Will you go when your ex gets married? My ex is married, should I go?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The ex got married, of course not going.

    If you break up, it's best not to bother, but some people have to disgust you, for example, your ex not only invited you to get married, but also invited you with Alipay chat, do you want to give Alipay the money directly? Do you think you should go?

    At this time, Libra is possessed, on the one hand, I really want to see what kind of person my former true love has left you and what kind of person you have found to spend the rest of your life with, on the other hand, he actually wants me to witness his happiness? Aren't you afraid that my heart will collapse on the spot without relief?

    Generally, there are three kinds of relationships after breaking up with an ex.

    The first is that old age and death do not get along. After the breakup, all kinds of social software**blocked,**deleted,From then on, there is no longer any illusion about this person.,This person's save in your mind has been all delete.,See it as if you don't know it.。 There can be no more social interaction.

    Second, we can still be friends after we break up. When you meet, I will naturally greet you, I will send you a blessing text message during the New Year's holiday, and the circle of friends will also give you comments in a fake way, and the other party behaves more naturally than ordinary friends, as if you have never been together!

    The third way, after breaking up, they didn't block each other, and they didn't say they wanted to be friends, so they suddenly started not to contact each other one day. silently scorned each other's circle of friends, never commented and liked, and showed affection and carefully shielded each other, as if both parties were a knot in their hearts, and they might suddenly be relieved one day, but they would be sad at the moment.

    No matter what kind ......of relationship it is, the moment you know that the other party is going to get married, you must be chuckling in your heart, after all, you and I are not together before the moon, and you and I are talking about being together for a lifetime and growing old togetherNow he wants to grow old with others for the rest of his life?

    For the ex, the best way is to let go, if you can't let go of the other party in your heart, then you have already lost whether you go or not, because you will find that you will hear mutual friends inadvertently mention him all the time, and the circle of friends brushed up on the details of his wedding, and take a closer look, the wedding is dressed up according to the way you once wanted it most, and his vows to his current wife at the wedding, the bridesmaids and groomsmen coax the bride and groom to play a sweet little game ......Each of these is enough to make you angry with internal injuries. Usually in this case, in order to win back a game, you can tell the other party lightly: I'm sorry, I've been busy lately, why don't you invite me next time?

    I'll definitely go. By the way, I also saved money, isn't it good to buy a skirt with this money? Is it bad to go for a big meal? Why give it to other women?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's just some** for filming some **or funny**, so he will be like this, in fact, for reality, many people may not go to their ex's wedding, because it is both a hurt and a contempt for themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Most of the ** on the Internet are acting. If that were to happen. If you have that spare time, you might as well go to a beauty salon and do a beauty spa. It's embarrassing for you to go there, and you have to make a Q. Isn't that just spending money to find guilt?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. Should your ex get married?

    1. This depends on the situation, to see if the ex invited you when he got married, if he invited you, then you can pass. On the contrary, if you are not invited, then it is best not to go, otherwise the scene will be very embarrassing, and seeing your ex get married must be very painful for you personally.

    2. In addition, you should see if you still have feelings for your ex now, when you have no feelings for the other party, and the other party also invited you to attend the wedding, then you can pack up your emotions, and then go to the ex's wedding, naturally be more generous.

    3. Of course, it is best not to contact each other after the two break up, because the past is the past, and everyone has to look forward, so even if you get married, it is best not to call each other to attend the wedding.

    Second, how much money to give to the ex has a meaning.

    1. If you decide to go to your ex's wedding, you must prepare a red envelope with the gift amount, which is essential, and it also shows good wishes to a couple.

    2. For example, the number 6 in the red envelope is very good, representing the six or six Shun, I hope that the two of them can get married smoothly and happily after marriage. Or you can choose to bring 8 inside, this number represents hair, I hope that after the two get married, their careers will be in full swing and they will be able to make a fortune, and finally you can choose to bring 9 inside, which represents eternity.

    3. You can also decide how much you want to prepare in combination with your own economic income, and there will definitely be good friends to participate in that day, and you can discuss the amount of preparation, just like everyone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Whether or not to participate in the marriage of the ex depends on your actual situation.

    If you broke up peacefully and are still good friends, and you are still single, then you have no problem attending your ex's wedding, but if you already have a significant other, then you need to ask your partner for advice and don't have a misunderstanding with your partner because you attended your ex's wedding.

    1. People who choose to go to their ex's wedding often accept everything in the past. and the person who is about to enter the marriage hall tomorrow, whether it was romantic or not, have been together vigorously for three years and two years. Whether they used to go to each other or not, they made money to support themselves in a rented small house together, and they went to their dreams in the big city.

    Or after a breakup, who would recall these things in the middle of the night and toss and turn, and who would say when they were drunk that they actually loved more. From the day of the breakup, the past has become a black and white background, it is the past after all, and it has lost all the possibility of starting over.

    Second, you should go to your ex's wedding with a blessed mentality. Since you have the courage to face the past, whether it has been good or bad, the wedding guests should have gone with blessings. You look at the person in front of you who was once extremely familiar and has never seen it before, and his face is full of happiness.

    Just like in "Your Wedding", the male protagonist looked at the female protagonist in a wedding dress with red eyes, and he went to bless and say goodbye. Face this former youth with a blessed mentality, see his happy appearance, and bravely deliver the blessings. There is no need to add harm to the person you once loved deeply, and when you see him happy again, you should wish him a better tomorrow.

