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The essence of love is giving, and it has natural attributes, it focuses on freedom and ideals, and pursues the harmony and fit of spirit and heart.
The essence of marriage is acquisition, and it has a social attribute, it focuses on constraints and reality, and pursues material and physiological needs and satisfaction.
The relationship between love and marriage, in terms of life cycle, is similar to the relationship between the whole and the part. That is, marriage is a social manifestation of love at certain stages. In this sense, love encompasses and does not depend on marriage; Marriage is only one element or part of the love movement.
At the same time, marriage gives love a social color, provides a material support for love, and makes love icing on the cake and colorful; Therefore, love without marriage is also imperfect.
Compared with marriage, love has more free characteristics; Marriage has created an objective constraint on love, but at the same time, it is also a realistic test of love.
Marriage is distinctly narrow-minded compared to love. At its root, marriage is a product of social development, while love is a product of natural occurrence. It is true that the longer the lovelorn is, the more painful the man becomes, and he cannot start a new relationship for a long time.
Let's assume such a situation, suppose a woman what she will do if she falls out of love, she will cry, make trouble, find all her friends to confide in, feel that she is extremely painful, but if a man falls out of love, most of the time we will not be able to see it, that is, he will not say that he will not make trouble, nor can we see him crying, at most smoking and drinking. It is easy to have the impression that women are actually very nostalgic and very emotional, and men are a little wolf-hearted and a little indifferent, but if this thing goes forward, you will find that half a year later, the women who were crying and can't live can not live, she quickly fell in love with a good-looking male colleague who came to the unit, and then the two of them happily started a new relationship! And this man still looks like nothing has happened, and the silence is golden, but he has never entered a new relationship!
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This may be the cleanliness of girls, they don't want others to share, they only want to share themselves with the people they love.
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I think if you drink a glass of water with someone, it is equivalent to feeling unhygienic, and then indirectly a little bad, if it is your beloved, whatever? Doudou wants to drink water with him, and drink water from a red cup. And then I won't dislike him.
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From a hygienic point of view, you should not share a glass of water with others, because any bacteria can be transmitted, and you have a lot of contact with your loved ones, so it doesn't matter if you drink water together.
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This is their own habit, because no one wants to share a glass of water with strangers, unless it is their closest and closest person.
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It's a question of hygiene, and no one wants to
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Some people are hygienic, some people have nothing to do with you, so why should they use a cup with you?
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Of course, everyone needs to be hygienic, not just women but no one wants to share a glass of water with others.
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Because most women actually have some psychological cleanliness, if it is not their own beloved, they don't want to have anything to do with them at all.
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No one wants to share a glass of water with anyone else, because it is very unhygienic and can spread diseases to each other.
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Because this woman is not casual, he doesn't mind sharing a glass of water with others, because he can't drink water with others at will if he is not in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
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The longer they get along, the more dependent a woman is on a man and cares about everything about a man, so when the relationship breaks down, the impact on the woman is greater, while the man treats the woman as his thing, and the longer they get along, the less fresh they are, and the less they want to conquer.
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Not only women but also men, I'm afraid that others will be infected, so I can do anything with my beloved?
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Generally speaking, everyone is not used to sharing a water bottle with others, because it is not hygienic in this way, and I think it is better for people.
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That shows that he really loves this person very much, so he will share a water cup with this person.
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Love is responsible, as long as you accept his love, you must be responsible for it, you must strive to make him happy in the future life, and do not regret the choice to love you in the first place; It's harder not to love someone, and when you find that two people can't move forward together, it's for yourself and even more for the happiness of the loved one.
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I don't think anyone wants to share a drinking cup with someone else, because sharing a drinking cup will have other people's saliva, which is unhygienic.
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Uncle and others supply a glass of water, it is equivalent to indirect news, if it is not his beloved, it will feel very disgusting.
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Why don't women want to sleep with others, and affirm it for their beloved, because it's a matter of personal hygiene.
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