Can love and hate exist at the same time, and can two people who hate from love still be together?

The flip side of love is the absence of love, and hate is an imbalance of emotions that arise from a lack of love or hurt values.

The reason why a person hates because of love is because there is an expectation of the other person while giving love, and he thinks that this expectation should be obtained for granted, but because the other person does not know that the person has expectations for himself, or the values do not agree to respond to the same encounter to the person, so a person loves the other person and does not get a psychological response.

The happiness of two people comes from sufficient communication, love is the essence of virtue, loving someone is great, but loving someone and expecting each other is a need for psychological balance, using relative values to measure the motivation behind it is actually a kind of transaction, heart for heart, to their own good for others and hope to get others for their own good.

Pure love is no hate, hate is just an emotional vent, hate can not be soothed will also lead to sorrow, sad emotions can spread into powerlessness, helplessness, frustration, sadness, grievances, pain. But grief is the energy of ending and starting again, and when the energy of grief is released, it can heal those wounds and start a new life.

You can love deeply and hate deeply.

Yes, my feelings for Maddie right now are love and hate.

Of course that's the case.

The ancients said that love is inflicted on the knees, and evil falls into the abyss.

The deep responsibility of love, in a love, from love to hate, is not inevitable, there are traces to follow.

There are usually several reasons for this:

01 did not cherish.

A good love relationship is one that cherishes each other and feels sorry for each other. If one party pays too much and the other party takes it for granted, it will inevitably cause an imbalance in the heart of the party who pays, and it will inevitably accumulate grievances over time. People's hearts are flesh and blood, no one has a reason to be as high as the uncle, everyone else has to pretend to be a grandson to serve, everyone is equal, and emotionally.

If you have been indifferent, why should I always be enthusiastic. There is no reciprocal affection, no matter how deep the love is, there will always be a day of loss, so hatred begins to take root and sprout.

02 There is no tolerance.

Two people get along day and night, each other's temperaments are different, living habits are different, if there is no tolerance, a little trivial thing will cause conflicts, from small quarrels to big fights are also common. After two people quarrel, they will have more or less mustard in their hearts, and there will be cracks in their feelings. If you continue to get along, there is still no tolerance and tolerance, and contradictions will still occur, then love will gradually begin to hate until they part ways.

03 No communication.

Communication and speaking do not mean the same thing, and not every couple can know how to communicate. Communication is actually a way to get along. When you suddenly find that your other half is cold to you, has no good face, sulks, and ignores you, there must be something wrong between you, and at this time, you must communicate well, in the end, it is not in place to cause the other party to be angry.

Many couples often don't like to express their hearts directly, sometimes too subtle and obscure, and people with big nerves don't notice it, they will feel inexplicable, and then quarrel, don't understand, and feel dissatisfied and resentful. There are many things that can be communicated in time to enhance the relationship between each other and stifle misunderstandings in the cradle.

All in all, in a love, since it has begun, it is fate, and if you don't cherish it, don't tolerate each other, and don't communicate in time, it's easy to make love cover with a layer of dust, and over time, hatred will breed.

This is because in a relationship, two people are getting better and better for each other, and then they are becoming more and more inseparable from each other, and they will also tolerate all the shortcomings and faults of the other party.

I think why there are so many relationships born of love and hate, mainly because in fact, you are more invested in your love, maybe you think you don't love her much, but in fact, unconsciously, the two of you have a deep relationship, you actually love him very much, so when you separate, you will be very reluctant in your heart, and then very resentful, so there may be love and hate.

It is often said that the deeper the love, the more bitter the hatred. When you are constantly invested in your feelings, you will find it very uncomfortable when you lose it all of a sudden.

It's as if all your treasures have been stolen by someone else. How can this make you not hate the person who steals the treasure. Therefore, the deeper the love, the more serious the hate. It is also normal to become enemies because of love.

