Life is too short, how can we be kind to ourselves?

Life is too short, how can we be kind to ourselves?

At the beginning of life, it was a square stone, with sharp edges and corners, and it was difficult to move. Constantly moving forward, time and life will repeatedly polish the square, and finally become a circle, and then develop better and move forward faster. In other words, in this life, people will encounter many, many difficulties and setbacks, which will make people overwhelmed and experience the hardships of life.

So life is too short, how should we treat ourselves?

01 First of all, we must maintain a correct value and psychological state, have our own independent cognition, have a certain correct view of everything, there are no wrong psychological factors, maintain a good attitude, and be able to adapt and accept life faster. Controlling oneself in a pleasant mood and having a certain optimism about everything is psychological kindness. Do not reject people thousands of miles away, do not make friends, and have enough patience and understanding towards others.

Correctly distinguish the value of friends, ensure that every acquaintance and intersection is a quality and tacit soul, treat others to avoid intrigue, envy and jealousy, secretly ridicule, and accept the emotions of others with a happy and healthy attitude, which is a kind treatment in communication.

02 Have a certain plan for the future, what you want to do, what you want to become, what you want to achieve, leave a purpose and expectation in your heart, and try to achieve what you want to achieve. Don't be in a hurry, don't talk nonsense, don't take big steps, take one step at a time, be down-to-earth, and march for your own ideas. In the early morning of each day, I will strive for my own goals and ideals.

Setting goals and striving for goals is ideal kindness.

Actively learn knowledge, cultivate hobbies, understand the development of the country**, designate a study plan, and let yourself always be on the road of learning. You can fully rationalize the effective time, learn recipes, learn poems, learn **, learn concepts, and maximize your own learning value in every spare day, constantly absorb and learn knowledge, and work hard to cultivate yourself, which is professional kindness.

03 Don't set too deep thoughts for yourself, don't combine all unpredictable and force majeure factors with yourself, adjust in time when you encounter difficulties, find that you are depressed and strive to improve, not for a long time of malaise, find ways and means to relax your body and mind, don't waste time on your own problems, try to change, change your real evil, and change your self-disgust and tangled mentality. Try to accept your own shortcomings, understand your own problems, praise your strengths, and face yourself correctly, which is self-kindness.

04Life is short, and there are many ways to be kind to yourself. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself, to be kind to yourself is to be kind to yourself, and to have a good attitude is also to be kind to yourself. All in all, as long as you are uplifted, abandon unhealthy psychology, study actively, sound your mind, live an optimistic and happy life, make friends sincerely, pay attention to everything, and feel happy and happy every day, that is to treat yourself well.

Don't be stubborn, learn to empathize. When the heart is right, everything goes well, and when you are kind to yourself, God will be kind to you. Everything exists as it makes sense, so don't get old and ask why.

No matter how unhappy you are, it is your responsibility to eat every meal, sleep well, and dress up first.

Life is inherently imperfect, but if you figure it out, you will be perfect if you think about it. Look down, a sea in your heart, look away, a sky above your head, there is a depth to have a realm, know how to cherish to have, tolerate others is to be kind to yourself.

Life is short, but the quality of life is determined by oneself, those who have money are not necessarily happy, those who have less money are not necessarily unhappy, the attitude of life determines whether they are happy, we must treat life correctly, be more tolerant, and be happy if we have a good attitude.

Everyone lives, has their own meaning and value of existence, and the realization of its value, is not achieved by non-stop running, we have our own career, have our own pursuit, but when we are tired, we should also slow down our pace, or stop and rest, treat ourselves well.

Everyone has their own life, have their own ups and downs, if you want to have a wonderful and meaningful life, then you have to ask yourself what kind of life you like, what your pursuit is, of course, to figure this out, you must be based on your own actual situation, through your own efforts can be achieved, do not dream, as long as you work hard, your life will be wonderful.

No matter where you are, you will not give up or escape when you encounter difficulties and setbacks, and you will face life positively. When encountering unsatisfactory people and things, be good at exculpating and defusing them, no matter what kind of environment you are in, you are broad-minded and open-minded. Be good-based with people and things, and do not compete with others about their strengths and weaknesses, and judge right and wrong.

Live in the moment, accept that imperfect self, accept your ordinariness, live happily and happily, be kind to yourself, don't keep suppressing your heart, just be happy.

It's good to be alive, it's good to live, and you have to learn how to be kind to everything about yourself. Be kind to yourself, forget what you can do in the past, learn to let go of yourself, and don't think too much about the future. Precipitate the mood, remove impetuousness, and calm the mind at ease.

Look at the opening point, want to light up.

Forget yesterday, face up to today, and look forward to tomorrow.

Be kind to others and be kind to yourself.

Life is bitter and happy, perfect, achieve self-discipline and independence, respect yourself, and protect life well.

Don't think too much, be kind to yourself, and live happily every day.

Treat the northwest wind in the most beautiful state every day!

People live a lifetime, in addition to thinking about others, but also to be kind to themselves, let's talk about the shortness of life, how to treat yourself.

01 Learn to relax.

Earning money is important, but you can't let yourself be too tired every day, give yourself a vacation at the right time, slow down the pace of life, let your tense nerves completely relax and resist, you will find that slow life is actually a kind of enjoyment.

02 Appreciate beautiful things.

When you are upset, look at the problem from a different angle, or look at the beautiful things around you according to not thinking about the troublesome things, you can feel that life is so beautiful.

03 Treat yourself.

People who have a state group think that living alone is just a good thing to eat, but in fact, this is a wrong idea, even if you live alone, you can live a colorful life, and you can also eat a big meal and taste the happiness that only belongs to you.

