How to view and face the matter of parents not divorcing for the sake of their children?

I think this is a sign of parental responsibility, but it is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong.

Parents do not divorce for the sake of their children, but it is also difficult to give their children a perfect family, whether divorce brings more harm to children, or imperfect family environment to children, this is a question that no one can say.

I think this is a very normal thing, because parents will definitely make some compromises for their children when they face them, and they think that after divorce, they will let their children suffer a broken family, and they definitely don't want to do this.

I think this is very unfair to the children, because the children have no happiness in such a family, and it is better to divorce early.

I feel that parents love their children very much because they are afraid that once the divorce will make the child face a broken family, it will make a big difference in the future life.

I actually don't approve of this approach, there are many times for the sake of the children not to divorce, two people are not happy and unhappy living together, there is really no practical meaning, or should think about it is better.

I think this is the right thing to do, because parents really shouldn't affect their children's divorce because of their relationship with each other, and the psychological impact on their children is very big.

I don't agree with that. If the parents' relationship has broken down, every day the child sees the parents quarreling over something, which is not good for the child?

In fact, for the sake of the child not to divorce objectively does not have much benefit to the child's physical and mental health, unless the two people can reconcile as before, but usually it is noisy all day long that leads to family disharmony, for this kind of person I feel that the hypocrite is the majority, and irresponsible, of course, there are indeed some parents who dot on their children who would rather be wronged than let their children feel a little uncomfortable, so we still participate less in people's affairs, and take care of themselves.

In real life, there are indeed many parents who often say that they do not divorce for the sake of their children, in fact, I personally believe that such parents often just use their children as a reason, in fact, they really don't want to divorce.

First of all, for such parents, the reason why they do not divorce is for the sake of their children's growth and future development, but there are also certain economic considerations, because for single fathers or single mothers, there is no doubt that the economic pressure they face is relatively large to bring their children to raise them.

Secondly, many parents often fight each other when they see it, but they can't let go of each other in their hearts, and they can't let go of this feeling, so although they talk about divorce all day long, they can't bear it in their hearts, and they come to this point, and they often take it for the sake of their children as an excuse for not divorcing to find a step for themselves.

In addition, for those whose feelings have really broken down and the marriage has existed in name only, for parents, if they really do not divorce for the sake of their children, in fact, this may not be a good thing for the development of their children, because the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, it is likely to leave a certain psychological shadow on the children, and this kind of damage is far greater than the damage caused to the children by the divorce of the husband and wife.

It's a retention signal.

People who use "the child is too young" as a reason for not wanting to divorce are often excuses. They are afraid and lonely in their hearts, so they will talk about their children. Because children are a common thing between two people, it will prick the sensitive nerves of the disloyal party.

After saying this, the other party may be soft-hearted, or they may miss the old, or they may realize their mistakes and change their ways. Therefore, this is a signal to the other party to save the marriage.

Underestimate your child's resilience.

Don't think that the day will fall after divorce, and the child will become stupid. You are underestimating your child's adaptability! You must know that people have the ability to heal themselves.

Although it is true that the divorce of parents is very sad, it is also a test. It makes children stronger and more self-reliant. Early on, children realize that they must be strong in order to protect themselves and their loved ones.

This is the pressure to be put on the child!

For the sake of the children not to divorce, for the sake of the children to prolong love, and even to endure domestic violence for the sake of the children! Is this great fatherly love and motherly love? No!

That's a lot of pressure on your child! Because children are people who have the ability to judge for themselves. He can feel the unhappiness of your marriage, but you continue to endure it for his sake.

So he hated himself so much! Hate yourself for being a burden! It may even sprout thoughts of suicide!

Parents should really think about their children's mental health!

Afraid of other people's gossip.

Some people are reluctant to divorce because they are afraid of other people's gossip. They can't bear the fingers of relatives, friends or even strangers, and they are very sensitive to a contemptuous look from others. For this situation, I feel very unworthy.

