Why do I hate holidays? Why do some people hate Chinese New Year?

Maybe you don't hate holidays, maybe you hate loneliness, or there is a kind of holiday plot. Like me, I hate birthdays, one is afraid of growing up, and when I grow up, I will be one year older; In addition, when I was a child, my family was very busy when I had my birthday, and I almost didn't celebrate much, just a home-cooked meal, so I would have a photocopy in my heart and feel ...... lonelyI feel like I've been left out ......

Alone in a foreign land as a stranger, every festival is more than a family", you don't hate the festival, but you are afraid to face it. You feel lonely, but no one listens to your worries. You should try to communicate with others, especially family members.

In fact, it's not the festival that I hate, but the loneliness.

Please be kind to yourself in the days to come

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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Because the Chinese New Year is long, adults and children have more activities than usual, so they feel very tired, and adults will have arguments over some things, so they will feel annoyed. And I have to go to my relatives during the New Year, which is also very tiring at this time. So I don't like Chinese New Year, but I go with my friends to set off firecrackers during the New Year, which is also my favorite thing.

I think there are still some benefits to the Chinese New Year, that is, I can reunite with my family and eat a lot of delicious food, so I still like the New Year. But I don't like the New Year either, because I have to leave a lot of relatives during the New Year, so I feel annoyed. I also hate the Chinese New Year because it takes a long time and I have to prepare New Year's goods, so it will be very troublesome.

I remember n years ago, my colleague said that her parents-in-law did not like to be lively, and in Chinese New Year's Eve, several children came to visit the house and give gifts, but they did not eat together, and after visiting, they went back to their respective homes and ate by themselves.

I didn't understand at the time, didn't the old people like to be lively and reunited? Why don't you even eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together.

Now that I have just turned 50, I finally understand that sometimes the New Year's holiday is really a burden, a burden of exhaustion. It is the burden of overeating.

Fortunately, I now have the qualifications to make my own decisions, and I can live according to my own preferences, because my father-in-law and mother-in-law have passed away, and there are no relatives who have to leave to call potatoes, so the New Year is a ** week for me, no hoarding New Year's goods, no frying and frying, eating and buying, anyway, supermarkets and takeaways. There are no restrictions on the dumplings of the first year of junior high school and the noodles of the second year of junior high school, and I can eat whatever I want.

Brew a cup of coffee, nest in the sofa, read books, chase dramas, write and write the informant, and the time is just gone.

That's nice. <>

First, the social environment.

When we were children, transportation and communication were not developed, so we needed to have a good relationship with our neighbors and relatives who were close to us, and help each other when necessary. Socializing is a must. Parents will ask their children to be polite and greet their neighbors warmly.

Relatives come to be warmly entertained.

At that time, people were idle, or during the New Year's holidays, they would gather together to play cards and drink, and even get together to watch TV and watch the National Day military parade. Busy and busy, I feel lively and festive, and I won't feel annoyed.

In the past, when I visited relatives and friends during the holidays, I would always forcibly pull my children and spend a few hours to arrive, in order to improve my life and eat a good meal by the way.

Now go to visit relatives and friends, drive, ten minutes to arrive, sit down, a cup of tea has not cooled enough to eat, people have already arrived at the next house. Mere formality. In addition, now children are not very interested in this kind of family affection that has turned sour, so parents will not strongly ask their children to participate.

The second is personal mentality.

The generation of grandparents thinks that it is good for people to be prosperous. The more people in the family, the more lively it is. In the years before my grandparents died, there were many young people who went to visit the New Year on the first day of the Chinese New Year, and those parents would ask their children to kowtow to their grandparents.

Grandparents will also feel that this is their own glory. So many people in the village came to visit, which was very face-saving.

In fact, many of those young people are reluctant to come, and some are extremely disgusted and kowtow.

Later, the number of young people who came to pay New Year's greetings gradually decreased, and the number of people who visited the house on the first day of the Lunar New Year was also much less.

They say that instead of greeting and bragging to others and pretending to be themselves, it is better for the whole family to get together, have fun and eat some delicious food.

The same is true for young people nowadays, who feel that it is better to spend time on ineffective socializing than to spend a comfortable weekend alone. Although time may be wasted, at least I feel happy and unrestrained.

When it comes to festivals, everyone used to be full of longing, but now, in the face of various festivals with clever names, everyone's enthusiasm has plummeted, so why don't everyone love festivals?

1. Merchants are over-rendered.

Yesterday's Thanksgiving Day may be a foreign holiday, so everyone may not care in the first place, and the circle of friends is just to send thanksgiving. But think of Singles' Day, which has just ended, and has now been rendered as a shopping carnival by merchants. This kind of commercial atmosphere must not be liked by many people, and we are also infected by the smell of copper, as well as our favorite Tanabata and Valentine's Day.

This rendering does make the festival look more lively, but it also becomes more pompous, and there is less of the atmosphere that can make people flood with thoughts, so people can no longer look at their hearts, so gradually it is not popular.

Second, overdraft enthusiasm.

From an evolutionary point of view, as we age, dopamine secretion decreases in the body, and we are naturally less interested in external objects. But look at the people around you, all of them are about 30, or even in their early 20s, and they don't like to celebrate the holidays. Do you already have the answer in your heart?

This is the result of overdrawn enthusiasm. All kinds of festivals have overdrawn everyone's enthusiasm, for example, many people originally thought that Valentine's Day was just one day, but the year was divided into twelve, and the only feeling in their hearts was gone, but the loss and tiredness were increasing day by day, and they gradually became numb.

3. Excessive precociousness.

Today's young people are precocious in advance, and they know all kinds of male and female love at a young age, and then they ignore it when they see the sunshine of youth, but they feel very suitable for themselves in the face of some negative emotions. Maybe it was to be a maverick at first, but after a long time, I was used to being alone, I didn't like to socialize, and then I couldn't say why, I always felt that I had seen through the red dust, and I was used to the so-called deception, and the world was warm and cold. In fact, this is completely unnecessary, remember that when you stare into the abyss, the abyss is also staring at you.

Human nature is very cruel, indifferent and helpless, but what kind of person you choose to be depends on yourself.

Finally, the original intention of the festival is to wish and remember, and not to let the glitz outside stain your original pure heart.

materialized, nominalized, not as simple as a child, now looking forward to the holiday is looking forward to the holiday.

The most annoying thing about the New Year is to go to your home to say something you don't want to hear, and I don't know the depth of picking people to be unhappy Wu Qiaochun's things, so I don't want to see such a person.