04 Tourism.

People live a lifetime, not limited to the place of birth, the outside world is very large, very exciting, appropriate time, plan a long trip, to feel the customs of different places, broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge, increase the rich experience of life, but also treat themselves well.

Sometimes, I find myself very pitiful, busy with hard work, tired and tired, and as a result, I don't earn as much as I spend.

I always give the best to others, but I have always made do.

Sometimes, I want to cry inexplicably, I have accumulated too many grievances in my heart, I feel aggrieved when I think about it, no one pays attention to it, the more silent I am, the more depressed I am, and the more aggrieved I am, the more sad I feel.

Sometimes, I don't want to talk to anyone, I don't like anything, I don't like anything, I want to be in a daze, turn off my mobile phone, refuse to answer **, and don't reply to messages.

Sometimes, I am really tired, I dare not say much, I dare not confide, I have an unshirkable responsibility on my shoulders, my parents are aging too fast, and my children are growing up too fast.

If I don't strengthen my foundation, I will show who is cowardly.

When you are tired, just give your soul a vacation, don't say "children can't do without me", don't say "work can't do without me", don't say "my family can't do without me", you have many roles in life.

The most important thing is to be yourself.

About three or five good friends sit, drink tea, sing songs, play ball, and fish.

No gossip, only scholarly poetry.

There is no shortness of the family, only the philosophy of life, not to say everything in life, only to comprehend and long.

Life is short, be kind to yourself!

In life, we always have to walk many roads and do many things. Whether it's a happy thing or a sad thing, you have to move forward. In life, there are not only endless beautiful scenery, but also endless sadness.

But no matter what, you have to walk the road yourself, and you have to do things yourself. It's hard to walk, it's hard to walk, it's hard to do, it's hard to do, on the road of life, what you see is difficult, and in the resume of life, it's strong.

Originally, there was no pain, no trouble, no sorrow, but when there are too many extravagant hopes, too many considerations, and too many sighs, troubles and sorrows arise. The more extravagant hopes there are, the more pain there will be, and the more happiness will be far away. Only those who know how to control their desires can enjoy the true pleasures of life.

Only those who know how not to care can enjoy the harmony of the left and right. Only those who know how to let go of themselves can enjoy the freedom and calmness of life.

Life is short, it is not that the heart is simple, the world is not complicated, nor is the heart uncomplicated, the world is simple. In fact, the complexity and simplicity of the world are not directly related to the complexity and simplicity of our hearts, but we can look at the world rationally, treat things objectively, don't take some things too seriously, live easily, and work happily and happily, then, if you deal with the problems of life, it may be simple, and your vision of things may be relaxed.

Everything in the world, except for life and death, is a trivial matter. Stop being sad for love, stop crying for love. Life is short, the world is very big, love, just a piece, life is very long, love, just one, in addition to love, we also have family affection, friendship.

In life, the most feared thing is sadness and sadness, from now on, live happily. No matter what troubles you encounter, don't embarrass yourself and don't lose confidence. Because, with tomorrow, we can still create everything.

Slowly, you will understand that there are some things that you can only carry by yourself; Gradually, I learned that there is some bitterness, and I can only taste it myself. Sometimes, the road of the world can only be walked by one person; Physical injuries, sometimes, can only be raised by one person. In the world, all things, whether bitter or sweet, are a kind of fate, a kind of unexpected encounter, given to us by God, we should gladly accept it, and should not affect others.

Buy more things if you want to eat, don't always wronged yourself, don't be difficult for yourself, don't worry about your children's affairs, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren's blessings, let them solve it themselves.

Whatever you want to do, you must follow your hobbies, don't wronged yourself, don't live for others.

You should be more responsible for the second half of your life, and you should also give yourself a better life for the second half of your life, so that you can live a better life in the second half of your life.

You should be kind to yourself, and you should also improve your quality of life and level, and don't restrain some of your emotions, and you should also respect yourself, and you should also let yourself relax, and don't wronged yourself because of others.

I think that in the second half of my life, I must have my own principles and bottom line, never be broken by anyone, and at the same time, I should make myself a self-disciplined person and be more excellent.

You must learn to reconcile with yourself, maintain a good mood, do what you want to do, and find something you like to do, so that you can become very confident and very independent.

If you want to be kind to yourself, the first thing is to be kind to yourself, put yourself first, and sometimes you don't have to think too much about other people's feelings.

Put all your energy into yourself, don't be reluctant to spend money, go shopping more, buy more, and eat delicious food.

You should do everything according to your own wishes. If you want to make yourself happy, such a life is very valuable.

You can treat yourself, eat more good food, and then you can take the money to travel around the world.

You should be kind to yourself, eat whatever you want, buy whatever you want, be self-centered, and treat yourself well.

You should live for yourself, don't think about other things, and let yourself realize the value of your life.

Come to think of it, being a human being is really tiring and difficult.

In case of trouble, you can tell you to endure it, how many people can understand?

Frustrated and drunk, does anyone care?

You have compassion for the suffering of others, but who is weighing your difficulties?

You have helped others and sacrificed yourself.

How many people know how to be grateful?

You have made others and hurt yourself, who cares how you feel?

Is your hard work paying off?

If you want to contribute, you have to face the right things.

You have to give, and you have to meet people who are grateful.

Be a human being, don't learn from bees, hurt others, but ruin yourself.

Don't be a hedgehog either, it will make people want to love you, and you stink, I want to warm you, but I can't hold you.

Don't hurt others, but also prevent being hurt by others.

Remember: I'd rather be with someone of quality than have friends who drink casually with bad quality.

So, life is short, be kind to yourself.

Learn to love yourself and your family!

Of course, we should also be kind to our friends, to our families, to our lives, to be kind to every encounter in our lives, and to be kind to every hand in our lives.

In this life. Take responsibility and enjoy the life you deserve.

Joy, happiness.