The right way to save love, how to save love correctly?

First, have the ability to discern whether the other party has really broken up with you or fake? Before redeeming, you must find out what the other party is thinking now, an attitude towards this relationship, whether the other party really wants to end this relationship, or just wants to test yourself and deliberately break up.

Only after figuring out this, can we take specific measures to redeem it, and prescribe the right medicine for the other party's careful thinking. And to find out whether the other party is a real breakup or a fake breakup, you can judge it from many aspects.

If the other party says that they will break up with you, but they still talk to you and do not tell their friends and family about the breakup, then this process is actually a process of redemption for themselves, and it is also a process of taking the initiative to admit their mistakes and apologize to the other party.

On the contrary, if the other party clearly tells you to break up, block everything about you, and make it clear to your family and friends that you have broken up. Then at this time, there is a certain degree of difficulty in retrieving, it is no longer a matter of two people, when it comes to retrieving, you need to start from each other's relatives and friends, and mobilize the power of relatives and friends to help yourself recover, of course, at this time, it will also test your usual social and behavioral behavior.

Second, find the reason for the breakup and build emotional trust. Nowadays, whether it is a sense of security or a sense of belonging, it is based on a certain degree of trust, and many people break up because of insecurity. At this time, you must figure out the reason why the other party broke up with you, and see if it was because of your own problems or other problems.

If it is your own problem, whether you don't care enough about the other person, or you are not self-motivated, always disappointing the other party, etc., you should start from a specific point to find the root of the problem.

If the other party lacks a sense of security, then accompany and communicate more, and if the other party is disappointed in himself, then make himself self-motivated enough to give the other party new hope.

Of course, in this process, it is very important to suggest emotional trust, whether it is to accompany or make yourself self-motivated, it is to establish mutual trust, only if the other party trusts himself enough, he will want to reconcile with himself, and he will be determined to manage this relationship.

Third, find new ways to communicate and establish effective emotional communication. After all, the kind of love at first sight in love life is a minority, and most of the time it is necessary to get along and run in, and in this process, communication is very important.

Correct communication will make the other party feel very comfortable, and it will also make the relationship warm up in the process of communication. Especially when dealing with things, you can enhance your personal charm, tell your personal opinions through effective communication, let the other party better understand yourself, and redefine the relationship.

Therefore, after a breakup, if you want to recover, it is important to find a suitable time to have a deep communication with the other party, so that the relationship can make the other party change their minds about you in this heart-to-heart communication.

Xiaosheng: The correct posture of redemption.

1. You must first understand that what hurts is not love. 2. Don't regret it; Be deeply grateful for the happy memories that your partner has given you.

How to get it right? This is to redeem the ex who was hurt by you.

It takes time and experience to recover a relationship and get through a friendship period. Here are some suggestions:

The bottleneck period of recovering the relationship.

1.Give the other person a certain amount of time and space: During the relationship bottleneck period, both parties need time and space to think and reflect, and do not force the other person to respond or communicate too much.

Respect each other's needs and feelings, and give both parties some time and space to think about how to solve the problem.

2.Question: While giving each other time, both parties can communicate in a peaceful atmosphere, understand each other's thoughts and attitudes, find the problem, and grasp each other's expectations and needs. Establish a good communication mechanism to avoid estrangement and misunderstanding.

3.Lack of supplemental communication: Some issues may be caused by previous miscommunication, and both parties can supplement and expand on the previous communication to allow the other party to understand themselves better.

4.Experience new things: Try to do something new and experience a new life and environment, which is beneficial for you to relax better and indirectly alleviate the bottleneck phase.

Dealing with falling into a friendship period.

1.Redefine the relationship: If you feel like you're stuck in a friendship, you can redefine the relationship with the other person, be clear about your expectations and thoughts, and see if you have done something serious or if the other person has feelings for you.

2.Keep your distance: Keep your distance appropriately and give yourself more time and space to reflect and adjust your mindset. Excessive contact may mask the original emotion, making you more obsessed and entangled, and sinking into a deeper friendship zone.

3.Recognize the direction of life and emotions: face your life and emotional direction seriously, find the corresponding path and method, and don't blindly hold on to a glimmer of hope and let yourself be exhausted.

4.Try to reach out to new people: Don't just immerse yourself in past relationships, try to get in touch with new people and new things, slowly dust and open your heart to find a new life that belongs to you.

In conclusion, dealing with the period of redemption and friendship requires more time and patience, and at the same time, it requires different coping strategies depending on the situation. Taking a correct view of your life and the direction of your emotions, and attaching importance to communication can help you adjust your emotions, get out of the predicament, and start anew.