How will you look at the people and things around you with an open mind now?

An open mind = acceptance of oneself + acceptance of external things.

1.Accepting external things means being willing and interested to contact and understand things that you are not familiar with, which reflects curiosity and desire for knowledge. Openness as understood by ordinary people may mean being able to accept things from the outside world, but I think this requires "accepting yourself" as a prerequisite.

2.To accept oneself is to acknowledge the limitations of one's own abilities, as well as the limitations of one's own perception of oneself or things. The first half of the sentence is relatively easy to understand, and when you encounter something or a field that you don't understand, in general, it's good to admit that you don't understand it in your heart.

If you don't know how to pretend to understand, or even feel good about yourself, feel that you understand very well, and are experts in this area, then you really can't get along with yourself, and you won't be willing to learn more and understand more, which is not good for growth. The second half of the sentence needs to be well understood. When we are faced with something that we are not familiar with, we generally have some opinions about this thing or ourselves, that is, a preconception.

Overwhelmingly, this preconception has limitations: either it is completely unreasonable; Or, while reasonable, it's also quite one-sided. When you realize and admit that your own views are likely to be wrong, then you will not be led by your own opinions, but are willing to learn and learn more, and in the process, you will revise and improve your own views, and gain personal progress and growth.

Actually, the answer is in your heart, isn't it?

If someone makes me angry.

I'll smile at him.

I know if I'm angry.

It can only make this matter worsen rapidly.

Treat the people and things around us, we must treat it with a normal mentality! In the same world, the same people, how you look at yourself should be how you look at the people and things around you!

When a person reaches a certain age, he will gradually learn to stay away from those people and things that affect his mood, and begin to learn to be kind to himself, a peaceful and warm life, a vast sea of people, and there will always be appreciative eyes.

There will always be someone who is close to you in the posture of sending charcoal in the snow, the biggest capital of life, a good attitude, only when the heart is bright, can you live happily!

Therefore, we must treat the people and things around us with a good attitude and a bright attitude!

If you care too much about the people around you, you can easily lose yourself.

People are born to do things according to their own principles. Build on it and try not to regret it. Treat people with sincerity; For those who don't like it, you don't need to care, you shouldn't have hatred, and you don't affect your emotions because of the behavior of others.

Just go with the flow, and you don't have to look at something or someone, because society is very realistic, and you can see it through at a glance.

Life is beautiful, sincere and motivated.

In life, we must be "externalized and internalized", and the so-called "externalization" is to take the initiative to adapt to society, rather than dreaming of making society adapt to you. This is externalization, adapting to the time, following the objective laws, adapting to the environment and adapting to society.

And "inwardness" means to stick to your heart, that is, not to lose your heart in a troubled society. Many people in modern times can achieve "externalization" in the narrow sense, but they are "internalized" because of the "externalization" in the narrow sense, and the "externalization" in the narrow sense causes them to lose their hearts, which leads them to only "money" and "fame and fortune". And there are very few people who can not lose their "original heart", and it is very difficult to be great.

Only those who can truly achieve "externalization and inversion" are people who truly understand life.

Find out the reason why you don't like it, you don't have to like it, but you don't hate it either, do your part well, you hate to focus on others, and others again.

How can Genus like you? It's mutual, so if you really don't like it, you don't have to force yourself to like it, but don't hate it, treat it with a peaceful mind, I've had such a time, and now it's time for me to think it through, so, the popularity was very bad before, and now it's a little better than before.

To put it bluntly, you are unhappy yourself, you only look at the bad aspects of the circumference, what is this today.

How many bribes did the bureau chief take, how much money did he covet, and how rich and old man married a girl in his 20s, etc. Although the examples listed may not be the cause of your upset, in short, you don't want to be happy, and happy people don't care about troublesome things that don't go their way all day long. I think if you want to be happy, don't care about everything, to be honest, sometimes people with bigger hearts live better, maybe work, friends, or love are not going well, this is normal, first of all, you need to mediate with yourself, be open, talk more, travel, be very good to you, in short, you must make yourself happy.

If you are in a good mood, you will not be decadent when you encounter difficulties. They all said that there were so many, and the lord of the tower adopted them, or asked me.

Hello. This is because you are in an anxious mood, so it is recommended that you go to a different environment and go out to breathe. In addition, you can also find a psychological mentor to enlighten you, which may ease your anxiety.

Everyone is living well, and the world is turning well. It must be your own problem. Adjust yourself, if you really can't change places, you're in the wrong place.

If you don't have the ability to change the environment, you have to change yourself to adapt to the environment.

At this stage, do a good job, study, or take a few days off to play and divert your attention.

Adjust your mentality to face it, if you really can't do it, you can go out for a walk first, and it's good to walk around.

Let's go out and travel, and the mood will be much better.

Try to accept the things that aren't good.

Escape is inescapable, put the right mentality, and face people and things peacefully.

The premise of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is to be a cocoon and bind itself.

Uh, sort of. But people like you generally have an easy life, don't care about what others say. Just be happy.

We are the same character, but I understand now, people who understand you don't need to explain or speak, he will understand you! No matter what you do, you will always be wrong in his heart if you don't understand you! Therefore, friends should be made with their hearts, and those who are not made with their hearts can only be regarded as strangers, so their words do not have to be taken to heart.

That's the kind of character I am. It's okay to laugh at others. Don't be too complacent with yourself. Or take yourself seriously.

No, it's just that they don't understand you.

No matter what they say, just be comfortable with yourself

I'm also alas, there's no need to get angry, hurt yourself, alas, look at how good it is.