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1. Gap pressure. The university you enter is not your ideal university; After entering the university, I found that I was just a very ordinary member, and the "relative mediocrity of college students" caused some students to decline their self-confidence, produce a strong sense of inferiority, and even strong jealousy and aggressive behavior. There will also be pressure from some students from their families (such as family conditions, background, living habits, etc.).
Coping: These gaps are inevitable, and the key is to learn to adjust your mindset.
2. Interpersonal pressure. Without a good interpersonal relationship, people often feel cramped, unconfident and even self-blaming, and the more this happens, the easier it is to withdraw and enter a vicious circle from which they cannot extricate themselves.
Coping: Open your heart, actively integrate into university life, and participate in various activities of the school moderately.
3. Study pressure. College students are also students, and there is definitely pressure to study. Many people think that college should be easy and comfortable, but after going to university, there are very specific problems such as the credit system, English, computer level, and graduate school entrance examination.
Coping: College is mainly self-study, and the ability to read and learn is very important. All kinds of subjects, books, and resources can become your scope of study, and the library will be a place where you will fight for a long time.
In order to acquire more knowledge, it is necessary to improve the efficiency of reading books, and it is recommended to learn to read quickly. Speed reading is an efficient method of reading and learning, and speed reading is not only reflected in the reading speed (to help you save time for reading, studying, and reviewing), but also helps you grasp the context and key points of the article to help you understand and remember, and activate your thinking. For specific exercises, please refer to the "Elite Special Whole Brain Speed Reading and Memory Software".
If you practice for more than an hour every day with the software, you can increase your reading speed in a month, and your ability to remember, understand, pay attention and think can also be improved accordingly.
4. Pressure on the future. Employment is a very real problem for college students. In view of the current situation of various employment difficulties, the pressure is even worse.
Many college students generally have an overestimate of themselves before they are employed, and once they really enter the society, they will feel obviously insufficient strength in the ranks of the employment army, and this gap will cause psychological tension.
Response: For those college students who study professional knowledge seriously, obtain various practical certificates, and develop well in all aspects of communication, the pressure is naturally much less. Therefore, it is necessary to study hard in college, and at the same time, it is necessary to actively integrate into university life.
5. Love pressure. This is mainly about love problems, and many college students graduate and break up, which is naturally stressful.
Response: Do your best, listen to the destiny of God, and let everything go according to fate.
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1. Evaluate yourself correctly and don't ask yourself too high. Correctly understanding and evaluating oneself is one of the important prerequisites for personality development. My own understanding and evaluation of myself are gradually cultivated in the process of development.
Have a correct understanding of yourself, do what you can do, and have a reasonable expectation and evaluation of yourself.
2. Cultivate an independent personality and reduce the influence of others' evaluation. Recognize your own value, be clear about what you should insist on and what you should oppose, have a clear boundary between right and wrong, and don't be swayed by your surroundings.
3. Communicate with others more and talk about the helplessness and unhappiness you feel in a timely manner. Communication is a synergistic way to release stress, and the process of communication is also a process of self-reflection. Talk to others to get psychological support and boost your self-confidence.
4. Take advantage of various social supports. Any psychologically mature independent modern person needs the help of others, and extensive social support is an indispensable way to relieve stress. Family members are an important part of the social support network.
In addition, you should pay attention to expanding your social scope and seek psychological support from third parties who do not have conflicts of interest.
5. Examine yourself from multiple dimensions and establish self-identity. Due to the complexity and multi-dimensionality of self-consciousness, young people need to examine and adjust themselves in multiple dimensions, find the unity of self-consciousness, integrate self-consciousness, and approach the ideal self.
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We always face all kinds of pressures in life, and college students are no exception. In the face of pressure, college students who have not yet entered the society may be overwhelmed, anxious, and uneasy. Let me share some of my own ways of coping with stress.
