In the hit drama Thirty Only , which one makes you feel the most empathetic?

The recent hit "Thirty Only" has made many viewers feel the same way, and there are more and more discussions about this drama, and related topics are constantly on the hot search. There are three episodes that I feel the most empathy with, one is that Gu Jia is doing it to others for her son, the second is that Wang Manni worked hard in Shanghai for eight years and finally returned to her hometown, and the third is that Gu Jia continues to sell tea in major shopping malls for the sake of tea factories.

Gu Jia did it with others for her son, Gu Jia offended some parents because she opposed letting children with epilepsy drop out of school, and one parent locked Gu Jia's son Xu Ziyan in the room on the grounds of inviting the children to the house as guests, and let Xu Ziyan cry and was indifferent. After Gu Jia arrived, she first comforted her son, and then put down her bag and beat the parents. This episode is enjoyable to watch, and it also makes people see the helplessness of a woman becoming a mother.

It is said that "motherhood is rigid", if it is not for the sake of the child, which mother would want to become a "shrew" who fights with others?

Wang Manni worked hard in Shanghai for eight years but still returned to her hometown Wang Manni worked hard in Shanghai for eight years and finally became a sales supervisor, but after resigning from a setback in her feelings, she found that she couldn't stay in Shanghai anymore, so she could only leave Shanghai with regrets and return to her hometown. In reality, there are many Shanghai drifters and North drifters, who were ambitious when they first arrived in the big city, but they were slowly worn out of their temperament, and sadly found that the city did not belong to them, so they could only leave sadly.

Gu Jia continued to sell tea in major shopping malls for the sake of the tea factory, Gu Jia took down a tea factory from Mrs. Li, but she didn't expect this to be an unqualified tea factory, and Gu Jia decided to make the tea factory for the sake of the villagers. Gu Jia could only keep looking for investment for the sake of empty mountain tea sales, but he was turned away again and again; After that, he went to cooperate with major shopping malls, but with little success, Gu Jia could only drink coffee and eat sandwiches outside to fill his stomach. It's like when we constantly negotiate with others for work, only to be rejected again and again.

is the divorce between Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu, which reminds me of my past with my ex-husband, and I feel very deeply in my heart.

The TV series "Thirty Only" reflects a lot of truths, such as: 1. In fact, age is just a number for women, no matter what age a woman is, she can live the life she wants by working hard to adjust herself. Don't be anxious and afraid, ** make you feel uncomfortable, please remove it from your circle of life.

2. No one can be your backer, and you may feel that you can't see any future, but you have no other way but to work hard. Life is already like this, all you can do is work hard and do your best to obey the destiny of God. 3. You have to make yourself strong so that you can protect yourself.

Let those who bully you receive the punishment they deserve, and only then can you protect yourself.

With the broadcast of the series, these issues related to the series also frequently appeared in the discussions of netizens. The reason why this drama was able to become popular with limited publicity before the broadcast may be precisely because of its detailed portrayal of urban people. It's empathetic, and it's worth it to empty your family and "trench"?

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A: First of all, what exactly is everyone looking at? Sweet pet drama?

Family ethics drama? Cool drama? Some people are in a coma for Zhong Xiaoyang and Zhong Xiaoqin's sweet love, some people are so angry with the bad boy group that they soar countless "qswl" every day, and the social animal calls the real "screenwriter, please remove my family's monitoring" after reading it, in fact, everyone's life is different, the angle of seeing is different, and the things to pay attention to are also different.

Just as there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people.

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Probably in the eyes of a fitness trainer:

What I see is the fitness career I love, and in order to maintain my figure, I get up early every day to run and exercise.

Thirty is only - in the eyes of fitness trainers.

Thirty only - get up every morning and go for a morning run.

Thirty only - evening exercise.

Probably in the eyes of parents:

I saw that my child was almost 30 years old and not married. Every day, I worry about the lifelong happiness of my children, I run around for my children's education when I am young, and I go on blind dates for my children's marriage when I am older. It can be said that he is 100 years old and 99 years old!

Thirty only - in my mother's eyes.

Thirty only - the mother helped the blind date to tie the rope.

Thirty only - blind date.

Probably in my eyes :

At the age of twenty-four, I was thinking about what life I would be like when I was thirty years old.

