Is there really no leftover girl born in the 70s?

At most, it is a leftover aunt, and 60 is leftovers.

There are still people who want older leftover women.

In this society where there are more men than women, there are no real "leftover women", and there will be no real "leftover women". As long as a woman wants to marry, it is a matter of minutes.

Older girls are mostly well-qualified, highly educated, well-paid and have decent jobs. When choosing a mate, they hope that the other person's education and income can be higher than their own, or at least comparable.

But they don't know that boys with high education and high income may not care about the woman's education and income, and they may pay more attention to the girl's appearance, quality and other personal qualities. They prefer young girls who are simple, beautiful, and energetic.

However, many girls do not have a clear understanding of this, and still insist on their unrealistic mate selection standards, and say that "it is better to lack than abuse". So much so that between hesitation and choice, the age is getting older, and there are fewer and fewer marriageable boys, and the range of options is getting smaller and smaller. They used their own "cocoons" to "bind" themselves to the team of "leftover women".

As long as the older leftover women face up to the reality, break through the "cocoon" they have made, and adjust their mate selection standards, it should be very easy to get rid of the single.

Characteristics of older leftover women

1. Not good at words

If you don't know how to share your true emotions, experiences and self with others, you will always close yourself off, which is either a personality problem or a change in mood.

Personality problems, including being very boring and homely, may be able to talk eloquently when meeting acquaintances, but as long as you see strangers, especially when chatting with the opposite sex, you always behave very restrained. So it is inevitable that there will be many embarrassing moments, not knowing what to say, and feeling that it is not appropriate to say anything.

2. Vacillating willingness

I don't have a clear need for feelings, and I don't know what to covet from a man, and then I waver because of my own wishes, and I will always be influenced by the people around me. Even if you have already found a partner, you will doubt your choice because of the opinions of others or family members.

3. Ideals bring reality

Take finding a partner as an example, she always asks for boys in reality with ideal standards, and can't accept a little gap. Otherwise, you will immediately feel disappointed and lose all enthusiasm and positivity. At the same time, he will also imagine the love and marriage that happened to him to be brilliant and vigorous.

1.Guys of the same age won't choose you.

You are 31 years old, if there is a boy of the same age as you in the middle of the stupid roll, the conditions are average, there is no house or there is a house, but it is not a particularly good location. With a salary of more than 3,000 a month, will you choose him?

I think the answer for many girls would be to be rotten: no!

After all, society is still realistic, when you really face such a situation, you may have this thought in your heart: my own salary itself is not high, and his salary is pitifully low, and the two of them add up to less than 1w. Even if you buy a house, you have to repay the loan in the future, and your married life is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and you have to use money for everything, how can you live this life.

From another perspective, if a boy is in his 30s and has very good economic conditions, how likely is it to choose you?

It's not that it's impossible, but many times, while having the ability, the individual's requirements will also increase. If you're not particularly good or meet the needs of the other person, the chances of a successful match are low.

2.The older a girl gets, the more selectivity she has.

Now you have also seen the news that many male celebrities are looking for girls who are younger than themselves, teenagers, or even in their 20s. All around us, there are such examples. Once a man has a certain strength, his eyes are still on "young and beautiful" women.

And those boys who are more than 5 years younger than you are generally too young and insecure to rely on him. Older leftover men of the same age as you are often in average condition.

This creates a situation where you can't go up, you can't go down, and you can't squeeze into the middle. There was no choice on three sides, and in the end there was no hope.

3.You should go on a blind date as early as possible and communicate more at the same time.

According to the analysis of the previous three points, in any case, after the age of 30, girls should be able to go on a blind date, and they should go on a blind date as soon as possible.

It's not that you can settle down at a glance, but after you meet, you still have time to communicate, communicate, and understand each other.

Giving others a chance to meet is equivalent to giving yourself a chance, maybe this is fate?

In fact, everyone has their own ideal other half in their hearts, and it is good to meet nature. But in reality, there is not so much hope, and more is helpless. I've seen a lot of married women, and the man they choose in the end is often not the man Obiyama himself expected, but they are still married.

There are three main aspects of the single older leftover women: the social circle is too small, the personality problem, and too picky. The resistance has been found, and it is not difficult to solve it by saying that it is difficult to rent Jian Song, and it is not easy to say that it is not easy.

As long as you are willing to prescribe the right medicine, maybe the sweetness of love is not far off. As one of the authors of the Snail House wrote, "What kind of girl deserves to be happy? "If you live a down-to-earth life, work hard, seek true love and are willing to give, love will naturally knock on your door, and there is no need to shout that the whole world knows."

You always have to firmly believe that a good smart person, or a smart good person, will definitely be found by another smart and good person. It's called matching. ”

Don't be in a hurry, it's important to try to make yourself better, I believe there will be such a person waiting for you in front of you.

The leftover girl after the 80s stupid ant basically can't get married, I think it's best to consider finding a godson to be a godmother and make fun of the silver, because the leftover mountain banquet girl after the 80s still has more economic conditions.

This is normal, the vision is too high, there is no house, car and ticket, and men do not marry, they are slowly picking.