Because life is your own, why care what others say! You can't live as someone else thinks you are! You just have to be yourself and be worthy of your heart!

There is no independence in the economy, only dependence.

There are some women who, in the face of their partner's infidelity, will not choose to divorce. It is because they have no regular financial income and can only rely on their partners. And if they choose to divorce, they will have nothing, and the chances of re-employment without knowledge and culture are very low.

So they can only cling to this marriage that has no love.

If left right, the situation is getting worse.

In the face of this situation, we should learn from the pain and actively solve the problem. Instead of choosing to escape and compromise! Because if the problem is not solved, the situation will only get worse.

If you choose to part ways, then don't feel sorry for yourself, but face life positively, take care of your baby, and let your children not repeat their mistakes; If you choose to release your past suspicions, then completely forget your hatred and continue to live your life.

1. Learn to accept reality. There is no way for parents to choose to divorce, and there is no way for your children to help solve the problems that arise between their husband and wife. Maybe it's a more painful life for them for parents to continue their marriage, just for your pleasure, and it's not appropriate for your parents to make sacrifices.

If you have the opportunity to express your opinion in the family, you can tell your parents your truest thoughts and feelings to see if they respect your opinion.

2. Don't be emotional. Divorce is a very helpless choice for parents, and as a child, they have no right to interfere with their parents' marriage. It may be a very painful thing for you, but you must not resolutely oppose it because your parents are divorced, run away from home, hurt your body, or even blackmail your parents, but also consider the feelings of your parents more, and if your parents are happy, our children can be happier.

It is important to know that some excesses of the child will accelerate the divorce of the parents.

3. Adjust your mentality in a timely manner. Divorce has a great impact on parents and children, and parents generally go through many trade-offs and comparisons when making this decision, including the upbringing of minor children. Trust that parents can arrange their children's learning

In life, don't worry too much about whether you will live a "miserable" life after your parents divorce, whether your classmates will "laugh" at yourself, I am a "superfluous" child, etc., the painful and hurtful mood cannot exist in the body for a long time, otherwise you will get sick. The divorced family naturally does not have more advantages than the complete family, and we must learn to adjust our mentality and strive to do our best.

Fourth, enrich the growth experience. You can't say anything about your parents' marriage, but you can observe it and learn some life lessons from it. You will grow up in the future, and most of you will choose to start a family.

When you find out that your parents get along well, you will do it in this way in the future, and it will definitely be beneficial to your future marriage

Useful for families; When you find something bad about how your parents get along, you must reduce or prevent such things from happening in the future.

Many people say that it is boring for the sake of the good of the child. To put it bluntly, I want to be lazy, I don't want to work hard, once I have children, but I will have more patience with marriage, people who will definitely divorce, will choose to maintain the marriage because of children, to manage seriously, when we work hard to manage feelings, the probability of marriage getting better is actually very large, I have solved many such cases, couples who want to divorce, for the sake of children suppressed the urge to divorce, chose to come to me for consultation, and later with our help, he saw the core problems in the relationship and adjusted his behavior, In the end, we also obtained happiness, so if the marriage is not happy, we should have a little more patience for the children to actively repair, find the right way to solve the problem, and improve our ability to manage feelings, if you are experiencing a relationship marriage crisis, other private messages tell me, I will teach you.

Today let's talk about the resolute refusal to divorce for the sake of the children, is this statement correct? It's been like this or an argument or something, but they think that I have to maintain the integrity of the family for the sake of the child, so will the child really feel good? Psychologists have done some experiments on this, and some children have grown up, and naturally parents don't want to divorce.

First of all, to be clear, not getting divorced does not mean that marital problems do not exist, and the harm caused by the original family may make children more painful and even have psychological problems than the divorce of their parents. If the husband and wife have made in-depth efforts and communication to repair their relationship and can provide a relatively harmonious and stable family environment for their children, then divorce is certainly not recommended in this case.

There may be difficulties. After all, it is for the sake of the children not to divorce. If there are no children, they are divorced.

