What books can improve language communication skills?

Take a look at The Power of Conversation, where most people believe that some people are born with a talent for speaking, while others don't. In fact, there is no such thing as a gift for speaking. A good conversational person is just a simple skill that anyone can learn.

Use this technique to teach you, and the success you will get is sure to exceed your expectations.

Neffinger and Kohut's book "The Convincing Man". In life and work, we want to be recognized by others immediately, such as networking with peers, interviewing with new companies, etc. Some people are showing up for the first time, but they can easily win the favor and support of others.

And some people will make you feel unspeakably disgusted and stay away. In the book, experts in communication offer an answer that those people can have an impact on others in the first place because they exhibit both strength and warmth.

I think the Communication Bible is a good way to help readers improve their "communication skills" or "business communication skills", explaining in detail the skills needed for "listening, speaking, reading and writing" all possible communication situations, such as **, talking, meetings, speeches, presentations, letter writing, reports, questionnaires, e-mails, etc., and explaining non-verbal communication, listening, reading, visual communication, and how to use various visual aids.

What are we talking about when we're talking about communication? What factors influence the effectiveness of communication? What can we improve?

That's what this book "The Art of Communication" is going to tell us. This book is divided into three parts: looking into people, seeing outside people and looking at people, from the three directions of the communicator's own psychology, communication tools, and interpersonal relationships, comprehensively analyzes the factors that will affect communication, and gives scientific suggestions.

Nonviolent Communication" (Douban score, Dr. Marshall Luxemburg discovered a magical and peaceful way of nonviolent communication, through nonviolent communication, countless people around the world have achieved love, harmony and happiness. NVC believes that human nature is friendly and violent ways are learned. NVC also believes that we all have common, basic needs and that human behavior is a strategy for satisfying one or more needs.

A few days ago, I read "Advantage Negotiation", the author of this book, ace negotiator Roger Dawson, teaches you how to win at the negotiation table through the original advantage negotiation skills, and teaches you how to make the opponent feel that he won the negotiation after the negotiation, not that he suffered.

If you ask about written communication skills, then what exactly is your confusion? I think of three possibilities, the first is to choose words and sentences, if your confusion is here, I suggest you read more classical Chinese. The second is the layout of the article, then your confusion should be a matter of structure, there is a book recommended to you, Mark Kramer's "How to Tell a Good Story".

The ancients said, "A word prospers the country, and a word loses the country." As ordinary people, we may not have so much influence, but you must have had quarrels because of unintentional words, conflicts with colleagues, estrangement from friends, cold wars with lovers, and even breakups. This book focuses on these issues.

Don't fix those imaginary things, what kind of speech, the art of speaking, the skill of speaking, go directly to the author of "The Weakness of Human Nature" Dale Carnegie, and analyze the problem directly from the source.

Precise communication, the art of speaking, the psychology of communication.

The effect of reading is not good....

Language practice is the only way to do it....

Communicate with people....

A middle-aged woman broke into the mansion of Shi Rong, the commander of a certain capital in Shandong, reprimanded Shi Rong for coveting glory, stopping his wife and remarrying, and told Shi Rong's wife Wang's reason

The book is written by Nicky. As a brilliant consultant, Stanton believes that every communication we have tries to achieve four goals: to be received, to be understood, to be accepted, and to get the other person to take action (change in behavior or attitude).

This is a comprehensive generalization that applies to both the workplace and intimate relationships. This book can be used as a textbook for communication, and there are two types of communication: verbal and nonverbal.

In language communication, the author shares his more than 20 years of training experience from the scenarios of typing, interviewing, job interviews, team communication, hosting and participating in meetings, and speeches, which is very practical. In non-verbal communication, the author carefully teaches readers how to optimize the communication effect from three aspects: body language, reading speed and efficiency, and business document writing.

This book can be seen as a sister book to the Communication Bible, but the two have different emphases. The Communication Bible focuses on workplace communication methods and skills, while The Art of Communication focuses on communication methods with classmates, friends, family, and lovers. "The Art of Communication" is a teaching material for interpersonal relations among American college students, in-depth how to improve their empathy ability, and how to speak to express their own meaning without hurting the emotions of others.

It can be said that this is a compulsory course for everyone's life, but unfortunately there are no teaching materials in this area in China. If you're under the age of twenty-three, or if you have a communication barrier in an intimate relationship, you're the target audience for this book.

Perhaps the biggest source of conflict in interpersonal communication is the desire to control, especially in intimate relationships. But when we have a good intention, how do we communicate so that the other person willingly accepts it? The answer given by the author:

Build your influence. In the book, the author talks about the two core elements of influence: liking and respecting, and according to these two elements, the author divides people into four types:

Authoritative, persuasive, dormant, and affinity. With a little tweaking, each type of person will have no problem making the most of their influence. This once again shows that if you want to improve your communication skills, the key is to change your concept

Don't control, build your influence.

There are many books to improve language communication skills, and here are ten of them:

Practical Social Eloquence" by Peng Caiyun. Fight the town.

Carnegie Eloquence Training, by Dale Carnegie.

Eloquence Brigade Determines Life, by Tony Jerry.

Modern Etiquette and Practical Skills of Eloquence", by Wang Jianhua.

Speech and Eloquence" by Zeng Xiangyi.

You can talk to anyone", written by Song Hexiang.

160 Eloquence Skills to Move People's Hearts", by Sun He.

There is an ability called "speaking", by Zhou Fang.

Will do more to be able to say" empty liquid, author Zhang Haixiang.

There are many books to improve language communication skills, and here are ten of them:

Practical Social Eloquence" by Peng Caiyun.

Carnegie Eloquence Training, by Dale Carnegie.

Eloquence Determines Life on the Bench by Tony Jerry.

Modern Etiquette and Practical Skills of Eloquence", by Wang Jianhua.

Speech and Eloquence" by Zeng Xiangyi.

You can talk to anyone", written by Song Hexiang.

160 Eloquence Skills to Move People's Hearts", by Sun He.

There is an ability called "speaking", by Zhou Fang.

Shoot Qili "Will do a change to search to be able to say", author Zhang Haixiang.