Why did Lao Lin send Lin Daiyu to her grandmother s house? Can t you afford it yourself?

The first question: The reason why Lin Ruhai sent Daiyu to Jiafu is that the dream of Red Mansions has already said, "It is a coincidence that the fate of the sky, due to the death of the lowly Jing, the mother-in-law of the Duzhong family remembered that the little girl had no one to rely on to educate, and had sent a male and female boat to pick it up, because the little girl had not been cured, so she did not have time to "from" this Lin Ruhai's surname Lin Minghai, the word is like the sea, it is a former conviction of Tanhua, and now it has been promoted to the doctor of Lantai Temple. It turns out that the ancestor of this forest is like the sea, and he has attacked the liehous, and now he is like the sea, and he has passed through five generations.

At the beginning, only the third generation was sealed, because of the current Longen Shengde, far ahead of the previous generation, extra grace, to the father of the sea, another generation; As far as the sea, he was born from Kodi. Although it is the home of Zhong Ding, it is also a family of scholars. It can be seen from this passage that the Lin family is not without money, but her grandmother Daiyu wants to see her granddaughter.

As for Lin died later, Daiyu didn't go back.

The second question: After Lin Daiyu's death, the coffin returned home.

It's like this in the book, every sentence, every scene, is meant to lead to the following. If Daiyu hadn't gone to her grandmother's house, she wouldn't have had this peerless love with Baoyu that made the world cry and melancholy. The original book does not write about the aftermath of Daiyu's death, so that readers can slowly reverie, think, and understand the profound charm in this tragedy.

This is called unfinished.

No, it was Daiyu's grandmother who felt sorry for Daiyu without a mother and was afraid of being wronged, so she took it.

In the original work, it was not written that Daiyu would deal with the aftermath after her death, but it was written that everyone heard the sound of fairy music in the air, implying that Daiyu was gone.

First, in order to satisfy Jia's mother's wish to miss her granddaughter and want to take over and raise her; the second is that there are female elders who love Daiyu and are carefully raised, and they will definitely be able to marry a good family in the future;

The third is that the patriarchal atmosphere in feudal society is too serious, maybe Grandma Daiyu doesn't like girls like Jia's mother and won't pay attention to Daiyu's upbringing;

Fourth, if they are handed over to their uncles to raise, they are not as good as Daiyu after all, and Daiyu may be a Shi Xiangyun again, and he doesn't want his daughter to be wronged.

So to sum up, entrusting Daiyu to Jia's mother is the best choice.

The main thing is that there are many constraints in feudal society, and generally without a mother's family, it must be renewed, and when the time comes, it will be bullied, and it will be sent to Jiafu to comfort Jia's mother for losing her daughter's heart, and second, to stay away from disputes, if it is a modern society, you can have money.

There is an important reason, Jia's mother heard that Jia Min had passed away, she felt sorry for her daughter, and she also wanted to see Daiyu, Lin Ruhai was not easy to shirk as a son-in-law. At the same time, he also knew that there were few people in the family, and hoped that Daiyu would take this opportunity to enter Beijing to see the world, and to be better under the upbringing of his grandmother and the company of his cousins.

For the sake of Lin Daiyu's future, generally without the protection of her mother, she will be bullied more or less at home, and she can stay away from family disputes when she is sent to Jiafu.

The father's family may not have the strength and the idea to raise an orphan girl. And Daiyu's grandmother's family has a financial foundation, and her grandmother misses her granddaughter very much.

One is because Daiyu has no mother, so she will definitely be bullied, and the other is that the conditions in Jiafu are much better than her own family, and her life is more secure.

Didn't you see that the Jia family has been together for generations? In ancient times, there was no such thing as sending grandma's house, because they all lived together. It is only possible that Daiyu's grandmother has passed away a long time ago, and there is no one in the Lin family who can take care of Daiyu, so she went to her grandmother's house.

One: My family is too poor to support.

2: Later, Lin Zhixiao's family came to visit Baoyu, and as soon as Baoyu heard the word Lin, he said that the Lin family came to pick up Sister Lin, and Jia's mother was busy saying that there was no one in the Lin family, and the surname Lin was dead.