    Third, people who choose not to go to their ex's wedding are more practical, and they choose to completely give up the bits and pieces of the past. I know you're married, and I know that you're happy after you left me, and you don't have to see each other again. Meeting again will bring more trouble to the two people, will the newlywed other half feel embarrassed by my arrival, such a romantic scene is best not to lose any romantic flavor because of me.

    Fourth, compared with choosing to go to the wedding, people who choose not to go to the wedding are actually more rational. I didn't have any desire to see him one last time, even if I still had a longing for the past years later, but reason eventually prevailed over this longing. They have the ability to dare to break with the past, and emotions are growing in their hearts, but the past has passed, and they will not bring all kinds of troubles to their lives by giving up everything.

    Entertain yourself at your ex's wedding reception, and we can see how happy he is later on, or see what the standard answer looks like. We can also refuse this invitation, just silently bless in our hearts, why bother to make our hearts a lot of chicken feathers. It's okay, just let the past be just the past.

    We miss out on a lot of people in life, so we have to cherish anyone around us more. Time flies, and you must be washed by time to become the best.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The answer, from the description analysis, to go to the wedding or not to go to the wedding, is mainly up to your own ideas.

    If you can still be ordinary friends after a breakup, and you still have contact often, then you can go to the wedding and send blessings.

    If you rarely contact after a breakup, it is recommended that you still not go to the wedding.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't go if your ex gets married, so that you can live a happier life in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In this case, you definitely don't have to go, they are already ex, and there is no need to choose to have in-depth communication with the other party, so there is no need to go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think I should go, after all, this is a confession of my previous feelings, and it is also an opportunity to witness the happiness of others, and to sincerely wish others a happy life. In the relationship, some people love "face" very much, and they call it "self-esteem", they do something wrong and refuse to apologize, and the cold war has to wait for the other party to speak first. But in fact, the so-called face is just an excuse for them to love themselves more than each other.

    A person who really likes you will never be willing to snub you and hurt you. In a relationship, self-esteem and self-love are essential, but we must master the fire, and both parties must be able to understand each other and take each other's feelings to heart. No matter how intimate a relationship is, there will be contradictions and frictions.

    Playing word games and speculating with each other is certainly interesting, but it also makes many feelings end without a problem. Both sides are frank and honest with each other, intimate communication, and face-to-face communication are the best ways to solve the problem. After all, you once loved each other, and your ex is also your love, but it's not your cup of tea in the end.

    Since the other party has already invited you, there is no reason not to go.

    If you don't eat for nothing, you don't eat it, and it's good to be happy. Perhaps, when you come back from drinking the wedding wine, you are single and suddenly have fate to knock on the door? Right?

    After all, the wedding scene, with many people, lively, and festive, is the most frequented place by fate, and there may be unexpected joy. How many single men and women have met a good marriage after attending a wedding of someone else's family. In time, it will be their turn to stage their happy wine and happy events one after another.

    In addition, if the ex did not invite you to the wedding, there is no need to take the initiative to go, so the specific problem can be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The ex married will not go. Going to your ex's wedding as an old lover will only disgrace yourself, make the situation embarrassing, and become a laughing stock for conversation.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't go when my ex gets married, and even if I'm not jealous and jealous, my heart will be a little sour. After all, he used to love him sincerely, so when he saw him marry someone else, he would feel uncomfortable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I won't go when my ex gets married, and if I want to break it, I will break it off neatly, and I will have a better future for myself in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Answer, from the description analysis, if you have been an ordinary friend, you will go to congratulate, and it also means that you have let go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I definitely won't go in this situation, which means that there is no practical point in going in this situation, so choosing to be yourself is the most crucial.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't go. Just send your blessings silently. Once you go, it will be an embarrassing existence.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The ex will definitely not go when he gets married, he is already his ex, why should he go to his wedding, there is nothing good for him after he goes.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Won't go. Because it will feel awkward, there is no need to go, because of the breakup, and I don't want to have contact anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I receive an invitation, I will definitely go, when the time comes, I will dress myself up handsome and then find two daughters to accompany me, to be honest, when my ex-wife got married, I didn't know that my family and ex-wife were all hiding from me, otherwise their marriage would not work.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Most people don't, there is a situation that will go, that is, you still love each other, but the other party doesn't love you, and the breakup is also mentioned by the other party, only in this case, you will still want to go and see.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't feel embarrassed, you can go, I won't go anyway.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Why go? Is it an eyesore to pay for it? Since they are all exes, let her go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I won't go, but the etiquette will still be in place.

    Because in my eyes, the ex you have let go of is meaningless to you;

    But if you can't let go of your ex, go to see him get married, isn't that going to block yourself?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't go to my ex's marriage, otherwise I will feel uncomfortable or think a lot of things, which will also bring troubles to my future life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The ex broke up after breaking up, and it is the most familiar stranger, and it is best to break it all so as not to bring trouble to later life. The marriage of the ex has nothing to do with him, of course he will not go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No matter what kind of relationship you have with your ex, you can't leave anything but embarrassment, you can't sincerely bless him, even if you sincerely bless him, he has achieved happiness, you are still single, the people who once loved each other can't be together now, you see that he is very sweet, and it will only leave a shadow and uncomfortable, if you want to show your heart, you can give him a share of the money, but people don't go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Won't go. I'm not so cheap, so boring, so ignorant, so troublesome.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, it's better not to go, it's embarrassing, and for the sake of a meal, **can't eat? How to follow the gift? If you follow more, others will say that you are stupid, and if you have less money, others will say that you are careful in picking the door, it is best not to come and go, and not to meet, just treat the other party as dead.

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