What does it feel like to graduate from university?

Moments before the dormitory door closed, I pushed the door open again, saw that the dormitory was empty, and thought, ha, I'm the first person to arrive! ‍‍

I looked at the dorm roommates, and I was still thinking of the scene four years ago when everyone was introducing themselves by writing their names on a piece of broken paper.

I thought I would clear the level as soon as I graduated, but it turned out that the next step was survival mode. Some are never seen again, and some are finally goodbye. ‍‍

At that time, I found an internship job outside of school with a roommate, because the door was about to be locked during the vacation, I went to the dormitory, and it felt empty, my classmates were gone, and I was at a loss, and this is graduation? The mood was very mixed.

I am separated from my roommate by most of China, and due to the gap between employment and graduate school, I am afraid that there will ......be very little contact in the futureIt's really scary to think about, after graduating and working, the people I will contact in the future may not be so sincere.

After sending my roommate back to the dormitory, I remembered that the door had been locked, the key was handed in, and I didn't plan to go home.

In the end, the dormitory was extremely clean, the cleanest in four years. Carrying a bag, he is always reluctant to leave. With the classmates who sent each other, I can't make a joke, even if the relationship is good, I am really afraid of a mouth, which is full of tears.

When I first entered the school, I was a little envious of the seniors, and when I was about to leave the school, I was very envious of the younger students, and the last time I went to the library to return the books, I saw those people who usually walked into the library for self-study, and suddenly felt that they were simply the happiest people in the world. ‍‍

Graduation was such a moment, that is, I repeatedly told myself not to be pretentious, sad and lost, and when faced with the messy dormitory, the friends who left, and the more and more wordless coexistence, my mood suddenly fell to the lowest point, and this mood was unable to express any expression.

School is a strange place, an identity that has always wanted to break free, a place that always wants to escape, but when it really ends, it suddenly feels like a loss. ‍‍

Finally, I don't have to live in a group anymore, cater to them staying up late every night to play until 2 o'clock, listening to their grinding teeth and purring, and not paying attention to hygiene, and finally can live an independent life. ‍‍

College life, may be a lot of people yearn for the life, in fact, college is the best time in a person's life, the four years of college, people are about 20 years old, it is the youth of the youth, students from all over the world gathered together, we study together here, live together, it can be said that it is an unforgettable time, four years of college life between people have established a deep relationship, everyone gets along day and night, really like brothers and sisters.

So for this memory I am also very difficult to forget, so the saddest moment during college was the moment when we broke up when we graduated from my senior year, because we were all far away in different provinces, so this time we parted and didn't know when we would meet again, and some of them would never see each other again in this life, so I still clearly remember the moment when we separated, we hugged each other and cried, there was a deep friendship with each other for four years, there was reluctance to separate, our eyes were crying and swollen, But there is no banquet in the world, and we have to go our separate ways when we are reluctant, at that time we have been together for five years, and we have another party, but in fact, after graduation, we have our own jobs, and we are busy with work every day, and we will never see each other in the future, so I am really most afraid of separation, although this day will always come, but I am still very sad and sad when it really comes.

College life is relatively beautiful for most of us, but in college days, each of us has had the saddest and most sad moment, and for me, the saddest moment in college should be the last meal after graduating from college with my classmates who have been with me for four years, and we say goodbye to the moment of going to different cities for development.

That moment is still fresh in my memory, it was 15 years ago, when we were about to graduate from college, the best six boys in the class had the last casual meal together, at this casual dinner, everyone toasted to each other, hoping that they could succeed in the future life and have a brilliant future in the workplace, but thinking of the good friends who have been together for four years together are separated like this, many people's tears can't help but flow down from the corners of their eyes, at this moment, Each of us has a sad heart, especially for me.

In the four years of study and life in college, these students have given me a lot of help, whether it is in study or in life, but most of these students have to return to their own cities or go to other cities to develop, although our friendship and friendship will always be maintained, but after eating this meal, it is more difficult for everyone to meet in the future, only through ** or the way of the Internet to bring contact, thinking of these, my heart is even more uncomfortableBut no matter what, I still wish them from the bottom of my heart that they can achieve success in their careers and have a bright future in the city they have chosen for their own years, and I hope that everyone can have the opportunity to meet again.

One of the saddest moments in college is the separation after graduation. Especially after studying and living with my roommates for four years, we went to class together, went to self-study together, ate together, played sports together, and played together.

