What can be done to keep the relationship in a state of long term endure?

Do you get bored of really liking someone? I won't.

No matter how many reasons you want, you can't deny that you are bored with this relationship, and this may be the beginning of your relationship crack.

I think it's a natural state to be together for a long time, two people who really like each other, whether in love or in a dull period, may have quarrels, but never want to break up.

If one person walks fast, one person walks slowly, then the fast one will get tired of walking slowly, if you want to keep love in a state that you don't get tired of for a long time, you need to keep up with each other's footsteps, let yourself be an excellent person, and always maintain the state when he liked it.

Be sure to maintain your sense of mystery and let yourself and your partner slowly become better. In this way, everyone will make progress together, life will become better and better, and the relationship can be better and better.

The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. The most representative figures are Li Dan and his girlfriend, the two of them are together, which is called a cross-species union. The reason why the beautiful black tail sauce can get along with Li Dan for a long time with the small-eyed and big-faced cake face is because of Li Dan's humorous personality, although we can't all do what Li Dan does, but at least we have to be a positive and sunny person, optimistic, sunny and upward, only by getting along with such a person can we get along for a long time.

Life needs a sense of ritual, whether it is a couple in love, or an old husband and wife who have lived for many years, you must not think that after being together for a long time, there is no need to give gifts or remember anniversaries and the like. We must not only eat the fireworks of the world, but also pursue poetry and distance. The occasional little surprise and little romance will enhance your relationship.

Occasionally, sending a rose to your lover to make a romantic splash in ordinary life is also one of the magic weapons that you never get tired of for a long time. I think that as long as you are attentive in your relationship, you can manage your relationship well, and as long as you have a heart, you can find a way to stay with it for a long time.

A common scenario for people in love: you say that you go on a trip to watch a movie during the holidays, and the other party says that you should stay at home during the holidays, and list the reasons for staying at home: going out to play, watching movies is tiring and burning money, ......In the end, whether it is going out to play or staying at home, there will be a person who is unhappy, and a bad mood will affect the relationship between the two people, and over time, the heart will not be able to get along when they are tired.

It can be seen that people with different views are tired together, and if two people want to get along for a long time, it is very important to cultivate the same three views.

Distance produces beauty. Even if you like each other again, you should keep an appropriate distance, give yourself and the other person appropriate space, and do not pay too much attention to and interfere in the other person's life. The relationship between the sexes is like flying a kite, if you want the kite to fly for a long time, you must release the line appropriately, and the appropriate distance is also a way to keep the two people together for a long time.

Treat each other with an understanding and tolerant mindset. As the saying goes, it's easier to fall in love than to get along. When the wind and snow collide with pots and pans, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and misunderstandings, at this time, you need to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, with a tolerant and understanding attitude to the other party, if you have to fight for a win or lose, after a long time, the feelings will fade.

Do more things you can do together. For example, if you don't have money, you don't have much time, and you can go on an outing. As long as you love each other and take time out of your busy work to spend time with each other, that's enough.

Now everyone is very busy with work, there is not much time, if you can't have the string of family, arrange more time with your family, you can't experience the happiness of the family, I don't work on Sunday, anyone who is familiar with me knows, Lao Song Sunday is basically a text message does not reply, WeChat does not reply, ** do not answer, because I sometimes go out with my family, mobile phones do not bring, this combination of work and rest, relaxation, will increase the viscosity of the family, will make people happy.

Don't stick to each other too often, and learn to keep a proper distance to help keep things fresh. You have to remember each other's anniversaries and have a sense of ritual in your relationship.

Two people should give each other some personal space, don't always be together, but also care more, think more about each other, be brave enough to express their love, and travel regularly and go on dates regularly.

In the beginning, because of the attraction, we want to be together, but after we are really together, we need to communicate with each other, and we will often do something together, and when we interact with each other, we will get to know each other better, and the other person will get to know us better. At this time, as we get to know each other better, we may feel that each other is very good and compatible with ourselves, but it is also possible that in the dialogue, in some behavioral patterns, we will feel more and more that each other is not the same way. However, if two people do not get along at all, their views are completely different, and their views on the same thing are always completely opposite, two people will only be very awkward when they are together, and the good feelings they had at the beginning will only be quickly exhausted.

Only when we get in touch with each other more and more find that we can always talk to each other, our thoughts are always at the same level, our cognitions are always very similar, and we all feel more comfortable, and we feel that each other is a person in the same way, and this relationship can continue forever. In the beginning, because of the attraction, we want to be together, but after we are really together, we need to communicate with each other, and we will often do something together, and when we interact with each other, we will get to know each other better, and the other person will get to know us better. At this time, as we get to know each other better, we may feel that each other is very good and compatible with ourselves, but it is also possible that in the dialogue, in some behavioral patterns, we will feel more and more that each other is not the same way.

However, if two people do not get along at all, their views are completely different, and their views on the same thing are always completely opposite, two people will only be very awkward when they are together, and the good feelings they had at the beginning will only be quickly exhausted. Only when we get in touch with each other more and more find that we can always talk to each other, our thoughts are always at the same level, our cognitions are always very similar, and we all feel more comfortable, and we feel that each other is a person in the same way, and this relationship can continue forever.

