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White lies.
A white lie is beautiful, and this lie is not deception or ill-intentioned. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and it has the power of magic, without any impurity.
A white lie is a lie with good intentions, a nourishment for life, and a driving force for faith. It ignites the flame of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world!!
White lies can make people find a reason to face life with laughter. The white lie is to endow human beings with spirituality, embody the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, and involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.
A white lie can save a terminally ill patient from a dead end and give someone a glimmer of hope. White lies can restore self-confidence and sometimes save a person who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions are universal and.
The various types of white lies ** (20 photos) are divided into particularities, and particularities are included in and distinguished from universality. According to the nature of its white lie, it is not malicious, but based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the malicious lie is the act of seeking benefits for the liar, using strong profit and weak reason, using others only as a means, and not hesitating to harm others. The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject.
And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity.
A white lie can ignite the flame of hope, and who can say that it is not well-intentioned?
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When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.
At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?
When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.
When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?
When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?
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Find some famous quotes to use as an arrangement, and then find a story.
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A white lie is still a lie after all.
Is it really well-intentioned?! —The purpose is very good, but I didn't think about it further: since it is a lie, then it must be false, and if it is false, there must be flaws, as the saying goes, there is no thatched house that does not leak for three years, and the lie cannot escape the fate of being seen through after all, and at that time, I am afraid that it will hurt even more!
Or is it a kind of excuse for yourself?! — It's a lie, but you have to add a "well-intentioned" embellishment to yourself, which seems a little unkind.
To be honest, I believe in the first interpretation more because I believe in people. But I don't want to talk about that right now, but I want to talk about how we can tell the truth without hurting the other person.
There is no absolute truth, and there is no absolute truth! Many people always like to add "fact" to enhance their persuasiveness, which shows how magical the truth is! So how do we reflect the facts to each other without causing any trouble?
There is a sentence on the reader: The rushing river is not escaping, but advancing. In fact, whether it is escape or enterprising, none of us knows, go ask the river!
But to see all things with my heart, and all things are colored by me, to say that it is to escape, because we stand behind it, away from us; It's aggressive because it's coming at us – both of which are true, and no one can deny it.
Therefore, if you want to tell the facts, if you want to tell the facts that do not cause harm, then you have to have a trade-off from the perspective of looking at the problem, and look at the problem from a perspective that is beneficial to everyone, so that the angle is different, and the answer to the question is different, but it is true, and there is no need for lies, and there is no need for white lies! Because it's always easy for people to believe and accept the facts.
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A white lie is a good motive to defend the purpose of others.
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Everyone must learn to understand the "white lie" and use it, which is a comfort and encouragement to the world. So there should be "white lies" in life. These are also compulsory courses for human beings.
White lies are beautiful. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and has magical power.
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1: You've been talking about kindness, so are you a kind person?
Yes. 2: Do you think that if you are good, others will think you are good?
This needs everyone's evaluation!!
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I think raw bai
Needed in life. du's white lie, as far as I know, there is an example of this, an old man with bad eyes went to the hospital for a check-up and learned that he had cancer, and he asked his son to read the medical check-up, but his son concealed his true illness and told him that he had only a minor illness, as long as he could be cured through minor surgical drugs, this white lie gave the old man the confidence to ** the disease. Finally walked onto the operating table with an optimistic attitude and ** cancer. This story teaches us that white lies are indispensable in life.
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There is a custom word for the lie we talked about today, and that is bai - goodwill. Good intentions mean good du. Yes, lies are very hateful, but with this definition, dao goodwill, it becomes good.
It is well known that when a person is terminally ill, he can self-decadent, but if his family and doctors had told him a white lie, the outcome would have been completely different. White lies, can you say it's deceitful?No, because it doesn't stand in the way of integrity, it's just a comforting lie.
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The starting point of a white lie is a good drop
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