Whether you are still doing your current job in your hometown, whether you have found a job you like, or whether you are wandering in **, lonely, or you can have someone you like to accompany you.

None of this is known.

Twenty is not confused, thirty is only. In fact, it is a kind of attitude towards life, while being confused, while moving forward.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.

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I think the unreasonable plot in "Thirty Only" is that Gu Jia bought a ticket for Lin Youyou to send her away, I think it's too generous, is there really a person like Gu Jia in daily life, there should be no.

There are a lot of unreasonable places, but there is one of the most unreasonable places. It is Gu Jia, the "perfect woman" here. Both businesses are high, but I don't know that my husband is not the boss's material? Instead of forcing him to do a company, his husband is an artist, not a businessman.

Rich people who are really well-cultivated and cultured should not do things so high-profile to show off, mainly because they live a very low-key life. The greater the achievement, the more low-key it is, and not the unlikable like the nouveau riche.

Gu Jia is both upright and ungrateful.

Gu Jia entered the circle of wives to make money, just to take advantage of those wives. She looked down on these wives from the bottom of her heart, including Mrs. Wang, who helped her a lot.

When she broke with the wives circle, she said that they were all people who lived on their husbands, and ridiculed them for their own inability to rely on others. But has Gu Jia forgotten that she still relies on these women who live on men.

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The first unreasonable is that Gu Jia was deceived, she is a person with a lot of capital and rich ideas, but she doesn't know that Mrs. Li's tea factory is actually a trap, and the second unreasonable is the finale, Gu Jia, everything she did before was to let her son enter a better school, but in the end she decided to seclusion the child in the tea garden

1. On the first day of confinement, I suddenly felt that Gu Jia was dead, and it was Xu Ziyan's mother who survived.

After having a child, you will focus on everything about your child, and sometimes you will forget yourself, your body is out of shape, and you don't have a good job. Mothers should know how to invest in themselves – keep up with the times, keep improving, improve themselves and make themselves good, and set an example for their children.

2. People are used to shortcuts, and there will always be a day when they fall hard.

When Gu Jia entered the wife's circle, Mrs. Li wanted to ** the tea factory, but Gu Jia didn't go to the field at all, didn't check the financial statements, and took down the tea factory, and the result was a big fall.

The sky will not fall a big pie in vain, whoever picks up is unlucky, we should walk step by step in a down-to-earth manner, do not be impatient or seek shortcuts, take our time, and do things to the extreme, we will reap the joy of fruit.

3. No matter what situation a woman is in, she should have the right to dream.

may reach the age of 30, many women have many roles, mother, wife, daughter, daughter-in-law, as the saying goes, people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles, no matter how old we are, we should learn to dress up and be generous; It is also important to maintain independence of mind and spirit, and not to give up on pursuing your dreams.

4. There must be a departure at the end of the journey, I can't see where I'm going now?

Wang Manni is like every fighter in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou in reality, sometimes she is running for life, and in the end she has no place for herself, and finally she is forced to return to her hometown.

We can continue to accumulate, set small goals first, and stick to them, and we will slowly change from quantitative to qualitative. I believe that there will be a small world of our own in the struggling city.

5. The family is like a safe haven, who wants to be a safe haven?

Two people get married in order to accompany each other and solve things together, not just one person, and they should also communicate more face-to-face, like the big reason for Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin's divorce in the play is that they can't express and don't communicate.

Thirty years old is not as free and wanton as twenty years old.

There is no forty-year-old cloud light breeze.

What a thirty-year-old wants is a better life.

It's a better life.

After becoming a mother, your biggest feeling is aggrieved, aggrieved in the title of calling a mother, what kind of figure is out of shape, mood has become bad, these are not the worst, on the first day of confinement, I suddenly felt that Gu Jia was dead, and it was Xu Ziyan's mother who survived.

Not all efforts will be successful, many things are counterproductive and I empathize with the most, this sentence is very realistic and profound, and it is also a true portrayal of many things.

is Zhong Xiaoqin's sentence "Who wants to avoid the wind and who will be the port"?It really makes me feel empathetic, and I think this sentence makes a lot of sense.

