When the baby is upset, he screams loudly, what s wrong

1. Empathy: Do you feel that you want your child to be stronger?

2. Concretization: Can you give examples of specific manifestations of your child's anxiety, irritability, and crying?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

a It is effective to use such expressions of emotions to solve problems: no matter what form children use to express emotions, as long as they feel that these expressions are effective, they will use them again and again.

Solution: If parents pay less attention to these behaviors, then children will naturally not respond with such behaviors. But not paying attention is not the same as completely "indifferent", parents should also maintain relative concern for their children, and after the child's "mood" is over, what should be done and how to do it with the child.

b The child's willpower is insufficient: In the process of growing up, he may not have suffered too many setbacks, and in the face of frustration, he will solve the frustration by crying, so that others will lower the standard of demand for the child.

Solution: Carry out corresponding willpower exercises, let children take responsibility for their own affairs, let them understand that "crying" cannot solve the problem, but parents should give appropriate encouragement and support to help them build self-confidence.

c There are other deep-seated reasons: the child's emotional instability may be due to anxiety, anger, aggression and other emotions from the family.

Solution: Have a deeper understanding of the family situation, talk to the child alone if possible, assess whether the child is emotionally stable, and guide the child to seek professional help if he feels different from the usual child.

It's okay, if it's a happy shout, it proves that the baby is fine! And it will be smarter than some children and will learn things, if it is a painful shout, of course it will not work.

I think that as parents, we must communicate with our children, tell them that we can solve problems through communication, and express our thoughts.

You can calm down and guide the child after yelling unhappily, and correctly guide the child to tell him that yelling can't solve the problem, because the bigger the temper, the smaller the ability, if you want something, you can directly explain it well, yelling is also a very disrespectful and impolite behavior, and it will not be pleasing to people.

I think this habit of the child is also related to your usual education of him, first of all, you have to correct this attitude of your parents in life, and then you can tell the child that yelling is not right, and if you are unhappy in the future, you can talk to your mother instead of yelling.

You can choose a laissez-faire mode, when he yells, parents ignore him, don't coax him, don't care about him, let him make trouble alone, and then he himself feels bored and will not be like this again.

At this time, we must strengthen the child's guidance in this regard, and when the child is unhappy, we must communicate calmly and patiently with the child, and we must help him correct this bad habit.

In such a situation, I think you should accompany your child more, and you should also communicate more with your child to understand your child's true thoughts, and at the same time, you should actively guide your child, tell your child that such behavior will not solve the problem, and you should also face it with your child and adjust your child's mentality.

I think that when a child yells, you should leave him alone, and because the consequences of yelling must be borne by the child himself, then the child will change from the heart, and I think this is okay.

The first thing is to let the child know that this kind of yelling behavior is not correct, and let the child know that when encountering something, he should deal with it as soon as possible, instead of making himself unhappy and yelling, this kind of behavior is very uneducated, and will be hated by many people.

If this happens to the child, as a parent, you must first communicate calmly and correctly with the child, telling the child that it is very incorrect to do so, and that the child will correct it immediately as long as it is corrected.

1.Strengthen parent-child communication: Mom and dad should take some time to communicate with the baby every day, such as taking time to chat with the baby every day, tell small stories, play small games, etc., and accurately understand the baby's emotions.

It's easy to have a child, it's hard to raise a child, children will encounter this or that thing in the process of growing up, sometimes physically, sometimes psychologically, now more and more bear children always make their parents angry, they have a very prominent feature is that they like to yell, so why do children always not talk well? Let's talk about Shenyang Kyushu below.

1.The baby feels neglected.

Babies always want to be able to get the attention of adults, which is not only the baby's physiological needs and safety needs, but also an indispensable psychological and emotional needs, once they feel that they are ignored by their parents, they will take aggressive behavior or shout loudly because of a lack of security to express their dissatisfaction, to re-attract the attention of parents, some parents, especially after giving birth to the second baby, will feel that the big baby likes to shout loudly at every turn, like to sing against the parents. Actually, this is just to send a signal to Mom and Dad that you have left me out in the cold.

2.Your baby is stressed.

If the baby is criticized by the teacher in the kindergarten, or drinks other children will not get along well, there will be a certain degree of pressure, but due to the lack of experience in dealing with things at a young age, they will not contact this inner pressure by themselves, when the accumulated pressure is too large or lasts too long, the baby will become irritable, will use shouting and other ways to express their emotions, which is the way for the baby to vent.

3.Babies want to achieve their goals.

Some children want something, and if their parents won't meet their demands for a while, they will shout loudly to get their parents to compromise. There are also some children who, when they are engaged in something, if interrupted by their parents, will vent their anger through loud shouting and other tantrums.