitably stimulate conflicts and damage the relationship between each other. If there is any conflict between the two people, they should discuss it calmly.

Of course, you can't blindly tolerate it, if it's not your own fault, others will repeatedly conflict with you, quarrels, then you should give up the relationship, otherwise it will cause a trauma to your soul.

People are social animals, and introverts also need to communicate with others, which is unavoidable. As the saying goes, there are a thousand Hamlets for every thousand readers, and everyone's way of dealing with the world is different, so we don't have to be too rigid, we have to be flexible.