Zhong Xiaoqin's sentence when she confessed the divorce to her parents:We got married for you, and now we divorce for ourselves. I want to live my life no longer for whom!

Zhong Xiaoqin has always been weak and bullied, and finally hardened.

Although I am not married, I have a friend who has a very similar experience to Zhong Xiaoqin. She got married at an early age and then went through a divorce. Since graduation, her parents have urged her to get married on a blind date, and it seems that as long as she doesn't get married, her existence is a shame for the family.

But she was only 23 years old at the time, and it was really hard for us as friends to understand why. Friends said that they are a small place there, and almost all girls are married before the age of 20, and it is rare to drag it to her age.

At the beginning, she fought for herself, but after two years of blind date, she never met what she liked. The parents were anxious again, because there were several quarrels with the parents about this matter. Finally, one day she got tired of arguing and couldn't fight her parents, so she married a boy whose parents thought it was "very good".

After getting married, I found out that this man didn't have a serious job, he wasn't doing anything every day, he owed more than 100,000 yuan on his credit card before he got married, and he also had a bad habit of smoking and drinking, which she didn't know before she got married, and her parents didn't know about it.

Originally, more than 100,000 credit cards were not too big to payBut the two have been in marriage for 5 years, and they can't come together after all. The friend who has been married for 5 years has not received anything, and his husband has not even been able to repay the credit card of more than 100,000 yuan.

In the middle, like Zhong Xiaoqin, he also had a miscarriage. After the child was gone, my friend also figured it out and divorced decisively. The two have no children, no assets, and nothing to distribute. For this reason, she had a big quarrel with her parents and almost broke up with the family.

Now she is alone in the city, and she hardly goes home except for the Chinese New Year, and she says that it is also bad to go home to face her parents. But when she got married, it was really because her parents urged her to compromise, which became the thing she regretted the most in her life. Now that she is divorced, she can finally be herself and live the life she wants.

Thirty is just that, the lines are too heart-wrenching, there are too many empathies in this drama, are you experiencing a thirty-year-old city drift? One person and one city, feeling the difficulty of life and the pressure of work!

Thirty Only", Gu Jia in it, was the most impressed by me, she got married and had children at the right time, and accompanied her husband to start a business and work hard. She gives people the impression that she is capable, atmospheric, and can handle everything very well. She lives like the kind of person that many people envy, and she takes care of her family and career.

It's really a hall and a kitchen.

Gu Jia's life is a true portrayal of many people, a woman should take care of her children and take care of her family when she gets married, if it helps her career, it is undeniable that you are very capable. But if you want to support you in your career, they can't. A woman can help a man, but once he feels oppressed, the marriage will go wrong.

After hearing that the elevator on the floor was out of power, I immediately thought of the information given by my best friend Zhong Xiaoqin: Mrs. Wang has to go out at two o'clock in the afternoon every Friday to participate in the afternoon tea of Mrs. Fu. So she reacted quickly, quickly changed into the clothes she wore when she worked at home, and climbed up to the 21st floor in slippers.

I found that Mrs. Wang had not yet gone out and was waiting at the staircase, and when she heard the sound, she ran on the spot and pretended to be like she had just gone upstairs. Under the pretext of taking back the cake plate that fell last time, he talked to Mrs. Wang smoothly, and then lent his slippers to Mrs. Wang in the corridor to wear.

Wang Manni has back pain due to hard work and no time to drink water, she works hard in Shanghai far away from her hometown, and no one will know if she falls ill when she rents a house, but fortunately, the queen mother was talking to her at the time and knew her address, otherwise Wang Manni really died of illness in the rental house and no one knew! And Wang Manni is also very strongIn the face of her mother's concern, she also has back pain and is half dead, and she has to tell her mother that it is okay, and not let her parents at home worry about herself, which may also be a sign of growing up!

Wang Manni, who was lying in the hospital hanging bottles, was very tired, but her parents in her hometown were even more worried about her body, and held the clock all night to calculate how much time it would take for her daughter to hang a bottle of medicine and worry about her daughter's medicine running into the air, but Wang Manni showed a little impatience with her mother's concern, she said that an important sign of a person's growth is to say everything that sounds good to outsiders, and to say those who are hurtful or silent are to those closest to them.