Children are also their own flesh and blood, and they will be reluctant. Probably raised the child. There will be no regrets.

It's better to leave without family affection. If you don't leave, you should cultivate your feelings.

Although because of the incompatibility of the marriage, he still chose not to divorce for the sake of the children, which is actually quite great, obviously he can find another partner, or choose to train for the sake of the children to maintain the marriage.

First of all, such parents are just looking for an excuse, in fact, they are unwilling to divorce in their hearts, in fact, if they really have no emotional life, as children, they will also feel the pain in their parents' hearts, and their children are also very uncomfortable in their hearts.

No, they don't have the courage to leave and start a new life or they don't want to get divorced to find an excuse, what they want is not a divorce but a smooth life.

Not only for the sake of the children, but also for their own happiness.

Because some people still want to have a good life with each other, but sometimes there are differences when they encounter conflicts or misunderstandings.

Therefore, choosing not to divorce the children is one of the reasons, and the second is hopeful.

If there are such couples, they will not divorce for the sake of their children.

It may be that everyone encounters different situations and considers different issues, but children are definitely the main factor that cannot be divorced.

It's basically all, I have to you, you have to me, but the children have to us, and all marriages are because the children are making do.

As mentioned above, in addition to the sake of the children, they are also in order not to hurt the family relationship between the husband and wife.

There are many parents who are reluctant to divorce for the sake of their children, because they feel that their children lack father's love or hurt their mother's love, which will definitely have an impact on the growth of their children, so they can only compromise for their children.

Most of them must be for the sake of the children to have a complete family, but in fact, the children understand everything and know everything, but they can't express it, and life is just a piece of chicken feathers.

Look at your own thoughts, some people live for their children, and some people live for themselves!

Everyone will have a different answer to this question. But in general, there are two answers. One is choosing not to divorce for the sake of the children.

And always keep a smile in front of your child. I want my child to always feel that he is living in a happy family. The other is for children.

Divorce is the choice. Or choose to divorce for your own sake. If you choose to divorce for the sake of your children, it may be that such a marriage is no longer possible.

Even if you insist on it, it may be a heavy injury to the child. Choose to divorce for your own sake. Why?

People have their own things to pursue in this life, and they can never pursue them in marriage. This will make your life feel very defeated. So I will also choose to divorce.

If the child is very fond of his mom and dad. I have always felt that my parents are also very harmonious. Every day when I come home, I see the smiles of my parents.

Every day after returning home, the family is living happily, so that the child feels particularly secure. So in such a situation, if there is a more serious conflict between mom and dad. Or irreconcilable contradictions.

And such parents should also be very mature, Mom and Dad. Therefore, they will not show such a contradiction and such an emotion in front of their children. In their minds, children may be very, very important.

One way or another. It doesn't matter what you do, as long as the child is happy as long as the child is safe. If it is such a family, parents are also thinking like this, and they are also such mature, so such a family, I think you can choose not to divorce for the sake of your children.

Because children are the future of the whole family. You are such a father and mother, the person who cherishes you the most on the tip of your heart. They will be willing to choose to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their children.

If it's the one I'll talk about later. Even if the family is not divorced, the children will not be able to gain security and happiness. Then such a family may divorce as soon as possible, which is still a good thing for the children.

Because the child is in such a family, he will always be the punching bag of the father and mother. It is impossible for a child to find happiness in such a father and mother. They also don't stop arguing because of their children.

It can even be more one-sided quarrels, which will hurt the child or affect the child because of the escalation of the emotional conflict between them. So what does such a family mean to children? Of course, in such a family, parents must be immature, because they will only think about themselves and only because of their own emotions.

And harming the child without taking care of the child. It is not a good thing for such a family to choose divorce.

So. Look at the problem from a different angle. The state of maturity is different. Whether to divorce or not depends on the quality of the whole family, the whole parents themselves, and the kind of family towards the children. Attitude.