Can you tolerate your roommate who doesn t fetch water every day and always uses your hot water?

Reply 15 It's cold now, not only in my bedroom, but also in the next bedroom to find water, every time I look at me, forget it once or twice, and often make no water to drink and useless, disrupting my own life rules, not only this, I still tick and tick to play Dota when I go to bed at noon, I can't sleep well in the afternoon and at night, and I will waste it, and when others get up, he sleeps again、、、 and he says no, he doesn't say it, and he says it behind his back, and you are stingy, and the look and expression are really unbearable、、、 I also feel that I can't do small things well, and I don't talk about doing big things after accumulating a pound or two pounds for a long time、、、、、、 I don't say it's hard to meet such a roommate 、、、、、、 it's a bad habit to meet such a roommate、、、 of course, it's also related to my own personality and habits in short, it's okay to get used to it、、、 I've endured it for three years, and it's almost less than a year to endure it、、、 some people say it's useless、I'm too lazy to say it、It's either this or the one that you can't stand it.、Personality problems.、Upbringing problems、、、 just exercise your endurance、、、 I dare say that there will be a lot of 、、、 of such people in the future.

If it were my brother or sister, I wouldn't be able to stand it every day, so you should go once or twice. Why do I always serve you?

I feel the same way. So now I always hit two kettles at a time, and there is always some leftovers when I use them.

There are only three people in our dormitory who fetch water and the other does not, so we are used to it.

Reply 16 It's always all kinds of excuses, and sometimes the water runs out when I don't know it

Hide the kettle and don't give it to him.

You don't know your roommate well. Your roommate is either very nervous or ignorant of your feelings. Do attentive people still use you to remind?

In response to the above two attitudes, there is no need to be tactful. Because people with big nerves are more straightforward, the euphemism you said may not be able to react. To the second type of person, you may feel "it's not that serious" and don't take your words to heart, because you are afraid that others will feel uncomfortable and that person may not consider you.

So, just be honest with your roommate, just be calm and polite. Otherwise, you will wait for the next time there is more cat hair in the kitchen, clean up a pile in front of him, and tell him about the dangers of cat hair inhaling the human body.

When you fetch water, break it, and then, tell her that your kettle has also exploded. Since it's hard to say with words, use action. Do you think it's cost-effective to spend a dozen dollars to buy an inner tank?

It's just a personal personality trait, it's too sensitive, you can calm yourself down before you get angry, take a deep breath, and slowly calm down your mood and you won't get angry.

It shows that you are a very assertive person, but also very self-conscious.

1. In this case, if the other party has not expressed anything, and uses your hot water card every time, I suggest that the hot water card let him recharge, or tell him directly, sorry, please settle the hot water cost of the previous month, or the cost of the hot water card We will divide it equally. If it really doesn't work, put the hot water card up, say that you forgot to put **, when you hit the water, avoid it, normal people's words, will understand.

2. Some people, the more you don't say it, the other party will feel that it is right, and it is appropriate to learn to protect their own interests.

Hello, learn to say no! Your embarrassment fuels the kindness of others.

In real life, classmates will meet all kinds of people when they get along, and some of them are not particularly friendly, and they have no problem dealing with others. However, some people just pretend to be confused. Why should your hot water card keep your roommate using for more than a month?

Do you have to learn to say no to others now?

You don't take this so-called kindness and let others make it a habit.

You can make an excuse and say, I'm going to use the hot water card, I'm going to get money, and then put it in my pocket, and the next time he asks you to borrow it, you say I didn't have it.

After he found out, he understood what it meant, don't you say that people think you are willing to let people use it!

So if there is something you have to say, learn to say no.

When you enter the society, if you also have this temper, you will definitely be bullied everywhere, male colleagues will treat you as a fool, stupid, female colleagues will treat you as a spare tire.

So little by little from now on.

You can also pretend to borrow her, or say it directly, I was embarrassed to say it at first, but I found that it was nothing, and the person with good character would consciously transfer the full amount, or when he borrowed it, you said that I had to wash it myself, and there was not much money, why didn't you charge it yourself.

He's embarrassed to borrow, why aren't you embarrassed not to borrow? Some people, maybe you don't borrow, he will say that you are stingy, this kind of person don't care about him, whatever he says!

If you don't mind the little money, it doesn't matter, if you do, just talk to him.

If it is a very good friend, you can directly tell him, what kind of money to give, why don't you wash it......Look at his reaction, if he really doesn't care, don't care, it means that he doesn't treat you as a friend, just say something directly, this is the best way!

Direct rejection is the best option, embarrassed at first, and finally fine, you are in the same situation as you.

I didn't bring it, I didn't take it, I couldn't find it. That's it! It's not easy to go out, and people who love to take advantage of this kind of love can't get used to it.