The maintenance of long-term relationships has always been a problem, and many people's love is always not maintained for a long time, this is because they do not know how to maintain, and the maintenance of long-term relationships is skillful.

Have personal hobbies.

Both parties have their own interests and hobbies, and it is best not to interfere with each other, for example, if a boy likes to play games, you can accompany him, or even play with him, try to understand and integrate each other's hobbies, which is a good point to improve the emotional concentration of the two. Don't interfere too much with each other's hobbies, or even block each other, and don't blindly compromise to find a moderate balance.

Know how to improve yourself.

Many women think that 18-25 pairs are their own ** period, and the market value of a woman's marriage will decrease after the age of 25, but in fact, I want to tell women that valuable women have always known how to progress and improve. A woman who has her own life, knows how to enrich her life, learns more and makes more progress, and has her own charm will not lack suitors.

He also knows how to control his emotions when arguing.

It's normal to have a fight, but it's also important to avoid saying nasty things when arguing. For example, boys like to tease girls and say, "You're so ugly, no one wants you but me, and then make girls angry, and then say why can't you joke so much?"

Some girls will also say that their boyfriends: Why are you not motivated to play games every day, but when the boy works seriously, he says: You don't have time to spend with me, it is important for me or for work, which is very contradictory.

There is no absolutely safe marriage relationship in the world, and feelings need to be maintained.

There are many kinds of love in the world, and love does not necessarily have to have you, and gazing is also a kind of love....When you are deeply in love with someone.

Regardless of the form of love, their essence is the same....I'm standing not far from you, silently.

Sincerely and melancholy looking at you, through this life...

When my love unfortunately becomes a burden to you, please tell me, and I will leave quietly as well....Because your happiness is the basis of my happiness, and if it is only because of my existence that causes your suffering, then for your sake I must disappear from your life....

I won't be sad, even when I remember your smile at night, I can't help but laugh happily.

Because loving you is a truly precious treasure in life, a wealth that will never be too little and not too much....I keep my love for you because I know that it is the most beautiful possession of my life...

Maybe. Doomed in this life.

I can't get the kind of infatuated love you have, so please let me love you quietly, and that's enough.

Meeting you has made me have no regrets in my life.

What a long-lasting intimate relationship really requires is that both parties work together, pay for and sustain together, based on mutual understanding, respect, suspicion and support. This requires two people to have some commonalities in terms of emotions, personalities, hobbies and opinions, which can make both parties more tacit and make progress together.

While a person's emotional stability can help reduce conflict and friction, long-lasting intimacy requires more factors. For example, respect and understanding are the cornerstones of an intimate relationship, and when a person feels respected and understood, she or he will feel valued in the relationship. Support is another key element of intimacy, understanding each other's needs and hopes and dreams, and supporting your partner as they struggle with their dreams.

In an intimate relationship, both partners need to communicate clearly and honestly, pay attention to their emotions, and try to understand each other's emotions. It is important to give support and help when the other partner feels bad until both people come out of the situation together.

Although emotional stability is a kind of delay in long-term intimacy, it is far from the only factor that restricts the continuation of the relationship, and intimacy requires a more comprehensive factor and a shared commitment on both sides.

We will experience many relationships in our lives, just like a train that is always on the road, with people getting on and people getting off, and the most beautiful scenery is passed along the way. A relationship from knowing each other to staying together will experience many setbacks and tribulations, only through the wind and rain of feelings, in the end can finally meet the rainbow, feelings for simple people seem very simple, for complex people seem complicated, simple and complex, it depends on how we treat it with our hearts.

1. Share weal and woe.

Life in the world, everyone hopes that they can finally meet their favorite person, can stay with their favorite person to old age must be the happiest thing in the world, when we have passed the initial period of the sweet honey of the relationship, the next arrival can not avoid the trivial things of life and oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, some people have lost their way in the ordinary life, some people are in the subtle life of the feelings continue to be solid, meet the wind and rain may wish to stand up and stride, only through the difficulties and obstacles, feelings can be weal and woe.

2. Know the cold and know the heat.

Relationships are like doing homework, and they need to be reviewed from time to time. If marriage is the grave of love, then I say that since it is the grave, why should I choose it in the first place? Isn't there a sparkle of mutual appreciation in each other?

Don't slander and hurt each other, take a step back, it's often the sea and the sky. It is not easy for you to take care of me, I understand your hard work, and only the feelings of mutual understanding and consideration can go further. A greeting or a gesture can often make others feel warm.

3. Never give up.

We can see that many people are facing a serious illness or a major disaster, and two people in a strong relationship will also part ways, and the reality finally breaks all romance and family affection. In the face of disasters, we might as well calm down and take timely measures to save the situation. No, life is short, and the companionship of the past is the interpretation of feelings.

Sincerity, trust, tolerance, respect. I think that if you do these things, you will be able to do it for a long time. I believe you can understand it better than I do, so I won't explain much.

It seems like just a few simple words, but there are so many things in it. How many people can really do the above points? Of course, if you want to talk about this society for a long time, it is not possible to talk about it without financial support, which is a very real problem.

You can have no money when you fall in love, but in the long run, if you get married, you can't have money.

In a relationship, we need to get along harmoniously and understand each other, so that the relationship can be better maintained and the relationship can blossom and bear fruit.