Loving someone is often based on possession and possession, once the other party is not good to him, or the other party has changed his mind and empathizes, and he feels that he can no longer have the other party, then it will be particularly painful and gradually turn into hatred.

When we love someone enough, we invest all of our emotions, and if this feeling is not accepted by the other person, it will cause us a kind of harm. We will think that there is harm in love and hatred will arise.

From love to hate in the relationship, the most fundamental difference is that their treatment of life is in love, if they love someone deeply, some things that the other party does will make him doubly painful.

If two people have a conflict with each other in a relationship, then it is very likely that love will give rise to hate. There are many examples of these in our lives, so we should all be honest with each other in the process of interacting with two people. Grasp each other's feelings and try not to develop to this point.

In a love, it is often love at the beginning and turns into hate in the end!

This is the birth of love and hate, maybe because of jealousy, maybe because of misunderstanding.

Not everything can be explained clearly, you must be magnanimous, so in the end it becomes a matter of love and hate.

In a relationship, it is not impossible to love but hate, because of love and hatred. This mainly depends on whether the parties are generous and whether they are at the tip of the bull's horns. If he is determined to succeed and is reluctant to make it difficult, and the other party is uncompromising and has no feelings, the small-minded person will inevitably go to extremes.

The biggest possibility is that you have carefully prepared some things, or some moods, but the other party can't empathize, or even disagree, and the feeling that it is not worth mentioning, so that you have a little reason to hate from love, and there must be a cause and effect.

In a love, love can hurt the liver, that is because two people like each other to produce a kind of love, people with good feelings, together will take root, will not break up, will go on, become husband and wife, live together forever.

Because in a relationship, in a love, the men and women of love are 100% invested in this relationship, and any harm to one of them is fatal, so in a love, love can give birth to hate.

It's just some personal opinions, in a love, the reason why love can hate is because you can't love, because you don't get a good return for your love.

In a love, if one party changes his mind, the other party will love deeply, hate, this is love can hate, if one party changes his mind, the other party will be very painful, sad, will hate each other very much.

Maybe in this love, your boyfriend betrayed you, so you will hate your boyfriend's love, which is a relatively normal phenomenon, because love will produce hate.

Because of love, it is possible to hate from love, but there are very few people with this extreme idea, most of them love someone, but if they can't be together, they will bless him, he will live well, and his heart will feel better.

In a relationship, I love a boy very much, because this love is not satisfied, and in turn it becomes very love, a person must love well, she doesn't like a person, she should not hurt, his love is full of beauty, not to make the other party sad.

Because people's words are all my emotions and desires. Everyone has his own selfish side. People start from their own ideas and are self-interested. Because of love, because of jealousy, negative emotions arise. I like it turns into hate and hate.

Because if two people have a conflict together, then the two people will have a quarrel, and after the quarrel, you may hate each other more.

Hello friend, mainly because of the other party to pay too much, not in return, what you get is betrayal, so that you will hate because of love, I hope everyone can find the right person, pay for the right person, so that you can be happy.

Feelings are like this, because love is let down, it turns from love to hate. People have a sense of self-protection, and there is a return for paying, whether it is material or spiritual, once it backfires, emotional loss is an inevitability.

In a relationship, love and hate is that one party is hurt, on the one hand, the other party has a sense of shock, and in the relationship, one party only knows how to take and will not give, and the other party hates him.

When the more love is given, the response is little or nothing, and it is too far from the expectation of one's heart, so hatred is born, and between love and hate, it is always proportional or even more.

I feel that the reason why it is easy to lead to love and hate may be because a person cares too much, and his own personality is more possessive, once he can't possess what she wants, then it will be easy to have another extreme emotion.

In a relationship, love and hatred may be love, or it may be hurt in this relationship. Or maybe it's been betrayal.

OK! The premise is that both of them are generous people!

