Let the mother in law and daughter in law no longer have contradictions, what points can be greatly

Living separately, the husband needs to be principled, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not live together, and if there is less contact time, there will be a lot less contradictions. When you are together, your husband must be principled, and you can't feel that because you are parents, you can't blindly indulge and be satisfied.

1) After marriage, try to live separately from your parents. (2) We must know how to meet the source left and right, and please both sides. (3) When a conflict erupts, it will never be on that side forever.

If you don't live together, there won't be so many things, and it makes sense that distance produces beauty.

First: putMother-in-law is treated as a mother, but can not be treated as a mother-in-law, in front of the mother-in-law daughter will always be at fault but will always forgive, and there will be no estrangement, daughter-in-law in front of the mother-in-law, maybe there is a sentence wrong, will cause conflicts between the two people, after all, the daughter-in-law is not born by the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law is not the mother-in-law, can not understand the daughter-in-law like the mother-in-law, to the mother-in-law to be a mother, when the guest respects, then there will be less misunderstanding between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Second:Mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as a daughter, but she can't be treated as a daughter, you can scold her and say her, she may be angry at the time or forgive afterwards, but the daughter-in-law is different, if the mother-in-law scolds her, or says that she is not good, then it will cause estrangement and misunderstanding between the two people, what the daughter-in-law understands here is, why do you scold me, why do you say me, I am good enough for you, you still say that I am not good, etc., then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not get along well, If the daughter-in-law does something wrong, the mother-in-law can say it in a different tone, not directly with an order or a bitter melon face to say it to the other party.

Third:Not every mother-in-law does what everyone likes to be satisfied with, and the daughter-in-law should think of her mother-in-law as her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law can be forgiven for her mistakes

Not every daughter-in-law does it perfectly, think about it, your daughter also doesn't understand what she doesn't understand, and when she makes mistakes, why can her daughter forgive her if she makes a mistake, and she keeps complaining about her unfilial piety when her daughter-in-law does something wrong? Sort out your mood and stand in the corner of the other party, look at your mother-in-law for ten years, look at your daughter-in-law for ten years, be tolerant of your daughter-in-law, and your daughter-in-law must be tolerant and filial to your mother-in-law, and your family and everything will be prosperous

Fourth:Life is just a few decades, the mother-in-law is also the daughter-in-law to come, the daughter-in-law will also be the mother-in-law in the future, why should women be embarrassed by women, think more about each other, the elderly may nag a little more, young people must know how to tolerate, young people may not do what the elderly are not used to, don't nag young people to do things, after all, we have to follow the times, can not have the idea of the older generation, everyone is equal, the mentality is flat and everything is fine.

Communicate frequently, understand each other, tolerate each other, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law communicate together, they can definitely solve the contradictions between each other, and the two people can understand each other, tolerate each other, and promote the feelings of the two people.

It can be adjusted, we must treat our mother-in-law as a neighbor, don't treat our mother-in-law as a mother, don't treat our mother-in-law as a mother, and if we don't call out our mother-in-law, there will be no excessive hopes and demands, and if there is no hope and demand, of course there will be no pain and fighting, and no matter what the neighbors have done for us, no matter how small things are, we will be grateful, and the same is true for our parents-in-law. This is the basic mentality of Xiangtanhu to get along with his in-laws, and only under the condition of ensuring that the basic mentality is normal can we talk about getting along, otherwise it will always be a fight.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be adjusted. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should respect each other when getting along, give each other some personal space, and don't worry too much about each other's affairs. Bump and hold.

No, two people should communicate often, communicate often, understand each other, respect each other, and move towards the same goal.