College is not as good as junior high school and high school, and at that time we will definitely know our classmates. We live in a group, work in a classroom every day, and come into contact with that group of people every day. And for such a long time, we will always know each other.

But knowing these people is not simple, it means that we will get to know them, and everyone still has their own games. Because of the difference in personality, there is a deviation in ability. Therefore, introverts are often silently in the corner to be a quiet beautiful man.

For those who have a warm and cheerful personality, he may know all the people in the class, but there are only a few really good friends.

But when we get to college, it's different, because we only choose people who can play with them, and we don't even say hello to those who can't. Therefore, the relationship during college is a kind of spontaneous finding, and this kind of feeling will be more profound.

Some people may not even be able to call all the names of their classmates in college, and only know the ones in their dormitories and those who are more familiar with the class cadres in front of them, and they can't figure out who the others are.

Because college is not as close as in high school, there will be no special roll call, nor will there be discussions on so-called knowledge points, but only those friends who have similar interests.

Let me share a few of my own feelings:

1.Getting along with people is no longer as simple as school, and it is not possible to talk about everything with everyone, especially between colleagues and leaders. Although it seems to be nothing on the surface, there are also many cases where colleagues report to the leader, and if they are a little careless, they will leave a bad impression on the leader.

2.Social relationships have become more complex, and you need to constantly switch roles. It's an employee in the company, it's an ordinary person after work (even if you used to be a celebrity at school, no one cares about that), and when you come home, it's the child's parents, it's the husband or wife, it's the parents' children'......There are a lot of responsibilities to bear.

3.Financially, you need to be independent in life. When you go out of society, don't be cheeky and gnaw at the old people, you must learn to live independently, think independently, and face a lot of things independently.

5.Planning for life is more complicated. At this moment, what you are planning is no longer learning in school, but career planning, life planning, family planning, ......

6.It's more realistic. Interests, reputation, status, fame, reputation, intrigue.

7.You must have pursuits, you must have dreams, and don't mess around easily, because you always have to pay back when you come out. It's like Stephen Chow's classic line in "Brother Qi Sui Shaolin Football" "People must have dreams, if there are no dreams, what is the difference between them and salted fish?" ”

That's all I can think of for now. Life is not easy, do it and cherish it!

It's not just saying goodbye to a city, there's a way to live forever, and there's a sense of "being born".

Maybe life is like this, the feelings and tacit understanding that have been cultivated in countless days and nights will one day be goodbye. Just like "Life of Pi" said: life is constantly letting go, but the most regrettable thing is that we haven't had time to say goodbye.

In any case, that time was the most brilliant time in our lives. Later, when we look back on the past, it is not because we were so good at that time, but because we were all very young at that time.

So, what does it feel like to graduate?

Maybe it's the feeling of the end of youth, just like Xi Murong's poem: With tears, we read and read, but we have to admit that youth is a ......book that is too hasty

After graduation, we often have some scenes in our minds; Missing someone; Or nostalgia for a kind of beauty at the time:

No more skipping classes because there are no classes;

I was relieved all of a sudden, and I felt very lost all of a sudden;

You can no longer stay up late together, play cards together, and play games together.

I will never see the people I used to see at a glance again;

There was never a photo with him;

Delete the address and ** of online shopping, because you can no longer use it;

At that time, you really knew one word, called "we";

I thought I could still see someone, but five years later, I never saw anyone again;

In order to hug him, I laughed and cried, and hugged everyone in the class;

This class will probably be difficult to gather in the future.

People who used to meet each other often can only meet in the circle of friends in the future;

Before graduation, he said that we would find time to get together at any time, but after graduation, I realized that it was just a lie;

A lot of things have not changed, only us have changed;

Every time you see a smirking class photo, some people may not be in touch often, but you still have a feeling of emotion.

From now on, we will all be busy for the future, meet new people, and start a new journey;

Running for the future, gradually moving away and drifting away, I hope we all have a good future;

In school, no matter how good or bad you are, it is the best years of your life;

From then on, there were no complaints, only nostalgia.

I think about ...... from time to timeRemembering ......

I think of ...... in the study roomRows of occupied thrones;

Remembering ......Days of the all-night before each exam;

I think of the crowded cafeteria after class at noon every day;

Thinking of those lovely friends;

Remembering that after the casual meal, we said goodbye with tears in our eyes!