Love Cheche, Hate Cheche! Because you love him or her, you can't put a little sand in your eyes; Because you love her or him, you like to hold each other tightly in your hands; Because you love him or her, you like to see everything about the other person as your own! Because of the deep love, it makes the other party feel suffocated, constrained, and incredible, so they want to break free from the shackles, and as a result, both parties feel aggrieved!

At this time, if one party can think openly, analyze and straighten out with the other party rationally, then it can return to the normal track.

Sit down and talk, or ask a sensible friend to help analyze the problem between two people.

I wish you all happiness!

It's all hateful, so why bother to get entangled. It's so awkward to face to face. Loving someone doesn't have to be by their side. Letting go is also a form of love.

Love is a life of trust between two people, there is some unhappiness in the words, this is normal, there is love and hate, in life, it is necessary to trust this and be broad-minded, so that two people will have a happy tomorrow when they go.

We can't be together.

Because there is already such a psychology of hatred, if they stand together, there will definitely be a gap, so it is impossible to be together.

In fact, I think that if a relationship hurts each other because of love, then even if two people are together, it is impossible to reunite. Because some feelings have cracks and they don't like each other, even if they are together, there will be more or less psychological shadows in their hearts.

Two people who hate each other can't be together, and it is right that both parties must love each other, so as to make life happier and more satisfying.

Yes, two people have hatred outside of being together, and hatred can turn into love.

That possibility is no longer a possibility, unless the estrangement is resolved.

Basically, if you really love, it's hard to hate the other person, of course, there are exceptions, if you put all your love on him, and he does something that you can never forgive, you may hate, but it should be very little. The opposite of love is indifference, absolute indifference, not hate, when you will no longer fluctuate because of his psychology, and don't care about him at all, you just don't love him, if you hate him, it means that you still care about him. People who really love each other will see each other as more important than themselves, and they will hope that the other party can be happy, so I think if you really love with your heart, there will be no hatred.

When he doesn't love you and leaves you, you still love him very much, and how much you love him at that time, how much you hate him. The more you hate him, the more you will remember him for the rest of your life. In fact, your hatred is your love, and if the hatred is still there, it proves that the love has not disappeared.

How much you hate someone shows how much you love him. When you have that love, cherish her, stupidly care for her with all your heart, protect her when fate is exhausted, if you try your best to keep it, you still can't turn back. Please keep your hatred, after all, we have loved each other so deeply, and if we don't love each other deeply, there will be no bitter hatred, but just imagine, if he hadn't left, what would I hope for him?

There are many reasons for him to leave, maybe he has changed, maybe you have annoyed him, or maybe. In short, your fate is over. Fate is over, even if his love is gone, but your love is still there, and the purpose of your love is to hope that he will live well, right?

If this hope changes because of his change, doesn't it mean that your love will not stand the test? If you can please hold on to that love until he comes back, he will find that you love him the most, if there is really no result, please keep that love, love someone, you don't have to have, fate is forced to come, hate if it can solve the problem, then hold on, in fact, hate will only strengthen his determination to leave, why not be generous, smile and watch him leave, even if he doesn't come back, because your love is always there... Hatred is the emotional venting of one's own efforts without being rewarded, and this venting has no other advantages than deepening the conflict and leaving a shadow on the hearts of both parties.

When one is determined to hate ... Isn't it more meaningful to find the reason for your hatred, and to think about whether the other person is worth hating? You give, you don't get anything in return, hurt, betray, leave ...

There must be a reason in it, if you find out the reason and solve the problem, won't there be no hatred in the future? If the injury, betrayal, and departure are caused by the person's natural vileness and cannot be undone, then does it make sense to spend one's heart and soul to hate the despicable person? Love is the most beautiful thing, and when there is a crack in love, it is the smartest thing to think about and find out why, and it is the wisest thing to do without thinking about it, and not considering whether it is worth it or not.

There is not much time in life, let's do unwise things, that's all, I hope it can help you, I wish you happiness and happiness