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Everyone wants to be carefree, but who really cares? The so-called petite girls you said, you envy them, but they also envy you. You've taken on family responsibilities from the very beginning of school in a way they never feel.
Whether it's pain or happiness, they don't know anything.
Actually, it's easy to see, you're not in the same world, so there shouldn't be an intersection. You are surrounded by countless people who are just like you who are working hard for the sake of family and responsibility. Envy will only make you more cowardly, and greed will only lead you to a desperate situation.
You should enjoy what is now yours and not everything else ...
As for your married life, believe in your own man, the man you chose, and then do what you should do for this family, don't be sad because of his obscurity, and don't be sarcastic because of his unwillingness. Give him care, give him warmth, if he is a good man, he will cherish all this, and he will work hard for you!
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To be honest, it's not a demon, it's that your inferiority complex is too strong. It's not about eating, drinking, and having fun, and you take self-esteem too seriously, and it's good to have self-esteem, but if you need self-esteem too much, you can hurt others and yourself. In the future, if you live happily and sunnyly, you won't feel demons.
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Actually, you don't have to envy those people, everyone will have their own independent soul. You are so envious that you have lost your original appearance. It's really not worth it.
The social environment will affect people, since God has given you a poor environment, then why don't you follow this bad environment to constantly hone yourself? Being able to give yourself a chance to hone in is priceless, you know?
It's for the sake of that artificiality that you don't even despise yourself, that you lose yourself, and you lose the self that you might be proud of.
Now that things have come to this point, I can't say anything.
I want to ask you, do you still love your husband?
If there is love, then there is nothing that cannot be solved. It's not easy for two people who love each other to really come together, so why bother with it? Now, the person by his side is you too?
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Not all girls with carefree families can be happy and carefree all their lives. Heaven is fair, and while giving you something, it will also take something from you. You also know that this is a demon, and since it is a demon, you must naturally have a flat heart, don't care about gains and losses, and cherish the people in front of you.
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When God closes a door, he will open a window for you, think about the meaning of this sentence, people will eventually have strengths and weaknesses, find their good side, and think to themselves, "I am not worse than others, living in the shadows, it is better to be the real self".
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Top shuxian8 !! It's true that few people can be carefree, but some things should not be too "on par" with others, we compare ourselves with others about strength rather than luck (it seems to have nothing to do with the original text, but there is some truth), I think ah, a person, the most important thing is kindness! Any idea why Shizuka likes Nobita?
Some say it's because he has a lot of aemon. Yes, no one can deny this fact, but the most important thing is that Nobita is a kind-hearted person. He can risk his life to save a kitten, sacrifice the precious wedding eve party ...... to get the kitten to the airportSo, you have to be a real, kind version of yourself.
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