What exactly is love? Like to develop into love?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-05
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that like is love. These two are different.

    Maybe you see someone's heart beating faster, maybe you don't have the courage to look at someone because you blush, maybe you think of someone sometimes—all of these just show that you like that person. I don't know what kind of liking it is, it may develop into love, or it may just feel that this person is very good, and this kind of liking is similar to the longing for a beautiful person.

    But liking and falling in love are not the same after all.

    It's not that liking can't develop into love. But liking doesn't mean love. If you haven't been hurt and don't have your own understanding of love, you won't be able to figure out anything.

    There is no one explanation of love that is completely reasonable and correct for all people. Each person and each person has a different state of mind and different thoughts, and the way of understanding and expressing love is naturally different.

    Like is the premise of love. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you like it, do you love it?

    This statement is fundamentally false. There are many people who have not gone through life experience and think that liking is love, but in the end, although they are still longing to be loved and loved deeply, they have been physically and mentally exhausted and have lost the strength to love.

    If you don't have the slightest bit of possessiveness towards that person, it's not love.

    If you're willing to try something you hate for that person, and try to do something you're not good at — but never wronging yourself — it's love. The reason why I say this is because it is entirely up to you to judge this kind of thing.

    If you ......Either way, it's up to you. That's all I can tell you.

    Everyone has to crawl and scar again and again before they can give up their youth and immaturity. to learn to grow. Learn to love.

    If you love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Like and love is not a level of concept, like is a good feeling, having a good feeling is not necessarily together, but also to see if it is suitable, whether the other party is also interested, in fact, I am only a sophomore, you can add QQ if you are interested 1220880173

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you feel that you don't see each other for a day, it is a manifestation of love from liking!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get used to it, get used to her every move, can't forget her every move, often want to see her, want to get close to him, see her sad heartache, see her happy and happy, if you combine the above symptoms, then congratulations on falling in love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is liking the same as love? Compared with liking, love actually belongs to a higher level of need.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, love at first sight is actually love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The power of time is really powerful, and people will change with time, and the likes and loves at each stage are different.

    Sometimes it's just a certain aspect of a person that is liked and not all of it! When I was young, I liked to live in my imagination! Later, I found out that the existing love is still lonely, because the heart can't resonate!

    So there is nothing to miss in this world, because if you stretch the timeline, you will find that these are not suitable for you! Idol dramas are always idol dramas, and they will break when you touch them in real life! As an ordinary person, when you are still running for life, you will understand what the teacher said when you were a student, how reasonable it is for people to solve material problems before they can talk about spirituality!

    After the age of 27, the emotional outlook is to be more pragmatic, rather than living in imagination!

    Likes and loves change! I used to think that I was very dedicated, but then I found out that I also have a crush on different people of the opposite sex, maybe because of eye contact or conversation! Later, until now, I feel that the edge of the eye is really important!

    The person you like at first sight, even if you live in your own imagination, after a long time, you will still like such an appearance! It is rare to see someone who you can like at first glance! And it really takes time to get to know a person.

    In the second half of this year, I began to squeeze the subway in Shenzhen, 1 hour each way, and I had the opportunity to go to a company with a higher income at the beginning of the week, but in the long run, I chose a more stable company with a large and small week, and I will write interviews and jobs next year! Life will become better and better because of perseverance and hard work, and will get closer and closer to the ideal appearance.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, how does love come about? At the beginning, ordinary friends were everywhere, and there was a chemical reaction. Two people also unconsciously have a good feeling, of course, they can love each other only if they have a good impression of each other! Of course, it all depends on fate!

    How does love come about?

    Hello, how does love come about? At the beginning, ordinary friends were everywhere, and there was a chemical reaction. Two people also unconsciously have a good feeling, of course, they can love each other only if they have a good impression of each other! Of course, it all depends on fate!

    What is the meaning of love?

    Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Many people feel that they like someone, some like it slowly little by little, and some fall in love at first sight, thinking that it is a kind of fate. In fact, the process of liking someone is a process of your self-suggestion.

    There is a halo effect in psychology, which refers to a distorted condition in love. People's cognition and judgment of people often only start from the part, and then magnify it to get an overall impression. That is to say, it is often said that it is partial and comprehensive.

    It's like the night before a windy day, there is a moon halo around the moon, and the halo effect is also adapted in love.

    Many people feel that they like someone, some like it slowly little by little, and some fall in love at first sight, thinking that it is a kind of fate. In fact, the process of liking someone is a process of your self-suggestion. There is a halo effect in psychology, which refers to a distorted condition in love.

    People's cognition and judgment of people often only start from the part, and then magnify it to get an overall impression. That is to say, it is often said that it is partial and comprehensive. It's like the night before a windy day, there is a moon halo around the moon, and the halo effect is also adapted in love.

    People always need a kind of psychological self-validation. So when you do something, you always think about what it's for. When you pursue someone, you make reasonable attributions on the condition that no one will reward and reward you for what you get.

    It's only because of this or this person that I'm good enough and good enough that I put in the effort and want to get it. In the process of self-persuasion. You are constantly making psychological cues, reinforcing the other person's strengths and the desire and determination to get them.

    In fact, the emergence of love is mainly due to two psychological phenomena. The first is called Gestalt Psychology. Gestalt psychology means that people will pursue a complete mental figure, and when this figure is not complete, we are always thinking about the incomplete part.

    When the opportunity arises, try to fill it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The more you like [her] the more you like.

    It will turn into love.

    Love is the reinforcement of liking.

    There is no big difference between liking and loving.

    Others according to your own product.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

    Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Anything is a possibility.

    Maybe liking is just a spur of the moment.

    And it's been like this for a long time.

    It fades, of course, and it is even more unlikely to become love.

    And the other is what everyone says, after getting along for a long time, love will turn into love.

    Everything varies from person to person.

    Oh...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, like is a faint love, a strong good feeling, and love is the highest state of liking.

    When you like someone, like it to the top, it becomes love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To like someone is equivalent to loving someone in disguise.

    It's a feeling you can only experience!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Like is just a simple good feeling, and love is just not this feeling, love is to have what you want to get, sometimes I think love is really good because love will make you know how to cherish, let you know how to give in, and let you see a person clearly through one thing.

    Love is the hand that stretches out but retracts, wants to touch but dare not touch, afraid of hurting and has to choose, love is the person you can share when you are happy, love is very beautiful and cruel, like and love is not a state of feeling.

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