1 Exercise. When you're feeling too stressed, running two laps around the playground alone can always relieve the pressure. Sweating to relieve stress is the most effective and direct way.
Studies have shown that people produce "endorphins" when they exercise. As the amount of exercise increases, the secretion of "endorphins" also increases, and under the action of "endorphins", the human brain produces feelings of happiness and contentment. So, exercise is absolutely effective in relieving stress.
2 Listen**. Put on your headphones, turn them on, and you're the only one left in the world. The power is infinite, it will create a world for you that belongs only to you, in this world, there is no anxiety and no restlessness, only you and the songs you love to listen to.
There's always a song that can take away all your uneasiness. So for college students, ** is also a good way to relieve stress.
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Exercise can relieve psychological pressure as much as possible, so if the psychological pressure is relatively large, college students still have some time and conditions for exercise, so they can carry out some appropriate exercises according to their physical fitness, so that their unhappy emotions or stress can be released in sports.
You can listen to some soothing songs, these can be better for yourself to release your stress, chat with friends, and go for a delicious meal.
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This is an article on how college students cope with stress.
When talking about this, it's often assumed that they're not doing it well enough. Most of the time, college students are not educated on how to manage their study pressure, so they feel more and more stressed over time. As a college student, it is best to use the following methods to control and adjust the tension in your life.
Breaks: Maintain appropriate breaks during the study process. Although studying for hours on end may make you feel good, your brain becomes less productive over time, your mind becomes sluggish, and your memory declines, which means your brain needs to rest. Every 30 minutes, you should go for a walk or some other relaxation method to help pump more blood to your head so that it can get more oxygen.
After adjusting and relaxing, you will feel energized and your mind will be sharp again.
Contemplative meditation can help you become wise (also known as momentary awareness). Stress is a natural response of the body, but like pressure in the earth's crust, too much can lead to an explosion. Meditation can help you get rid of some of the excess stress and calm your brain.
By constructing a comfortable environment and scene in your brain and immersing yourself in it, you can really relax yourself.
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When dealing with stress, the most important thing for college students is their mentality, followed by perseverance.
College students in a different place will need a lot of pressure in life, the first time to live on campus will feel lonely, some people are living on campus for the first time, they are very uneasy, feel insecure, without the company of people at home, they will feel sad, want to cry, if this feeling has always existed, it will become pressure, will affect your other lives, such as studying, such as interacting with people, so when we face this pressure, we should calm down, slowly adjust ourselves, adapt to ourselves, Communicate with your roommates in your dorm room, play games with them, and exchange feelings so that you don't feel lonely.
The important thing for this kind of small pressure is to calm down the mentality, it's good, and you don't need any persistence, but if it's a big pressure, such as a problem with your studies, or if the water is reversed during that time, you feel that nothing goes well, and the pressure formed, which requires you to do some persistence, on the premise of flattening your mind, to ensure that what you do is right, and prepare a second plan in your heart, just in case you can take it out for backup, when facing the information, we must be careful to ensure that there is no problem with the information, This requires you to persist over and over again in order to check it out, and sometimes it is not a piece of information, which requires you to read each one, and you need the strength to persevere. We can't be opportunistic and think that it's okay to read one less article, this kind of psychology is not right, we need to use patience and persistence to reduce the appearance of mistakes, which will also reduce the pressure.
Persistence does not refer to ordinary persistence, but also a kind of persistence in treating things and people, and he is an indomitable spirit in the face of pressure. It is to not let us give up easily when we are stressed, and not let us hang our heads. It's about letting us beat the pressure with all our abilities.
When college students face too much pressure, they also need to talk to others about their feelings, and they can also release the pressure by running and listening to songs, adjust their mentality, and don't keep it in their hearts for too long, which is not good for their own body and mind, and we need to release it appropriately. This is conducive to our better life, pressure will be encountered by everyone, and we will try to resolve it when we encounter it, and strive to make it our motivation.