If you're not short of money, you don't care about the little money. Roommates are also a memory. It's just a little money. Ten years later, you tease him again.

You have to learn to refuse, good people are the easiest to be bullied, and you have to have your own opinions and learn to refuse. Joke with him about the problem, or tactfully talk to him.

Just say, buy one for yourself!

If you can't say anything, just say: I don't have any money, help me charge a little, you use it often anyway.

After saying this, even if he is thick-skinned, he has to make a choice, either pay the fee or stop borrowing from you.

He borrows a hot water card, you borrow other things, make up for each other, love and kill each other, maybe this is your good memory!!

Of course, it could also be the beginning of disaster.

He may have his idea of borrowing your hot water card, but you are too embarrassed not to borrow it, and that's your problem.

Let's put it directly, after all, everyone is a student, and after a long time, people take it for granted, and if something is used for a long time, it will always be embarrassing.

To put it bluntly, many contradictions accumulate over time.

The next time you borrow your card, you say that there is a problem with the money on the card, and you have to reconcile the account, and the card will not be lent during the period.

I can see that he is obviously taking advantage of you, and you will joke next time, Emma, you have washed a lot of water, and you are not afraid of washing bald skin.

Let's just say that your card has no money and has not been recharged.

Say it directly, otherwise you will hold it in your heart, accumulate contradictions, and sooner or later there will be problems.

You lied to him and said that he lent it to someone else, if he saw through you, you would directly ask him to pay back the money, and his brothers would settle the accounts, and if you didn't want to borrow, you should be tough.

In interpersonal communication in life and work, we must know how to refuse and know how to say "no". There's nothing to be ashamed of, you're just roommates, and it's right and necessary to help each other, but you're not obligated to always lend him your hot water card unprincipledly.

When money is involved between people, it is still necessary to be clear and careful to avoid trouble in the future. It is understandable to borrow once or twice occasionally in special circumstances. After a long time and a lot of times, he will feel that this is a matter of course.

If I borrow a hot water card from you, you can say something like, "Oh no, my card can't be found, or my card is ,...... in arrears."

You're getting a bath card, and you'll give her that bath card.

You're okay, my roommate borrowed me a hot water card, five or six dollars less at a time, more than a dozen yuan, there have been dozens of dollars in total, and I haven't given me a dime, the key is that she doesn't feel embarrassed, every time I borrow it, I feel angry and don't send it (I am used to putting the water card in the bathroom).

is also a roommate, there must be some feelings, and it is sometimes difficult to refuse to take advantage of roommates. It is advisable to talk to your roommate about the hot water card, or sometimes it is okay to deliberately not find the card.

Your roommate is a person who likes to take advantage of small things.

Explained it to him directly, or he always did it.

Should the water heater be unplugged when not in use, is it very electricity-consuming? It's not very clear. But I personally think that if the water heater is not in use, it will be unplugged, but if it is used, it will increase the power to boil.

It will feel very draining. If you plug it in often, turn it on when you need to use it, and it saves trouble and electricity, and you don't need to boil water.

The water heater is now plugged in and the water can only be heated for a while, because of the shared building, there must be a lot of people who use water, so for everyone's convenience to use water, the neighbors will live in harmony with each other, and it will not cost much electricity.

Although I have never used an electric water heater, I seem to know that an electric water heater needs to be preheated, and it is very slow, and it takes a long time to reheat it when you unplug it. You only know about saving electricity, and you don't think about saving more important time (maybe your time is not worth as much as electricity).

This question is very simple, you just lack communication, if you come to communicate, there will be nothing, the shared house must be in a hurry to meet together to talk about the rules of the shared house, there is no law is not a circle, what to say in front of it will be fine, I hope you get along in harmony.

The question you asked, I moved to a shared house, and my roommate I didn't know said in the group who pulled out the water heater again, and he was the only one talking in the group, but I don't want to unplug it?

What if you don't unplug it?

There is no way to help you answer such a question, or add relevant information to take a look.

Since it's a shared house, you have to accommodate each other, don't be unhappy because of a little thing, so it's not good to help each other when you go out, so that you can coexist peacefully, so I want to forgive me.

Are you a very picky person, this can use a few electricity, everyone understands each other, the roommate who just came is not familiar, and when you are familiar, you are friends, and you tolerate each other.

If he speaks alone, if you think what he says makes sense, help him fit it in, and if it doesn't make sense, just leave him alone.

Your roommates in the shared building should talk together about how to save electricity and water. I hope you can cooperate. It's okay to understand it.

Say that the card has no money. My classmates are like this, I asked seven or eight people, and they all said that they had no money, and they obviously didn't want to borrow, so how else could they drop!

Directly said not to borrow, and then a senior secretly told us that we would directly close the sluice gate and then remove the credit card machine and finally reinstall it, so that there would be free hot water.