Lin Ruhai sent Daiyu away not because he didn't want to raise her, but for Daiyu's future, in order to prepare her daughter's future life security, sending her to Jiafu was the best choice.

There is only one reason - if you don't arrange it this way, you can't write it down.

It's not a modern society, it's divided into grandma's house, grandma's house, and they must all live with grandma, only when grandma's house is empty, it will be connected to grandma's house.

is for the sake of Lin Daiyu's future, Jia Min's death has caused a big blow to Shi Taijun, and sending Lin Daiyu over can give the old man a little comfort.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Lin Daiyu's grandmother is not mentioned at all, so Lin Daiyu's grandmother may have passed away, and the Lin family is not prosperous, Lin Daiyu has no brothers and sisters, and Jia's mother insisted on picking up Daiyu, so she was taken to live at her grandmother's house.

In ancient times, Lin Ruhai had no sons, and after his death, his property was owned by his family, which can also be understood as hegemony. So Lin Daiyu can't inherit it. Therefore, Lin Ruhai entrusted Lin Daiyu and his own property to the Jia family, and the property was used as Lin Daiyu's dowry.

But in the end, the Jia family used Lin Daiyu's dowry to repair the Grand View Garden.

Lin Daiyu's grandmother said that she was over half a hundred years old, but in fact she was already frail and sickly, and she knew that she would not have a few years left, so she had to separate her flesh and blood for the sake of her granddaughter's future.

It's not that her grandmother didn't raise her, but her grandmother died early, and later her mother also died, and her father couldn't raise her alone, so she could only send Lin Daiyu to her grandmother's house and let her grandmother raise her.

Her father is about to be half a hundred years old, and her grandmother has passed away a long time ago.

Without so many words to explain, four words: writing needs.

Lin Daiyu was not raised by her grandmother's family because her grandmother's family, that is, Jia's mother invited Lin Daiyu to live in Jiafu, because Jia's mother missed her daughter Jia Min too much, so she wanted to meet this granddaughter Lin Daiyu.

I think it's because Lin Daiyu's grandmother's family has declined, so Lin Daiyu was not raised by her grandmother's family.

Because the Lin family is not prosperous, Lin Ruhai's high hall is long gone.

The Lin family is scarce, and Lin Daiyu's grandfather and grandmother also passed away.

3 After thinking about it, her father had to send Lin Daiyu to her grandmother's house. And at that time, Lin Ruhai knew what his body was, Lin Ruhai's body had always been frail and sickly, and since the death of his wife Jia Min, he was also very sad. The new illness and the old illness are together**, and he knows that he has no more years to live.

So while he was still in the house, he hurriedly arranged his daughter's future life, otherwise he couldn't arrange it when he passed away in the future. It's just that I didn't expect Lin Daiyu to meet Jia Baoyu, and finally the fragrance jade fell.

It's not that he didn't raise him, but because after Jia Min died, his father couldn't raise Lin Daiyu alone, and Lin Daiyu's grandmother may have passed away a long time ago, so his father sent her to his grandmother's house.

This may be Lin Daiyu's father, considering that his grandmother is the person who loves Lin Daiyu the most, and he is an official outside, so he can't take care of his daughter all the time. I am afraid that Lin Daiyu's grandmother and the concubine at home will make her angry, and Lin Daiyu's grandmother is an ancestor in Jiafu, and no one dares to bully Lin Daiyu. And grandma doesn't love her daughter's children, so it's best to send Lin Daiyu to grandma's house.

After Lin Daiyu's parents died, the Lin family's family fell into disarray. In such a context, the financial pressure on an old man raising a girl must be very great. And at that time, Daiyu's grandmother's family was a big family, and the economic conditions were also very good, so she could give Lin Daiyu a worry-free life.

First of all, Father Lin knew that his time was running out, and there was no male in the family, so he wanted to find a support for Lin Daiyu, and secondly, it was also for Lin Daiyu to have a better future.