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Dear Friend:
Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life
What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.
Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.
Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.
You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!
I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.
So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?
For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.
Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?
So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!
In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of joy in life, but your tired body does not want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!
Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.
There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^
So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.
Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!
May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)
I hope to encourage you together!
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All thoughts are in the heart, and the key is to look at yourself.
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If you want to release your suppressed emotions, you need to learn to reduce your work pressure and avoid excessive work pressure affecting your mood. You can also talk to friends and family more, so that you can also share the anxiety in your worries. You can also participate in some sports activities after work, which can be smooth and tolerant to exercise and release your suppressed emotions.
Usually listen to the light **, you can also relax yourself, and the mood becomes happy.
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It takes some methods and techniques to relax your mind, and here are some ways that may work for you:
1.Deep Breathing: Take a few minutes to take a deep breath and meditate to calm you down and clear your mind.
2.Stay away from electronic devices: Put your phone, computer, and other electronic devices aside, close your eyes, and focus only on yourself without distractions.
3.Meditation: Do a simple meditation, sit down, relax your body, and focus on your breath or a certain sound.
5.Chat with friends: Hang out with friends for a while and add comfort to yourself with the joy of others.
6.Sports: You can go to play ball, swim, swing, ride, etc., and let yourself free your mind with physical activity.
7.Reading: Find a book that is intriguing to read. It allows you to forget about real life for a while and feel the emotions of the characters, and relax your mood.
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In real life, pressure from work or family, people will always feel anxious and irritable, for how to relax and solve the pressure of life must have a practical way, the following provides several practical ways to relieve stress.
1.Blowing: Take a deep breath to soften the emotional response that is about to erupt, you just inhale through your nose, slowly flow through your abdomen, then to your ribs, and slowly exhale these breaths through your nose, and gently say relax, just a few seconds of movement and you can be refreshed.
2.Relax your muscles:
In a three-minute period, try the following movements to relax your muscles.
1) Sit down and close your eyes.
2) Inhale, about six seconds of continuous inhalation, on the one hand tightening your muscles as much as possible (3) exhale your inhaled air with a hissing sound to allow the body to relax, and then breathe rhythmically for twenty seconds.
4) Repeat two more times.
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Talking to the unconscious is a way to communicate with one's own heart and to encourage oneself and ask oneself why I am overeating.
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Everyone's approach is different, you see what you like to do the most, just do it, don't think about what to study, what to work, what to rest, just idealism.
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Go on a trip or go to an amusement park to reminisce about your childhood.
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Sleep....And then there's looking up at the sky on a sunny day!
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1. Hug others. Hugging is a great way to do it, and as long as others don't mind, it can really bring you relaxation.
2. Interval breaks. Head to the rooftop for lunch, or a casual conversation. You can take a break from work and do whatever you like to relieve stress.
3. Hot shower. This relaxes the muscles and helps to get rid of excessive stress. Some people have found that alternating hot and cold showers are more effective.
4. Observe your own thoughts. A lot of stress is subconscious, and you can make yourself feel relaxed by solving problems. If you do it regularly, it will become your favorite relaxation technique.
5. Try laughing. Your own experience proves that laughter helps you relax, right? Hang out with people who like to joke around, or find something funny.
6. Use relaxation**. Keep some of your favorite CDs in the office or car and use them when you need them.
7. Leave the room for a while. This is the best way to do this if staying in the room triggers stress. Why not get outside and get some fresh air?
8. Take a deep breath. Try to do five sets of deep breaths through your nose. Close your eyes and only pay attention to your breathing. This will be like a mini-meditation practice and is the most effective technique for quick relaxation.
9. Drink some chamomile tea. This tea has a calming effect on the nerves, in addition, caffeine-free hot tea also has a relaxing effect.
10. Walk for a while. Walking is one of the best relaxation techniques, and you can set aside at least 10 minutes a day to walk. When possible, choose a comfortable place.
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