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1.Start with the end in mind and clarify the path.
Through the above analysis, we can find that the pressure faced by college students comes to a large extent from their own unclear planning, so it is easy to cast a wide net without priority, lack of energy and no purpose. They are also more sensitive and coerced by their peers and excessive execution.
With the external environment and our own demands, as well as the increase in our understanding of the outside world and ourselves in the process of continuous experimentation and understanding, our goal definition is also a gradual and dynamic process. The understanding of the self often needs to be deepened in the constant friction, collision and contrast of the external environment and the events experienced. Therefore, what we need to do more is to try.
And keep thinking along the way. First of all, you need to firmly believe that you have the ability to think and answer your own questions. Secondly, with an open mind, we should bravely talk to the outside world, with our surroundings, and with ourselves, and carry out self-improvement and development through expression and listening.
At the same time, in the process of these attempts, it is also necessary to establish its own core, that is, independent and self-generated self-judgment, and reject sensitivity. Broaden your horizons, regardless of the gains and losses of one time and one place, and pay attention to the long-term development of five years and ten years.
2.Technical solution, self-discipline implementation.
In the process of planning, we can often trace the general direction, however, the ideal peak is on the other side, there is a river in the middle, there is fog on it, we don't know that the bridge is in **, the road is in**. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and so are the choices at the university level. In the confusion, in addition to the encouragement of family and the support of friends, affirmation and patience of oneself are equally important.
Self-affirmation, self-acceptance, self-forgiveness, digesting emotions, and firmly believing that the gap can be bridged with time, and there is no easy way, the road, is to be found.
At the same time, as mentioned earlier, the exploration of direction is also inseparable from practice, and the landing of direction is also inseparable from practice. Corresponding to execution is procrastination and the consequent lack of self-control. And the concomitant is not only the loss of control of one's own schedule, the decline of state, and the discomfort of both body and mind, but also the decline in the quality of output, and then the formation of a vicious circle.
3.Reject "lemon" and sincerely rejoice.
"I'm lemon", that is, "I'm sour", the Internet phrase originates from ridicule and envy, and its relatively cute tone expresses the more or less unbalanced inner heart, and even the distortion and deformation under the pressure of peers. Universities are in a period of rapid iteration, and the situation of differential competition is too common, which also brings about inappropriate behavior in the open and in the dark, and even in the conflict of interests. In this regard, the students believe that the "lemon" mentality is very undesirable.
This will magnify the opposition and difference between us and the people around us, regardless of whether there is a conflict of interests, whether there is a big or small conflict, which will not only bring stronger comparisons and even comparisons for each individual, but also lose many precious friendships for this. Only by treating each other sincerely and applauding sincerely can we harvest more sincere friendship and a broader world.
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First of all, you can send a questionnaire to each class, of course, the questionnaire is not a standard to test this, just as a basis, without pressure, we have no motivation to move forward, so there is pressure at the same time, we also have to know how to regulate pressure, so that pressure becomes our motivation, can also be beneficial to our physical and mental health, now the sophomore year offers mental health courses, health is not only the absence of physical disease but also includes social adaptability and good moral values, Stress is the joy of life, we have to understand pressure, solve pressure, you can go to see the Bakers experiment, social pressure is relatively large, but we also have to keep up with the pace of social development, we can't always stand still.
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I think you must be both afraid of coming to a new place and looking forward to coming to this place, in fact, it is not as scary as you think, college life is very beautiful, you will not feel too lonely, everyone cherishes friendship when you get to college, I am also a slow type, but I also have a lot of friends, especially roommates are very good. You don't need too many friends, one or two are enough, when you pay your heart to your friends, you will reap happiness, the most important thing is to let yourself live happily in college, long live passing, use more spare time to do something meaningful, exercise yourself more, participate in school activities more, don't lose yourself, you must insist on not changing, don't let it waste your youth, grasp it well, happiness is the most important,