What are the effects of comparison psychology on children?

What are the disadvantages of the psychology of comparison?

Among today's children, it is not uncommon to compare with each other. A new piece of clothing, a new toy, will cause some children to compare with each other, and some children will go to the parents to blackmail their parents to buy what other children have but they do not have. The prevalence of the trend of comparison should arouse the attention of our preschool education workers and parents.

If it is not guided in time, it will breed harmful psychology, and it will also cause mutual jealousy, disunity, and even damage to the interests of others. For example, there was a girl in my class who deliberately sprinkled food on other people's bodies and soiled their dresses. After understanding, it turned out that she was always the most beautiful in the class, so she was often appreciated by other children, and over time, she had a sense of superiority.

And today, another child's new dress is beautiful, which makes her mentally unbalanced and takes the action above. There is also a boy who quietly damages or secretly hides other people's toys when he finds them newer and more fun than his own. It can be seen that this abnormal behavior caused by the climbing service ratio has caused serious harm.

In fact, behind the comparison, there is Qingchen's child's strong psychology at work, which contains the child's keen observation and attention to external things, from these aspects, this kind of comparison out of the sense of competition is normal and worthy of protection. The key here is how to tell your child what and how to compare himself to others. We should let children know who they are better at, have good morals and habits, make rapid progress in learning, and have ideals and ambitions.

At the same time, we should choose some works such as diligence and thrift to educate children, and guide them to use waste items to make their own toys, so that they can have a variety of items "hard-won" personal experience, so as to lay a good foundation for children to have a sound personality. Of course, it takes some effort to educate and enlighten children who are accustomed to comparing behaviors, and it requires the joint efforts of preschool educators and parents.

Summary. The phenomenon of comparison psychology in children is very harmful, 1. The original normal life values will be distorted. People will become more and more dissatisfied, after seeing others have something new, they will also want, the most afraid is that adults have a comparison psychology, and affect their children, resulting in children also have a comparison psychology, you must know that the habit of dyeing into the psychology of comparison since childhood, it is difficult to change when you grow up, and it will affect a lifetime.

2. Develop the habit of comparing everything Comparing psychology is also divided into mild symptoms and severe symptoms, light symptoms are the initial comparison, you may just want to compare because others have a new school bag, a new stationery box, but if the comparison psychology at this time is not stopped in time, you will develop the habit of loving comparison, that is, the heavy symptoms of comparison psychology, and later because of all kinds of small things, big things you will want to compare, this is what people often say blind comparison, develop the habit of loving everything will make people live very hard.

The phenomenon of comparison psychology in children is very harmful, 1. The original normal life values will be distorted. People will become more and more dissatisfied, after seeing others have something new, they will also want, the most afraid is that adults have a comparison psychology, and affect their children, resulting in children also have a comparison psychology, you must know that since childhood, it is very rough and difficult to change, and it will affect a lifetime. 2. Develop the habit of loving to compare with everything The psychology of comparison is also divided into mild symptoms and severe symptoms, and the mild symptoms are the initial comparison, you may just want to compare because others have a new schoolbag and a new stationery box, but if the comparison psychology at this time is not stopped in time, you will develop the habit of loving comparison, that is, the heavy symptoms of comparison psychology, and later because of all kinds of small things, big things you will want to compare, this is what people often say that Yan Li's blind comparison, develop the habit of loving everything will make people live very hard.

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Fellow, as a parent, you should pay more attention and care more about the details of your child's growth.

Introduction: When the child is young, parents should not compare the child with others, the child will have the psychology of comparison. Parents set a good example for their children, and if their children do something wrong, parents should let their children be punished, and if the children are not punished, the children's behavior will not be constrained.

Parents should lead by example in order to have a good impact on their children, and today I will tell you about the adverse effects of children's comparison psychology?

Children's education is closely related to parents, if parents can not play a good role in children, children's vanity is stronger, and if children have bad habits in life, it will affect children's lives. Parents should learn to observe their children's behavior, if the bridge child has the psychology of comparison, parents should timely educate the child not to let the child have vanity, if the child has vanity, in the society will also suffer from the dislike of others. Parents should be ahead of their children and help them find their shortcomings.

If parents find that their children have the psychology of comparison, they should educate their children in time, otherwise the children will be isolated by others. When the child is young, parents must not compare the child with others, so it is easy for the child to have the psychology of comparison, parents should consider the actual situation of the child, if the child grows up this habit can not be changed, the child will have some bad influence. Children with a sense of comparison will not consider other people's opinions at all, so it is easy to be isolated by others, and parents should educate their children to change the habit of talking like this.

If a child's comparison is particularly serious, there will be a certain dependence on the parents, parents should tell the child that this situation is not right, so that the child understands what kind of impact there will be after the comparison. Parents should not spoil their children too much, do not want their children to want what their parents will hold and shout what to buy, if the children are blindly satisfied, the children can not understand the role of money. Don't let your child live under overprotection, the child will have an unhealthy psychology.

It will make the child fall in love with the situation of friendship and glory, there is no way to satisfy the child, it will make the child rebellious, it will also affect the child's academic performance, it will make the child inferior, or make the child become self-righteous.

Let the child become very vain, let the child not have a correct values, may do some illegal behavior, will make the child become very crazy, and will also make the child very inferior.

It will make the child regret some bad psychology, the child can not be fair to some Bi buried people, the child has always wanted to get ahead, the child slips Kaizi's mind is more extreme, and the child just wants to compare.

The heart of the child Xianchang or the child will change a lot, the child's thinking will also change a lot, the values and outlook on life will change a lot, they will go in the wrong direction, the child will also have a lot of pressure, and the brother will become not like himself.

The psychology of comparison will affect the child's three views and make the child unable to grow up healthily. Every child will have vanity in the process of growing up, this is human nature, and it is also an unavoidable phenomenon. Children are not like adults who can hide all their thoughts, and when children do not show vanity, they will show comparison.

And children also have competitiveness, which is a kind of nature, and many people will change their practices because of competitiveness.

There are also some parents who set some bad examples for their children in daily life, such as parents will tell others how their children are and what their family conditions are when they meet other friends. At this time, the child will learn all the behaviors of the parents and then start to imitate the child. While they have a strong desire to compare, they like to compare a lot of things.

The main reason is because children's hearts are relatively empty, and they are not satisfied with the status quo, as long as they see that others are better than their own lives, they want to get a better life than others. If children find that they are not as good as others, then they will feel inferior. He Fengji thinks that others look down on him, and finally leads to an inferiority complex that becomes more and more serious.

Moreover, many children have three views slowly formed when they are young, and without correct guidance, the distortion of their three views will become more and more serious.

If the child's desire to compare is getting stronger and stronger, then they will be very serious about money. If parents do not channel their children with such thoughts in time, then the children will grow up to be unscrupulous people for money. Moreover, children will only focus on money after encountering things, and their outlook on life will slowly become distorted.

After this wrong outlook on life appears, there will be many negative effects on the child's development. They do things without thinking about the consequences, spend money without being principled and extravagant, and they don't save money.

The child's heart will be very infiltrated and vain, such as shouting spring will delay the child's learning, the child will also put more energy on the matter of comparison, the child's communication skills will be very poor, can not find like-minded friends, the personality will be very rebellious, and the relationship with the parents will be particularly poor, and there is no good understanding of money.

Affect the child's personality, make the child's three views abnormal, love to compare with others, mean personality, easy to lose temper, and do not pay attention to learning.

The bad effects on children are: inferiority complex, excessive demand, indiscriminate spending, not understanding the hard work of parents, extravagance and waste.