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You should think about getting out of their hands on the basis that you can take care of yourself, in fact, parents are for our own good, you know, but what you lack is how to communicate with them
If you reason directly with your parents, you will only make them feel that you are against them, because they will feel that you do not understand their good intentions.
You can not argue with them on small things, even if they are wrong, and following them is a good way to communicate with them without hurting the other person.
As far as my friend and I are concerned, she is always going to go online, and she doesn't communicate with her family, and the result is an argument
Actually, if you talk to them for even a few seconds in the middle of the game, they won't overdo it
It's just my personal thoughts
Hopefully, you will be able to find ways to maintain a rapport with your parents, who are different from others, and they will understand you
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What you can't see is the scenery of your hometown, and what you can't get out of is the hearts of your parents. We should think about why our parents treat us like this, and when we are independent and can make money, they will not treat us like this! But then you may find that they have a lot more gray hair, and maybe you will be able to truly understand the hearts of your parents!
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Financially independent and capable of living independently.
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When you are young, your parents are your guardians, and you cannot escape the management of your parents.
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Also known as parent-child relationship. Parent-child relationship usually occurs on the basis of the fact of the child's birth, but it can also occur as a result of adoption. The former is called the paternity of natural consanguinity, which is based on the direct connection between the two parties in blood; The latter is called the filibrarian relationship of fictitious consanguinity and is based on the legal effect of adoption.
Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. If the adult child does not fulfill the obligation of support, and the parents lack the ability to work or have difficulties in life, Zheng Shou has the right to demand that the adult child pay alimony.
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Is Mani enough, the hermit can get rid of the boring talk if you destroy enough, the others are flickering, I have heard that the stove does not raise children and does not know the grace of parents, and does not know the price of firewood and rice, after getting rid of it, you already know the meaning of 50% of this, I wish you a happy life, hope!
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First of all, thank you for speaking about this issue, this kind of family relationship has a big impact on an individual's mental health and growth and needs to be taken seriously. Here are some suggestions that I hope you find helpful:
1.Establish your own beliefs and values. First, you need to figure out what you want and what you're aiming for.
This way, when you communicate with your family, you can express your point of view more clearly. When you are more aware of your goals, it will be easier for you to escape the control of others.
2.Establish healthy communication styles. Try to communicate with your family in a peaceful, open, and honest way. At the same time, it is important to respect the other person's point of view and try to understand their thoughts and actions from the other person's point of view.
3.Seek outside help. It may be helpful to seek help from a professional counselor or social worker. They can help you better deal with family relationship issues and provide relevant support and advice.
4.Get independent financial support. It is important to gain your own financial independence through your own efforts. This allows you to stop relying on family support and have more freedom to make your own decisions.
Finally, building a healthy family relationship requires mutual understanding and respect, but if you really can't change your family environment, then you need to be brave enough to make your own choices, which may come at a cost, but it is necessary to know that you can achieve your dreams and grow. Expect you to live your life full of suspicions.
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First of all, to get rid of parental control and macros, it is necessary to have your own independent thinking skills in order to make the right decisions. Secondly, you can take the initiative to communicate with your parents and show them your thoughts and wishes. At the same time, it is necessary to respect the opinions and decisions of parents.
Finally, you should try to follow your own principles and beliefs in handling things; Don't run away or ignore conflicts when they arise. By showing your ability to think independently and respecting the opinions of others step by step, you can get rid of your parents' control, and you can argue in a way that is feasible.
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Clear your throat) Thank you. If I were an experienced counsellor, I might suggest that you take a different approach depending on the situation. But as a language model here, I can share some personal insights based on my own experiences.
When I was a child, I was a very well-behaved child, so my parents were always paying too much attention to me. But as I've gotten older, I've started to have the idea of being self-conscious, and I'm eager to be independent. In my dealings with my parents, I gradually became aware of some problems:
First of all, you must communicate with a positive and open mind, express your opinions and expectations rationally, and respect your parents' wishes and feelings.
Secondly, I also learned to find my own space, including time and space. Try to handle some things on your own, such as walking to school, taking care of your own necessities, etc. Such a small thing may seem insignificant, but it can gradually increase the self-confidence of independence.
Finally, I would also like to admit that getting rid of parental control is not something that happens overnight. It takes time to get used to it, and it takes effort to get there. It is important to have an atmosphere of communication in the family, and even if there are some obstacles, you need to work together with your family to understand and support each other.
Finally, thank you again for the invitation, I hope my sharing will be helpful to you.
You can communicate rationally with your parents, and it is best to solve problems, because the relationship with your parents after all you can't change anything, this is innate, they are elders, you are juniors, you just say what problems I have to discuss with them, if you don't have the independent economic ability now, then you have to listen to them for many problems, if you are now financially independent, and you don't need much help from them, then you can naturally do things that you think are reasonable, Because you don't need their support, you can do it yourself.
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