The situation after my girlfriend broke up with me, please help, what should I do, can I still recov

Looks, you're really ignoring her.

Don't try to redeem it yet, you should ask yourself if you really know her. Her height, weight, interests, hobbies, ideals, relatives, friends, work and rest time, special habits, special days, in short, do you really know all aspects of her?

If your impression of her is vague, how do you redeem it, and what do you want to redeem?

I don't think it's that you don't care about her, it's that you ignore her at all.

。It's been almost two years, and even a wooden man will open his mind. Or is she dispensable to you?

Do you really like her, (does her "upside down" make you feel cheap?) ）。Do you really, really like her (and what are you willing to give for her?) ）。

If you don't love her, I think it will be beneficial for both parties for you to break up early, (after all, if you drag on like this, you can't be together in the end, wasting your youth). Ambiguous hurts, after all, our youth is limited, and it is impossible to be ambiguous all the time. When it is no longer ambiguous, that time also passes with ambiguity.

After a breakup, they are still friends, but they are still girlfriends. After breaking up, they still eat and sleep together, is that different from not breaking up?

It's been two years, and you really don't know anything about her thoughts? If you don't love her, let it go sooner. (I think that if one day, you do break up, she will cry to death, and you will not feel good then.) ）

1. Freeze properly after a breakup.

Freezing, in fact, is also the best time for yourself to calmly reflect on the mistakes you have made during your relationship, such as whether you did not give a corresponding reaction when the other party needed you, but counted others? Is there any forced transformation of the other party? Do you chatter on the other side when the other person needs to be quiet?

Many times everyone doesn't know the various mistakes they have made, but they are silently written down by the other party's heart, and when their patience reaches a certain critical point, they are about to break up, and the result is a quarrel and then a breakup. Think about it carefully first, if there are all kinds of mistakes, don't be in a hurry to entangle the other party, if you don't do it, you will end up with a resentful woman.

2. Change yourself during the freezing period.

Elevate your appearance. External change is the fastest and most effective way to change your negative image in his mind, many times, whether in the workplace or in love, your external image is very important, so the effect that can be achieved by changing the appearance should not be underestimated. Elevate yourself within.

In emotion, inner and outer ascension are equally important. A person's love for another person often begins with appearance, loyal to character, only by steadily improving their own inside, can your charm endure.

High demand cannot be shown in the message. In life, when many people get their ex-girlfriends back, they often tell themselves that they can't do without her, "I love you", "I can't do without you" and other statements, and even force the other party to return to you by hurting themselves. But such a high-demand performance will only increase the pressure on the other party, the contradiction point when you break up is higher, you show high-demand, low-value behavior, often make the other party feel that you are also low-value, so if you want to grasp the initiative of love, you had better start with a non-demand contact, for example, say "recently discovered a very interesting restaurant" and the like, arouse the other party's interest, but will not expose their own sense of need, so that the other party often wants to reply.

Whether you should redeem your girlfriend if you break up with him mainly depends on how deep your love for him is.

If you have an average love for him, then I don't think there is any need to save the passers-by in your life, and there are many reasons why you have to keep everyone who walks by you.

If you love him very deeply, then of course you have to do your best to redeem it, even if you can't get it back, at least you have worked hard, and when you look back on this past in the future, even if you have regrets, it will not be so serious.

According to your description, it can be seen that you have a lot of affection for your girlfriend. I suggest you redeem it. If you want to redeem it, you have to make your girlfriend happy through words. You should also let your girlfriend see your sincerity through practical actions.

It's not easy for two people to be together, and it is recommended that you go and redeem her.

You need to reflect on what the reason for the breakup between you is, and see if you have done something wrong or made your girlfriend sad.

Only when two people make changes can they truly get back together.

If you have broken up with your girlfriend and want to get it back, you can try to do something she likes, such as buying a bag she likes, gifts, celebrating her birthday, picking her up and taking her to and from work, and using some very heartwarming actions to warm him.

You and your girlfriend have broken up, if you like her very much now and want to get back together with her, you should work hard, if you don't have any feelings for her, it's not that kind of unforgettable love, there is no need to redeem it.

Now that you've broken up, do you think it's still necessary to make amends?

There are two situations of breaking up, one is the breakup proposed by the woman, and the other is the breakup proposed by you, if the breakup proposed by the woman, it means that the woman believes that there is an insurmountable gap between the two of you, so she proposes to break up. What you're proposing is that you don't think the relationship can go on any longer.

Therefore, no matter who proposed the breakup, since it is broken, there is no need to redeem it.

No, since they have broken up, it means that the two people are not suitable, and there is no need to continue.

If you still like each other very much, you should redeem it, because it is not easy for two people to be together, and you should cherish your feelings.

If there is no relationship between you anymore and the fate is over, then I don't think there is any need to redeem it. If it's impulsive, then you can give it a try.

Then it depends on whether your child likes your girlfriend or not? If you are still thinking about him and still loving him, you should work hard to save this relationship, and it is recommended that you try to communicate with your girlfriend first to see if he is still single? If so, pursue her hard.

Whether or not to keep a girlfriend who has broken up with you depends on yourself.

has already broken up with his girlfriend, so there is no need to redeem him, after all, the fate between you has ended, so you will choose to break up, and it will not make any sense to redeem it.

In fact, you must find the reason for such a problem first, if the fault is yourself, and you love that woman, I think it is still necessary to redeem it, on the contrary, let her go.

You broke up with your girlfriend, and if the relationship between the two of you hasn't faded, then I think it's necessary for you to talk to him and try to get him back.

I don't think it should be reversed, after all, the two have broken up, and I think it will be very embarrassing to redeem it, and there must be an estrangement between the two people.

Hello, if you still have her in your heart, you can't let go of her, and you are willing to change all kinds of bad things before, then you should save her.

In your case, you first need to understand what caused you. Then you can know the cause to prescribe the right medicine.

I think if you still have love for her and don't want to lose her, then you should get her back.