I m hurt, the boy I like doesn t like me, how should I forget him

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell you my way, I was also sad when I first broke up with the person I liked, but I found a good way, every time I think about her, I think about the stupid things I did for her, I think it's ridiculous to think that I would do that stupid thing, and then I laugh and think of other happy things, every time, and now when I see her, I feel like it's a joke when I'm with her!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Or you change your target. That way you'll be able to forget quickly.

    Or let time dilute it. Spend more time with friends.

    I won't think about it so much.

    That's all there is to it.

    It's all on your own.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time is a pot of healing medicine, no longer mention him, no longer pay attention to him, there will be good boys who will pay attention to you, care about you, and love you. One day, you suddenly realize that there are so many excellent boys around you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This takes time to dilute, and it doesn't mean that you can forget it right away, you have to slowly shift your attention, don't always think about him, after all, he doesn't belong to you, you can keep yourself busy by running, working, talking to friends, etc., so that you will slowly forget him, come on!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you come up with a way, you will naturally forget about him, no one else can help you with this problem, you can only rely on yourself, and one more point, now the gap between men and women is so big, you are a girl, you have to chase a man, do you think it is appropriate, so many bachelors are waiting for you to rescue, what are you waiting for!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Put all your energy into another thing, such as studying seriously, or going out with friends of the same sex more often, doing sports, and burning off your physical strength.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    will fall in love with one or several people in your life, inevitably be hurt, cry and hurt, a long, long time later, when you finally meet your true love, you will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces to memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget someone, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love.

    If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone. But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

    1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

    You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

    Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

    2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

    You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.

    3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!

    But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How do you know he doesn't like you? Confessed?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I like a girl, but she doesn't like me, and the two of them used to be together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Keep liking until he likes it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find one more! Didn't you forget?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find a new one you like.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You are a student in school, the actual situation is not unaware, from the question you want to dissolve the relationship between the two people as soon as possible, there are a few suggestions for dealing with this matter:

    1. You envy your strong boyfriend, feel that you have face, but you are reluctant to this "servant", if you make a decision, you should send the idea directly to him, don't be depressed, you think about the way you talk, you want to show your attitude, but also not too much hurt the other party.

    2. If you are a middle school student, the ordinary classmate relationship is appropriate, if not, it is best to focus on learning, although it is a cliché, but life is divided into different stages, like the four seasons, spring sprouts and flowers, summer growth and development, autumn maturity, winter everything is killed, life is the same, different ages should focus on doing what should be done, do not leapfrog development, otherwise regret is inevitable.

    3. If you are a college student, choose the other half for yourself, although earlier, but it is not impossible to consider, this problem, personal opinion is, a person's appearance does not represent anything, "strong" and "servant" is just a superficial phenomenon, to see the essence through the phenomenon, overall, character is the first, the second is whether there is potential for development in the future, observe his circle of friends, treat people, work ideas, attitude towards feelings, third, whether there is an independent opinion, fourth, your feelings about him... In order to have a good family in the future, you need to think carefully.

    Personal opinion, reference.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to cherish such a person, you have to confirm whether it is really unproductive, the one who can help you do this and that is like you, or who will help you, but if you really don't have a good personality, don't be together again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Remind him directly, if he can't change this, persuade him to find a suitable partner (there are always women who like him).

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Have a good talk with him.

    But be careful not to hurt him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I also learned something from your question, hehe.

    Encourage him to be confident and not to act like a servant. Don't hurt his self-esteem when you say it.

    It's a little bit I don't understand, so what's the difference between what you girls like and don't like?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you like him too much, even love him, even if he hurts you, you still love him. It is very difficult to forget a person you love, since you can't forget, then don't forget, time is the best healing agent, it will help you bury that person, when you find someone who loves you and you love him at the same time, whether you have forgotten him or not, you will no longer have heartache.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you hurt deeply, you will love deeply! The depth of love will hurt deeply! Don't deliberately forget, slowly, it will be fine after a long time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That's what you do. You have to forget him.

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