What does it mean to grow up?

You're growing up all the time.

That's just physical and age.

If you are prone to impulsiveness.

When you can calm down, you grow up.

If you are lost.

When you're no longer confused, it's growing up.

If you're sentimental.

When you become sunny, you grow up.

If you are vulnerable.

When you become strong, you grow.

A lot of things are uncertain.

When you slowly change in your thoughts and psychology as well as in your behavior.

You've grown up.

Think more about the people around you.

Especially parents.

Think about things in many ways.

Then you'll get a more comprehensive result.

Anyway, growing up is only relative.

No matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in front of his parents. I can only say whether it is mature or not. This is not only about physical maturity, but also about psychological maturity. As long as you have experienced it and understood it, then it is growth.

I think growing up is not how old you are, but your personal social experience, and the accumulation of so on, if you reach a certain level, others will naturally find out from your speech and demeanor! ~

Growing up, it's up to you to know for yourself, every face"Grow up"These two words have different opinions, some people say that they will grow up when they are eighteen years old, and some people say that they will grow up when they are sensible!

After experiencing a lot, people will understand and understand a lot, and they will gradually grow in life. Growth is a change in thinking, a change in consciousness, a change in emotion, and a change in dealing with things.

As one grows older, one's mind slowly matures. Know how to make money, know how to think about others, know how to care and be considerate, etc.! That's what you grow up with!

When you care about others, you feel that your parents and people who love you are giving, you are not so stingy when you speak, and you are not so dependent on others.

When you're not asking.

When you feel like you're seeing something wrong.

When you hesitate a lot.

You're not asking that question, it's too big.

Before doing things, consider whether it is worth it or not, and basically give up what is not worth it.

When you don't struggle with this problem, you grow up.

The real growth is when I wish I didn't grow up.

It's when you start to be sensible, and you're considered to be big.

Growing up means you.

It is necessary to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility

Sensible, knows right from wrong, and doesn't play petty,

In the hearts of your parents, you will never grow up.

To grow up. You'll have to go through some wind and rain.

You can leave Mom and Dad.

When you are willing to let go of the past in your heart, you have grown up.

I think when children are sensible, then they will grow up. A child's sensibility can be reflected in the following two aspects:

1. When children have their own ideas.

As the child grows up day by day, parents will find "Hey, why don't children listen to me anymore?" I said east, she wants to go west? ”

I believe that this is the first reaction of some parents when they are faced with their children's "disobedience", but I would like to say the opposite. It is because of the growth of the child, which is also a long-term and long process, and the flowering period of each child will be different, maybe your child will suddenly open up at a certain moment, and the child will understand more truths and learn more skills.

This kind of growth becomes a kind of nourishment, which promotes the child's continuous self-exploration, and the child can make judgments based on his own thinking, which is a sense of independence.

Second, when the rotten child is no longer dependent.

Mothers work hard to take care of their babies in infancy, and their daily time is basically spent on their children. There will be an effective bond between the mother and the child, and the child will develop a sense of trust and dependence on the mother.

And when you find that your child seems to be slowly no longer a follower and no longer depends on you for everything, please don't show loss, on the contrary, you should be happy, because it shows that your child is growing up.

A child's life development will go through many stages, early childhood children gradually begin to have their own consciousness and independent ideas, childhood children slowly form, adolescent children are the most dry. This is a necessary stage of every child's life development, so parents must learn to understand and deal with it calmly, and understand the child's growth process.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, from the day I became a parent, I hope that my child will grow up quickly, so that it will be easy. In fact, if you want to be a worry-free parent, you must first cultivate a well-behaved and sensible child.

It is not difficult to find in life that most of the well-behaved children who know how to search for defeat and are praised by adults have one quality: they have good living habits! It is the formation of good habits that makes children look different, which is what I said Gao Sen's growth.

There is nothing to rely on, only to know that it has been established.

When he is obviously uncomfortable, but he pretends to be optimistic to persuade others. When everything happens, I can't wait to think about the whole world and finally think of myself. Everything in the adult world is forcing you to grow up.

When the side from classmates, to colleagues.

When you can live comfortably alone.

Growing up is gradually starting to do things that you didn't want to do before.

Growing up may be a process of carrying it while hurting.

No more casual communication, no more casual trust.

Suddenly when I grew up, I was going to leave this home when I introduced my boyfriend to my parents.

When I started to worry that if I didn't work hard, I wouldn't be able to live next month.

Flipping through the graduation photos, I knew that I would never go back.

One day you find that you are the only one left in the world, no confiding, no hypocrisy, only strong.

I think that getting married and starting a family is the real way to grow up, and a person or a partner has to support a family. I have an extra responsibility, and I am no longer the need in the eyes of my parents. It's a kid who cares about this and that.

It is the real growth, for adults to support a family independently. So you're in. Some of the problems you face in your life and work may need to be considered more.

A little more detailed, then. As a result, your circle of friends will also undergo some changes.

Because friendship is also a very important part of our lives, we must cherish friendship and learn to have good communication with friends, so that life will become better

1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Treat others with respect.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise each other.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

I think the real growth is that you are no longer a child, you can do a lot of things that you want to do, you are no longer a child, you have to learn to take care of yourself, you can take care of others, you can do a lot of things that you want to do, and you are no longer a child. You have to learn to be independent. I think that's how I grew up.

In fact, I think that real growth is a person who can do what he wants to do independently, no longer need to trouble his family, no longer need their care, but can do what he wants to do independently. This is a real upbringing. Hello!

Real growing up means that you can do what you want to do by yourself, you don't need to trouble others, you don't need to rely on others, you have to learn to be independent. To really grow up is to be able to do whatever you want to do, without worrying about other people's thoughts and other people's eyes. Growing up really means that you can do a lot of things you want to do, and you can do a lot of things you want to do independently.